At 23 you should know that two spoonfuls of Caffeine is not good for you
"should" is a funny word.
Some people think that I "should" be a certain way, but I am not, and they get upset with me. I don't think that I "should" be that way.
Some people think nobody "should" use drugs, but I don't agree.
This has caused me to question the use of the word "should".
23 may sound like a fully-grown adult to you, but it sounds pretty young to me. Old enough to kill or die in war, to drink, and to vote, granted, but still very young to have much life experience.
Regardless of the age, someone didn't know or understand the limits. Maybe he thought it was "cut", and only contained a small amount of caffeine. Maybe he was too drunk or high to realize what was happening. Maybe his friend, who bought the caffeine, made an offhand comment like "don't take all of it", meant to be a joke, but he interpreted it as a challenge. Who knows what he might have been thinking?
If he did not understand the typical dosage of caffeine or the makeup of the substance before him, "should" we reserve our pity or sympathy, instead looking down on him, since we, ourselves, would certainly never make such a mistake?
I would prefer to understand the situation as one of my brothers in this world fucking up bad. Poor guy. I feel sorry for his family. Are you saying that he/they don't deserve our sympathy because he didn't know some fact that you, who are on the crew of a drug discussion website, knew?
Is there a list of things people have to know to garner your sympathy? Does the list include anything that you, yourself, don't know, or is it made entirely of facts that you have mastered?
Your sympathy for your fellow human beings sounds very expensive.
I would prefer mine to be cheap, or even free. Having an attitude that I am superior to someone who died because of his mistakes doesn't bring me any joy or peace.