A kid will ABSOLUTELY RUIN YOUR LIFE. "
no, what will actually happen is, you will ruin the one chance your kid has for life
A kid will ABSOLUTELY RUIN YOUR LIFE. "
so what part of starting a new family, do you find disgusting ?
Her not being able to make up her mind ,shows she still sees the Good side of the relationshipshe has been having thoughts of breaking up with me for a while now, and can't make up her mind
Here we see she has finished the relaionship while in a rage, and we all know we say and do things we regret while over come with Angershe woke up the other morning freaking out on me
Heres the reason for finishing it,, and its somthing that CAN be fixed,all the things I'd ever done wrong
This is obviously not the best way to interpret , what she feels you have done wrongAxefaxer7;13368318 said:blah blah
Stu, this person is asking for serious perspective and advice.
You've made your obsessive prejudice against women's right to choose well known already.
As this forum is about harm reduction, most of us are interested in providing compassionate, open-minded information - based on our experiences and knowledge.
Your lecturing diatribes have no place here, i would suggest you learn how to show some respect in discussing these sensitive matters of keep them to your self.
How dare you tell people what they should do in this situation?
You don't know the OP - none of us do.
As for the pregnant ex-girlfriend? She's got autonomy over her own body, as she damn well should have in a civilised society.
Trolls don't last very long around here.
Oh thats cute.. you pretty much told him to go pay to have his baby killed, un fuckin believable,
but later that day, she called me and said she's PREGNANT. she wants to have an abbortion and be done with everything. my QUESTION is, is it really that easy for a girl to go through with a complete split up after something like this happens, or in most situations like these, would girls become attached and not be able to give up so easy. I'm simply baffled that she could do such a thing. thoughts and advice ?
My wife had our first Child at 17 and i was 18, he is 23 now and is still sitting right next to me ,I wouldnt have it any other way, when i look back on what was so hard about the baby / toddler years, and yes they are the hardest, Its purely the time that we have to give up for ourselfs and give to the child, This isnt a problem for the first few months because your filled with joy that you have this amazing new gift, and your willing to sacrafice anything for them, its only after the repetitiveness of 24 hour care kicks in that you realize, you dont have the freedom of choice you used to have, well tough shit, sure you cant go out and party as much, and you cant choose how long you have to sleep, one of you has to bust their arse and bring in the cash, there aint no time to spend together as a family, baby doesnt really do much apart from feed sleep cry and crap. but then you hit 3-4 months and you see that first smile, then 5-6 months and you get a laugh, 8-9 months your sure he just said his first word, before you know it hes walking around , picking things up and giving massive cuddles. , once you get over freaking out that you cant do any of the things you used to, you realize theres a millon better things to do right here.
Now could everybody stop being such baby haters, its really starting to piss me off
How many kids have you got Apathiest, if you dont mind me asking ?
Yep, unless you are 110% committed to changing your entire lifestyle, and I mean everything.