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just curious about some other peoples perspectives or experiences here
my gf and i dont call ourselves swingers. its just not really a culture we identify with. i wont speak my opinions on "swing culture" here, but i just feel im on a totally diff wavelength. we are, however, sexually adventurous hedonists, social anarchists, and huge sluts.
we love being watched, and we love watching others. we love it when this happens simultaneously. we love sleeping with other couples, or even a single.
but this is not an easy thing to arrange. were pretty picky, leaning moreso to peoples world views and philosophical idioms rather than depending on a stacked ass or what physical traits have you. this means were probably not going to guarantee a hot sexual experience exactly as we like it all the time. its not an easy thing to create with another couple, though certainly easier to find a 3rd to join.
but, weve recently discovered we really like just having another couple watch us fuck on skype. i thought the idea was kind of weird at first, but im really paranoid about the internet and whatnot. the first time we did it, i was hard before we had even introduced ourselves to our audience, and we pretty much stopped chatting and started fucking within a few minutes.
its pretty good for like, a tuesday night and were horny as fuck and want to be a bit more adventurous. its not difficult to get a really attractive girl to watch us, especially if my girlfriend is doing the talking (women just put each other in that "safe" place so much easier). its also nice to see single women dont mind being very sexual themselves on the other end, once we've taken the lead. with another couple tho, more often than not, we find they shy out. it usually happens that we find someone seeking someone like us to perform for. they will claim theyre wanting to be watched on camera, and we will begin chatting, theyll giggle and get shy and get a bit stage fright. this is ok, im not judging anyone, but im amazed to see how many people "are really horny" but prefer to keep their clothes on and be a non-participant.
so im gathering two things: a lot of young couples are just discovering this out, and more often than not, youre going to run into someone just testing the waters. the other, is that plenty of people get off more by entertaining the possibility, rather than the engaging in the action itself. thats not so cool, but whateva. another thing im noticing - people are usually "surprised" when we start getting it on, or if were already naked when the camera comes on. im always thinking, "if you have a profile stating ur trying to do something sexual, why are you surprised when youre chatting with a naked person?"
so im wondering, if anyone else has an opinion or insight on this. im new to social media period - ive been writing social media software my whole life and do not wish to be an end user
. so im a bit detached from online culture these days. my girlfriend is rather technologically naive. are my assumptions accurate? or is it simply random chance we havent found very many wednesday-evening-delighters with an insatiable itch like ourselves?
the real thing is always better, but man, its pretty fun fucking on camera. dont understand why there arent more of "us" out there.
my gf and i dont call ourselves swingers. its just not really a culture we identify with. i wont speak my opinions on "swing culture" here, but i just feel im on a totally diff wavelength. we are, however, sexually adventurous hedonists, social anarchists, and huge sluts.
we love being watched, and we love watching others. we love it when this happens simultaneously. we love sleeping with other couples, or even a single.
but this is not an easy thing to arrange. were pretty picky, leaning moreso to peoples world views and philosophical idioms rather than depending on a stacked ass or what physical traits have you. this means were probably not going to guarantee a hot sexual experience exactly as we like it all the time. its not an easy thing to create with another couple, though certainly easier to find a 3rd to join.
but, weve recently discovered we really like just having another couple watch us fuck on skype. i thought the idea was kind of weird at first, but im really paranoid about the internet and whatnot. the first time we did it, i was hard before we had even introduced ourselves to our audience, and we pretty much stopped chatting and started fucking within a few minutes.
its pretty good for like, a tuesday night and were horny as fuck and want to be a bit more adventurous. its not difficult to get a really attractive girl to watch us, especially if my girlfriend is doing the talking (women just put each other in that "safe" place so much easier). its also nice to see single women dont mind being very sexual themselves on the other end, once we've taken the lead. with another couple tho, more often than not, we find they shy out. it usually happens that we find someone seeking someone like us to perform for. they will claim theyre wanting to be watched on camera, and we will begin chatting, theyll giggle and get shy and get a bit stage fright. this is ok, im not judging anyone, but im amazed to see how many people "are really horny" but prefer to keep their clothes on and be a non-participant.
so im gathering two things: a lot of young couples are just discovering this out, and more often than not, youre going to run into someone just testing the waters. the other, is that plenty of people get off more by entertaining the possibility, rather than the engaging in the action itself. thats not so cool, but whateva. another thing im noticing - people are usually "surprised" when we start getting it on, or if were already naked when the camera comes on. im always thinking, "if you have a profile stating ur trying to do something sexual, why are you surprised when youre chatting with a naked person?"
so im wondering, if anyone else has an opinion or insight on this. im new to social media period - ive been writing social media software my whole life and do not wish to be an end user
. so im a bit detached from online culture these days. my girlfriend is rather technologically naive. are my assumptions accurate? or is it simply random chance we havent found very many wednesday-evening-delighters with an insatiable itch like ourselves?the real thing is always better, but man, its pretty fun fucking on camera. dont understand why there arent more of "us" out there.
