ive been struggling with this too....
but for awhile I was not masturbating at all for like 2 - 3 months... I would have tons of wet dreams but it was worth it ( and those dreams can be fun anyways) I felt an increase in confidence, energy, pursuit of women, ; I was pumped up, i wanted someone to fuck with me so i could kick their ass (in a good way , sorta feeling though)
porn is really bad for your mind/brain and fucks up your sex life, feelings towards women, etc etc. . It is awesome though, at first, feels like you discovered the teasure trove, but its not true.