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Am I wrong to feel like my husband is cheating on me when he watches porn?

if you don't like it that's fine don't judge or push your problems on him. or be a trooper and enjoy it with him no reason for stuck up shotty bitch behavior. don't like him watching other chicks get fucked make your own with him .
 
for women sex is an emotional and physical activity for men its visually and physically. so watch with him he gets his visual you get your emotional and both get the pysical.
 
I doubt you are viewing this or reading it; but it's porn. It's not like he's actually cheating with other people.

Maybe ask him if you can both watch porn together, or watch a porn together that you like?

Would you consider it to be 'cheating' if you yourself watched porn, or masturbated to sexy fictional stories, or people who you saw in public or know who are not your husband?
 
Pagey said:
I understand the feeling of infidelity considering he's been keeping it a secret from you, but it really is essential to remember that watching porn is an incredibly detached act. It doesn't say anything about you or his feelings.
Do you know why he might be watching so much of it? Maybe you should reconsider your sex life? (Not making any judgements, just throwing ideas out)

If it bothers you that much I'd speculate it's probably a big self-confidence issue on your part, in which case I'd urge you to try and address that first and foremost. Good luck, hope things get better <3
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That is an incredibly insightful post from a female nonetheless. I knew there were women with the self-confidence to address the real issue(s) at hand, in many instances at least. It is sometimes very hard to turn that lens around to look at ourselves. However, often it is the real issue at hand. Thank you for your post Pagey
 
You have got to be crazy...no offence to the females, but I swear all females are serious crazies sometimes (even though I love'm ")). I mean, my missus got upset once because I cheated on her in her DREAM!

Women think emotionally. They are not logical thinkers, therefore their decisions are made based on how they feel. You did not like it that he was hiding, so you felt like you "busted" him. So now you THINK he is cheating on you with porn....bloody hell. Men do stuff like this in secret. It is our time. He may not want you to watch the type of stuff he likes, or how he gets off on his own.

We can not involve you in ALL aspects of our lives. There will ALWAYS be some little secret, without.fail...get over it.
 
teological said:
You have got to be crazy...no offence to the females, but I swear all females are serious crazies sometimes (even though I love'm ")). I mean, my missus got upset once because I cheated on her in her DREAM!

Women think emotionally. They are not logical thinkers, therefore their decisions are made based on how they feel. You did not like it that he was hiding, so you felt like you "busted" him. So now you THINK he is cheating on you with porn....bloody hell. Men do stuff like this in secret. It is our time. He may not want you to watch the type of stuff he likes, or how he gets off on his own.

We can not involve you in ALL aspects of our lives. There will ALWAYS be some little secret, without.fail...get over it.
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You sure there isn't someone more specific you wanna be saying this too? lol
 
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