sunnycidal
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Hey guys, this might be a long post but please bare with me:
I have been smoking weed for about 3-4 years, I started when I was around 19 years old. I enjoyed smoking it regularly with friends and occasionally when I was alone at night, but nothing too excessive. Fast forward a couple of years later to when my life took a turn for the worst: I was having severe issues with relationships, with the law and with myself - to the point where I became "addicted" to weed, i.e., was smoking weed by myself all day everyday for months. I became depressed, cut out a lot of good people unintentionally from my life and basically stopped smoking with other people, I would only smoke insane amounts by myself (my life was a mess). I would wake up, smoke a joint and just go through 4-5 joints to myself all throughout the day, going through work and school stoned as ****.
Fast forward to recent aka this year, I managed to break myself out of the daily habit and get myself back on track with school and life. I've gone long periods of several months without smoking weed. However, recently, I've gotten in contact with a new dealer and began buying occasionally. My issue now is that despite going months without smoking weed, it seems every time I buy I have NO WILL POWER WHATSOEVER. It doesn't matter what commitments I have the next day or what I'm doing, if I have weed at home/on me, it seems I will always go out of my way to smoke some weed by myself.
I just have no control over myself, I guess this is what addiction is. I guess with my past it is to be expected, but I kind of wish I can go back to the old days where I can have a bag of weed on me and only smoke it on weekends or a little bit by myself. Now if I have a bag, the thought of smoking a .5 joint to myself at night always seems like such a great idea and before I know it, I've burnt through an entire set by myself in less than a week. It'll start out as a joint per day at night and slowly progress to smoking first thing in the morning all through the day until I've run out. The thing is, I'll finish the bag I bought and go back to being ~sober and functional~ and all about school for weeks on end, but the moment I buy weed again, it's like I fall back into my state of addiction where I just have to be stoned all the time because the weed is there. I've also noticed I don't really like smoking weed with other people anymore, mainly just stoning myself into oblivion by myself.
I really do love weed and I want to get to a place where I can have weed on me and be able to have enough self-control to smoke occasionally, perhaps only on weekends. I was just wondering if anyone can give any advice? I know the obvious answer is to abstain permanently, but I'm wonder if anyone has gone through anything similar and can pass on some insight or tips on how to moderate my usage.
Thanks for the help
I have been smoking weed for about 3-4 years, I started when I was around 19 years old. I enjoyed smoking it regularly with friends and occasionally when I was alone at night, but nothing too excessive. Fast forward a couple of years later to when my life took a turn for the worst: I was having severe issues with relationships, with the law and with myself - to the point where I became "addicted" to weed, i.e., was smoking weed by myself all day everyday for months. I became depressed, cut out a lot of good people unintentionally from my life and basically stopped smoking with other people, I would only smoke insane amounts by myself (my life was a mess). I would wake up, smoke a joint and just go through 4-5 joints to myself all throughout the day, going through work and school stoned as ****.
Fast forward to recent aka this year, I managed to break myself out of the daily habit and get myself back on track with school and life. I've gone long periods of several months without smoking weed. However, recently, I've gotten in contact with a new dealer and began buying occasionally. My issue now is that despite going months without smoking weed, it seems every time I buy I have NO WILL POWER WHATSOEVER. It doesn't matter what commitments I have the next day or what I'm doing, if I have weed at home/on me, it seems I will always go out of my way to smoke some weed by myself.
I just have no control over myself, I guess this is what addiction is. I guess with my past it is to be expected, but I kind of wish I can go back to the old days where I can have a bag of weed on me and only smoke it on weekends or a little bit by myself. Now if I have a bag, the thought of smoking a .5 joint to myself at night always seems like such a great idea and before I know it, I've burnt through an entire set by myself in less than a week. It'll start out as a joint per day at night and slowly progress to smoking first thing in the morning all through the day until I've run out. The thing is, I'll finish the bag I bought and go back to being ~sober and functional~ and all about school for weeks on end, but the moment I buy weed again, it's like I fall back into my state of addiction where I just have to be stoned all the time because the weed is there. I've also noticed I don't really like smoking weed with other people anymore, mainly just stoning myself into oblivion by myself.
I really do love weed and I want to get to a place where I can have weed on me and be able to have enough self-control to smoke occasionally, perhaps only on weekends. I was just wondering if anyone can give any advice? I know the obvious answer is to abstain permanently, but I'm wonder if anyone has gone through anything similar and can pass on some insight or tips on how to moderate my usage.
Thanks for the help