Serious relationship problem
Well yall I never thought Id be in this position AGAIN! My lady and I of over a year had an abortion months back. Since then we have been waiting for her to get on birth control. Being as shes a diabetic her options are limited. She has to be on her period in order to get the device put in. Well, she got pregnant again. Basically to make this story short I personally do not want kids and she knew that. She keep stalling and waiting for months. I know I am to blame here as well. She agreed to have another abortion but at the cost of our relationship.
I love this women and want to spend my life with her but am afraid its too late. The more I talk, the more wrong things come out of my mouth and the situation gets worse. She packed my things and told me to hit the road. Ive never been in such an emotional roller coaster. We had our lives planned out. I was going to move in early next year. We were going to travel a bit and enjoy life. I have no idea what to do and If I even have a chance of winning her back. At times I feel like I'm a POS for putting her through this again. Things were going amazing and I was looking forward to spending my years with her. A child now will only ruin things as we both are struggling and trying to break into a new carrier. On top of countless family and health problems. Ahhh man sometimes life sure throws you a curve ball. Hope you all have an amazing weekend!
Well yall I never thought Id be in this position AGAIN! My lady and I of over a year had an abortion months back. Since then we have been waiting for her to get on birth control. Being as shes a diabetic her options are limited. She has to be on her period in order to get the device put in. Well, she got pregnant again. Basically to make this story short I personally do not want kids and she knew that. She keep stalling and waiting for months. I know I am to blame here as well. She agreed to have another abortion but at the cost of our relationship.
I love this women and want to spend my life with her but am afraid its too late. The more I talk, the more wrong things come out of my mouth and the situation gets worse. She packed my things and told me to hit the road. Ive never been in such an emotional roller coaster. We had our lives planned out. I was going to move in early next year. We were going to travel a bit and enjoy life. I have no idea what to do and If I even have a chance of winning her back. At times I feel like I'm a POS for putting her through this again. Things were going amazing and I was looking forward to spending my years with her. A child now will only ruin things as we both are struggling and trying to break into a new carrier. On top of countless family and health problems. Ahhh man sometimes life sure throws you a curve ball. Hope you all have an amazing weekend!
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