bomber
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Hi people, my sister sent me a message yesterday and I answered her today. I'll tranlate the dialog here, as it kinda sums up my current condition.
-It's not about the money. I always find ways to work and respond to my responsibilities. The thing is I would like you to be like that. To live with some dignity, taking care of your self, your needs and responsibilities. Working to get money for ur work and study to enrich your knowledge and skils. Beeing your 21 years old little sister it feels wrong to scold you like that but I needa tell you ur life is in a complete pause. You live in shitty conditions, not taking care of your home, your health, and not even your food. Ι wont even talk much about your lifehood and the fact that you live with a small alowance that gives you some cheap food and ur cigarets.
Instead Im gonna tell you that I hope one day I will see you standing on your feet. Not expecting you to be a scientist or having a great job, but at least living with some dignity, that's all. You are 23 years old and you hardly know what a responsibility is. If you did, you would have given me the money for my rent already.
You need to take care of your home and pay your bills on time, and then you can come out and say "Ill leave as I want" dirty, with bad clothes, drinking and smoking...
You will propably not even read my entire text, as you are used in covering ur ears about stuff like this.Of course you can keep the money. Good luck anyway.
- First of all, you know I'll give you the money so cut the crap. I never close my ears to anything and you know it.
About my way of life you are absolutely right. Nothing completes me and I enjoy nothing, I basicaly feel dead inside and that is mirrored in my way of life. It's a good thing you see that and it bothers you, as it means you are not near this situation.
About you, Im trying to always be in your side and help you as much as I can, so dont even thing again about talking about money to me like this"
Some notes: The way she describes my situation is completely right, and the way I explain this situation is as right.
Recentely I asked my father for money, and he sent me 500 euros to share with my sister. I gave her already 180 so I own her 70, cause I needed some money until I got my alowance, but since my alowance got delayed I also delayed giving her the money, which is what she's talking about.
Generaly even if I live with very few money and often spent money on drugs/booze/cigarets, I also try to help her financialy, amap.
Anyone can relate or understand my situation? To sum it up, I don't like anything around me, which kills any kind of motivation to do anything, which drops my quality of life even more, which drives me in a realy shitty situation.
-It's not about the money. I always find ways to work and respond to my responsibilities. The thing is I would like you to be like that. To live with some dignity, taking care of your self, your needs and responsibilities. Working to get money for ur work and study to enrich your knowledge and skils. Beeing your 21 years old little sister it feels wrong to scold you like that but I needa tell you ur life is in a complete pause. You live in shitty conditions, not taking care of your home, your health, and not even your food. Ι wont even talk much about your lifehood and the fact that you live with a small alowance that gives you some cheap food and ur cigarets.
Instead Im gonna tell you that I hope one day I will see you standing on your feet. Not expecting you to be a scientist or having a great job, but at least living with some dignity, that's all. You are 23 years old and you hardly know what a responsibility is. If you did, you would have given me the money for my rent already.
You need to take care of your home and pay your bills on time, and then you can come out and say "Ill leave as I want" dirty, with bad clothes, drinking and smoking...
You will propably not even read my entire text, as you are used in covering ur ears about stuff like this.Of course you can keep the money. Good luck anyway.
- First of all, you know I'll give you the money so cut the crap. I never close my ears to anything and you know it.
About my way of life you are absolutely right. Nothing completes me and I enjoy nothing, I basicaly feel dead inside and that is mirrored in my way of life. It's a good thing you see that and it bothers you, as it means you are not near this situation.
About you, Im trying to always be in your side and help you as much as I can, so dont even thing again about talking about money to me like this"
Some notes: The way she describes my situation is completely right, and the way I explain this situation is as right.
Recentely I asked my father for money, and he sent me 500 euros to share with my sister. I gave her already 180 so I own her 70, cause I needed some money until I got my alowance, but since my alowance got delayed I also delayed giving her the money, which is what she's talking about.
Generaly even if I live with very few money and often spent money on drugs/booze/cigarets, I also try to help her financialy, amap.
Anyone can relate or understand my situation? To sum it up, I don't like anything around me, which kills any kind of motivation to do anything, which drops my quality of life even more, which drives me in a realy shitty situation.
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