Bambooshoot
Bluelighter
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- Apr 23, 2012
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Hey guys. Been a looong time since I posted.
I'm going to try shortn this as much as possible for you guys. I really need some advice and another perspective on my situation.
I am a recovering heroin/crack addict. I was addicted to shooting snowballs got so bad I done 6 weeks in jail for shoplifting to fund my addictioni.
Since coming out in Feburary I started on Subutex which worked wonders for me. Better than I could have ever imagined. I became stable on 12mg as soon as I started on it. ( had a court order to be drug tested but wanted to stop myself just as much)
I've been homeless since coming out living in B'n'Bs (halfway houses) until I can get a council house. In one of these I met my current partner. Instant attraction. But he did not use either of my DOC so for me was perfect, it made me embarrased about it.
I did continue to use crack (secretly) though. Smoking and injecting. He is by no means anti-drugs. At the time used a lot of speed and weed.
2 months in I find out I am pregnant. I was absulutley over the moon as I lost a baby at 19. The minute I found out I stopped EVERYTHING. I've reduced from 12 to 6mg of subs and hope to get down to 2 if possibe by the time I have my wee one.
There have been some warning signs for a while about my partner. Though he seems over the moon about my pregnancy he is very contolling and jealous all the usual red flags. But like most of us we see what we want to see.
I am currently supporting us both. He is under a lot of pressure after just finding out his mother is dying. I do understand this.
I am now 6 months pregnant and last night for the first time he put his hands on me. He has scared me before in fights throwing stuff and threating to kill me but last night he choked me. I was terrified.
I'm re.ally trying to stay stong because all that matters is my baby boy inside me. But jesus I am so close to relapsing I can feel it.
Luckily today he is out on some job. This morning he was crying about what he done last night the cut his wrist....
Fuck me I know all these things are major red flags but a) im terrified of leaving him and b) Im 6 months pregnant and I dont know if I can do this alone..
Guys if any of you have any similar experiences any advice would be much appriciated. As I'm totally lost right now.
Thanks for taking the time.
~Bamboo
(please excuse spelling and punctuation, I've not gone back to check, he will be back soon)
I'm going to try shortn this as much as possible for you guys. I really need some advice and another perspective on my situation.
I am a recovering heroin/crack addict. I was addicted to shooting snowballs got so bad I done 6 weeks in jail for shoplifting to fund my addictioni.
Since coming out in Feburary I started on Subutex which worked wonders for me. Better than I could have ever imagined. I became stable on 12mg as soon as I started on it. ( had a court order to be drug tested but wanted to stop myself just as much)
I've been homeless since coming out living in B'n'Bs (halfway houses) until I can get a council house. In one of these I met my current partner. Instant attraction. But he did not use either of my DOC so for me was perfect, it made me embarrased about it.
I did continue to use crack (secretly) though. Smoking and injecting. He is by no means anti-drugs. At the time used a lot of speed and weed.
2 months in I find out I am pregnant. I was absulutley over the moon as I lost a baby at 19. The minute I found out I stopped EVERYTHING. I've reduced from 12 to 6mg of subs and hope to get down to 2 if possibe by the time I have my wee one.
There have been some warning signs for a while about my partner. Though he seems over the moon about my pregnancy he is very contolling and jealous all the usual red flags. But like most of us we see what we want to see.
I am currently supporting us both. He is under a lot of pressure after just finding out his mother is dying. I do understand this.
I am now 6 months pregnant and last night for the first time he put his hands on me. He has scared me before in fights throwing stuff and threating to kill me but last night he choked me. I was terrified.
I'm re.ally trying to stay stong because all that matters is my baby boy inside me. But jesus I am so close to relapsing I can feel it.
Luckily today he is out on some job. This morning he was crying about what he done last night the cut his wrist....
Fuck me I know all these things are major red flags but a) im terrified of leaving him and b) Im 6 months pregnant and I dont know if I can do this alone..
Guys if any of you have any similar experiences any advice would be much appriciated. As I'm totally lost right now.
Thanks for taking the time.
~Bamboo
(please excuse spelling and punctuation, I've not gone back to check, he will be back soon)