tazz20
Bluelighter
- Joined
- May 5, 2020
- Messages
- 167
can anyone else relate to this? I've been on ssri antidepressants for many years and I was under the impression that this caused this. I've been dealing with erectile issues ever since. I've been off the meds since this past September of last year and it is still a tricky situation. Went to the urologist and said it's all psychological. Diet and exercise were his recommendations to regain my sex drive. Luckily enough I can get ed pills for a dollar a pill legally but I know that won't help the desire to have sex. Can anyone else here relate or do you have any advice? I also wonder if my porn habits have also caused it by assume my anxiety issues are to blame. I was under the impression that receiving a blowjob from any girl would automatically get me going but I've learned that sex is apparently all mental and you really need to be attracted to the person you are sleeping with....I asked the doc about maca root supplements but apparently those can be dangerous. Any girl I've been with was not someone I was fully attracted to so I assumed that had something to do with it. I also realize that even being with a girl I have full attraction to would probably give me some form of performance anxiety. I just rarely get really horny anymore and idk what it is. I'll wake up with morning wood and feel it a bit in the morning but in the evening my sexual desire is pretty much gone. Porn isn't even what it used to be for me... I'll still get very mild horny moments maybe after doing something like yoga so I assume I'm not totally broken but it's extremely mild.
wtf happen to that horny 14 year old boy in me that would go nuts when he sees a cute girl? how the fuck do I get that back? what happen to those days of seeing softcore sex in a movie and going crazy or seeing a victorias secret magazine and getting all flustered? ok maybe it won't be exactly like that ever again and I do believe that porn rewires the brain but I want to have that feeling back to some extent when I was younger. Like the site of a cute girl or a girl's figure should at least trigger something in my brain, but I find that certain porn is the only thing that can trigger it. I will be honest that my lifestyle isn't the absolute greatest. I get drunk here and there and I smoke weed pretty often. I've also been rolling on mdma almost like once a month since this previous september since I've been off meds. I just hope there is hope for me...
wtf happen to that horny 14 year old boy in me that would go nuts when he sees a cute girl? how the fuck do I get that back? what happen to those days of seeing softcore sex in a movie and going crazy or seeing a victorias secret magazine and getting all flustered? ok maybe it won't be exactly like that ever again and I do believe that porn rewires the brain but I want to have that feeling back to some extent when I was younger. Like the site of a cute girl or a girl's figure should at least trigger something in my brain, but I find that certain porn is the only thing that can trigger it. I will be honest that my lifestyle isn't the absolute greatest. I get drunk here and there and I smoke weed pretty often. I've also been rolling on mdma almost like once a month since this previous september since I've been off meds. I just hope there is hope for me...
Last edited: