Daveterry01
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This may be a long post but please read through it because I really need to talk about this and forum seemed to be better choice to say it out.
Iam a early 20s male and New here as you can see and yes this is my very first post but reason being is that it's getting out of hand and not sure what to do and I feel this has to be said very first.
I have a niece turned 11yold not long ago and I look after her when mommy goes work. She works in the day but at night she is a stripper.
I also work from home and need to be out at times.
Few weeks ago when I had to go out for about 3hrs or so, my niece would stay home alone.
she is alright being alone and knows not to open doors for other people etc.. she is a very smart girl and can cook and pretty much look after herself. Plus I have big 4 Rott dogs and no one ever comes to my property.
So anyway when I got back home, I saw my niece watching porn. She found all my porn stash and was watching it.
Now you might be thinking why is my porn out where it can be found? It's not. When she comes over I move it somewhere else and I do have a porn addiction also.
I said hey... what the heck are you watching? That is not for kids. I kind of did get pissed with her and she has a pretty big attitude problem so she tells me shut up ok I like it and it looks fun, the girl is enjoying it and I want to do what she is doing so don't tell me what to do and starts calling me names.
I was like wow what just happened here. So the mom (sister inlaw) comes home that night and I tell her right away what her daughter watched while she was sitting there with her arms crossed. And guess what the mommy said?
Her reply was I quote: yeah that's ok let her watch it because if you don't, she is going to be very annoying and give you the biggest headache and get all crazy.
me: let her watch it? She's only 11 and what is that going to teach her?
Mommy: it's fine Bub just let her do what she wants, that's what I do and I don't have time to sit and talk about it as I need money at the moment.
I replied oh ok... but she also said she wants to have sex too. She said she wants to do what the girl is doing.
Mommy: (girls like to try and experience things at a young age now a days, it's curiousity and the age they view things like that or have sex is getting younger now.
Just let her see for herself. She knows I'm a stripper anyway and seen my toys so she asked about it a few days back and I showed her what they are and what they do and also my sexy outfits along with lingerie stockings/panties crouchless panties you name it.)
i was like ok you can stop now.
And then I out of no where said I bet you even showed her how the dildos work on yourself right?
To that she said no She didn't show her.
So being said now when niece comes over, she is wanting to watch porn and I'm saying no and mommy says yes I'm not sure what to do. I love her and want to be a great uncle and we are very close but I can't have her doing this.
Me me and her mom always have a argue over this so I have one close friend and she has two girls, one is 9 and other is 14 and she tells me girls at that age are curious and want to try things, it's a part of puberty and growing up. Her 9yold is asking sex questions and her other daugter had sex at 12 she said so it's normal.
She also had sex when she was 13 she remembered. she wanted to experience it young and said her hormones were all over the place at a young age.
Well it kind of made me think that there is sex displayed everywhere now. It's on tv/comercieal boards, people talking about it and even in music videos about sexyness and erotic dancing etc... so now I'm beginning to think should I not be so hard on her and really just let her see for herself? I also heard that if you restrict someone from things then tend to go on about it more and get it how they can from another source.
And to be supportive and listen to what they need to ask and sit there with them to see how they feel about it.
Just so confused about all this you know.
Iam a early 20s male and New here as you can see and yes this is my very first post but reason being is that it's getting out of hand and not sure what to do and I feel this has to be said very first.
I have a niece turned 11yold not long ago and I look after her when mommy goes work. She works in the day but at night she is a stripper.
I also work from home and need to be out at times.
Few weeks ago when I had to go out for about 3hrs or so, my niece would stay home alone.
she is alright being alone and knows not to open doors for other people etc.. she is a very smart girl and can cook and pretty much look after herself. Plus I have big 4 Rott dogs and no one ever comes to my property.
So anyway when I got back home, I saw my niece watching porn. She found all my porn stash and was watching it.
Now you might be thinking why is my porn out where it can be found? It's not. When she comes over I move it somewhere else and I do have a porn addiction also.
I said hey... what the heck are you watching? That is not for kids. I kind of did get pissed with her and she has a pretty big attitude problem so she tells me shut up ok I like it and it looks fun, the girl is enjoying it and I want to do what she is doing so don't tell me what to do and starts calling me names.
I was like wow what just happened here. So the mom (sister inlaw) comes home that night and I tell her right away what her daughter watched while she was sitting there with her arms crossed. And guess what the mommy said?
Her reply was I quote: yeah that's ok let her watch it because if you don't, she is going to be very annoying and give you the biggest headache and get all crazy.
me: let her watch it? She's only 11 and what is that going to teach her?
Mommy: it's fine Bub just let her do what she wants, that's what I do and I don't have time to sit and talk about it as I need money at the moment.
I replied oh ok... but she also said she wants to have sex too. She said she wants to do what the girl is doing.
Mommy: (girls like to try and experience things at a young age now a days, it's curiousity and the age they view things like that or have sex is getting younger now.
Just let her see for herself. She knows I'm a stripper anyway and seen my toys so she asked about it a few days back and I showed her what they are and what they do and also my sexy outfits along with lingerie stockings/panties crouchless panties you name it.)
i was like ok you can stop now.
And then I out of no where said I bet you even showed her how the dildos work on yourself right?
To that she said no She didn't show her.
So being said now when niece comes over, she is wanting to watch porn and I'm saying no and mommy says yes I'm not sure what to do. I love her and want to be a great uncle and we are very close but I can't have her doing this.
Me me and her mom always have a argue over this so I have one close friend and she has two girls, one is 9 and other is 14 and she tells me girls at that age are curious and want to try things, it's a part of puberty and growing up. Her 9yold is asking sex questions and her other daugter had sex at 12 she said so it's normal.
She also had sex when she was 13 she remembered. she wanted to experience it young and said her hormones were all over the place at a young age.
Well it kind of made me think that there is sex displayed everywhere now. It's on tv/comercieal boards, people talking about it and even in music videos about sexyness and erotic dancing etc... so now I'm beginning to think should I not be so hard on her and really just let her see for herself? I also heard that if you restrict someone from things then tend to go on about it more and get it how they can from another source.
And to be supportive and listen to what they need to ask and sit there with them to see how they feel about it.
Just so confused about all this you know.
but at 11 years old; I just don't think that a suitable topic.
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