the push-pull attacks tend to be when I'm entering deep REM or entering the dream, but not always, in fact I remember well some cases of being in a dream, semi-consciously, and then becoming lucid, then something in the dream changes and then I become attacked by some shit, sometimes not invisible, but a "character" in the dream
One of the most liberating things I've ever experienced was the realisation that I could confront menacing dream characters or threatening scenarios. The other was teaching myself how to fly in dreams. Obviously it's not something I can convey in words or teach others, but basically it is about finding your own power and inner-strength.
I had this recurring nightmare/astral tormenting episode as a kid and its what forced me to learn, because I just got fed up in the end and decided I would rather face it than continue to cower. One day it just happened.. I think surrendered in good faith that I would be alright, basically.
it's not always the same, sometimes is in the transition stage, but I'm sure that it hasn't being always the case, both for push-pull shit and more serious stuff (feeling electrocuted)
How real are we talking here? I had some mini-seizure type zaps when falling asleep in the week following a vaccination as a teenager, which felt like a cross between a sledgehammer to the brain and being electrocuted. Or are we talking sensations experienced in that in-between state prior to falling asleep?
I don't know what to say about the last part, maybe I lack confidence in some way? not sure, I discovered a lot of shit about my emotional life lately (last months) and I discovered some "chronic" problems in my most close relationships, but at the same time I consider myself quite confident. As I said all this crap came since I brokethrough on DMT, and i'm pretty sure it's the explanation, something not good happent during that trip, it was a really high dose, and my first breakthrough (also my most intense drug experience).
Emotional turbulence and pain will cause disturbances in sleep, that's a given. Don't sweat that.
I don't doubt your assertion about DMT. I'm familiar with it. I could only offer my opinions and speculations, but lets just say I don't think we fully comprehend its implications and what it's all about. I mean I don't want to worry you or freak you out with speculations, because that's not useful and my speculations could be completely wrong anyway.
Do you have any theory in particular about what really dreams are?
I don't buy the "subconscious material" theory, IMO it makes sense only in a fraction of dreams or, better said, a fraction of dreamers.
I think the most "experienced" one is with dreaming and lucid dreaming the more unlikely the "subconscious material" explanation seems.
I think most people only get to a level of dreams, let's say -1 floor, and that could be subconscious material (SM from now on) floor. Maybe they enter -2 floor once in a while, but not often enough to dismiss the SM hypthesis... get me? it's like going once to a party of some rich guys, you won't get the tonic of how things behave there or what's really going on just going once, you'll feel it's "a party, but cooler", so to speak.
Following on from the last paragraph above, I think there's a real overlap between waking, dreaming, astral projection, DMT space, and whatever the hell is really going on in reality. I've experienced DMT through meditation, and also during astral states as a child looking back at it, and of course about half a dozen times from NN-DMT that I extracted myself. I've experienced beauty and terror, as well as having some deep realisations that have stuck with me.
Dreams by and large are jumbles of memories, particularly of anxieties we wish to solve. But that's not all they are. I know that for a fact. I've cried out for answers in my dreams before and been forcibly shown an answer. Something grabbed me out of the flow of the dream and put me in front of it. It's hard to describe, but I knew it was something beyond the little me. Call it your higher-self, guardian angel, inner guru, give it any name you like.. personally I believe it is 'me', the fullest version, aka God
I've had very symbolic intrusions in my dreams, either again from that greater part of myself or perhaps even from external influences. There's a distinct feeling or flavour to it, it's like walking along a path and finding a precious gem, it just sort of sticks out as something special and evidently placed for you to see. I've had interactions with a dead pet budgie I used to have, and woke up with the feeling of its claws still wrapped around my finger, along with a joy/sadness that his essence was there with me for a brief time again.
I've come to feel that dreams are a veneer over the top of another 'space', and that we're actually always there even whilst awake. That space is DMT space, astral space, it's all the same thing. Whatever it is. When we're dreaming there is the possibility for influences and impressions to come to us and penetrate into the imagery of the dream, much like being underwater and looking up at the surface whilst someone puts their finger through the surface and into our worldview. These things can come to us whilst awake too, obviously when we're asleep there is less distraction and more focus.
Personally I just can't comprehend people who don't remember their dream and sleep life. It has utterly defined me as a person, on par with any psychedelic experience. Why it has happened to me to such a degree I have no idea. It makes me sad though because I feel like sleep is a doorway freely available to everyone that has the potential to revolutionize self-discovery and indeed the waking world.