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Ladies: how many of you like to give head?

drugfukkdrockstar said:
If the guy recently showered, i love it! If they haven't... im not keen. Im a clean freak. I don't even let a guy go down on me unless i have showered within the last couple hours. Yeah i know i sound boring, but it can fucking awesome jumping in the shower together and cleaning him for him, and then doing my thang ;)
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Same.

I like cleanliness. :)

Most of the time I LOVE it.
 
“You men have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement, and jaw stress, and suction, and gag reflex, and all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a job for nothin'.” ~Samantha (Sex and the City)
 
rant*N*rave said:
I love giving head :)

I totally trade my boyfriend blowjobs for favors all the time, and I spose I come out ahead on that... :D
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wow he must feel really special that for you to go down on him you must chalk it up on a balance sheet after.
 
beamers said:
wow he must feel really special that for you to go down on him you must chalk it up on a balance sheet after.
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you obviously missed the point of what she said or at least what it meant. don't read so far into things. ;)
 
Well, how would you feel?

"Do the dishes for me tonight honey? I'll make it worth your while ..."

What do you say to that? No?
 
I agree with Pan/beamers. Maybe that wasn't the intent of her post, but the sentiment exists out there in the wild.

Nothing would ruin a blowjob more than realizing it was payment for something. And that the girl didn't do it because she wanted to, but because it would win her points towards something else.
 
Um, I think you misunderstood me. I was responding to beamers, not Rogue Robot (her post got in before mine).

I'm totally happy to hear my girlfriend offer me a blowjob in exchange for an errand or a chore. It doesn't mean that she doesn't actually want to blow me ... it means she enjoys giving me blowjobs more than whatever she asked me to do. She's saying "I'd rather do this fun thing on your behalf than this other, less fun thing, so can you do the less fun thing for me, so that I can have the pleasure of doing this fun thing for you?"

Was that hard to follow? I think it's totally reasonable for two people in a relationship to have a mutual understanding that (a) the girlfriend would rather work less and play with her boyfriend's cock more, if given the choice, and (b) the boyfriend would rather work more if it means his cock gets played with more, if given the choice. That's a great arrangement. Everyone wins.
 
Just seems a little manipulative to me is all.

If I was asked to do the dishes because my girlfriend didn't want to, I would do it just because she didn't want to. It'd feel strange getting a blowjob as payment for that, I'd rather at least pretend she was doing it because she wanted to do something to make me feel good, instead as a chore was doing to get out of doing some less appealing chore.

Although your system seems like you'd get more blowjobs by the end of the day. Which is always a good thing.
 
Monkeybizness said:
I LOVE GIVING BJS to my love, and iv gotten him seriously addictied to it, he refuses to wake up in the morning's with out it , he usualy receives 3 to 4 a day. hes basically tranied me and I've watched countless amount of pov s and blow job vids its basically all we watch, when we look at porn.. haha we both love it
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!!! can I get some training by your doctor too, geez, no fair..
 
i <3 it, though it's only with my current partner that i've gotten past my reservations ;)
 
Love it!!! Its a specialty of mine according to my 'friends with benefits' lol..the taste, the smell.. everything about doing it gets me wicked hot :) and i swallow :p lol...
 
therealbeats said:
Just seems a little manipulative to me is all.

If I was asked to do the dishes because my girlfriend didn't want to, I would do it just because she didn't want to. It'd feel strange getting a blowjob as payment for that, I'd rather at least pretend she was doing it because she wanted to do something to make me feel good, instead as a chore was doing to get out of doing some less appealing chore.

Although your system seems like you'd get more blowjobs by the end of the day. Which is always a good thing.
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See, the secret is, if my girlfriend asks me to do the dishes and doesn't offer a blowjob, I'll do them anyway because I want to help her out, and if I ask for a blowjob without offering to do the dishes, she'll probably give it to me anyway because she likes doing that, so both halves of the exchange would've been offered freely regardless ... vocalizing it as an exchange ("if you do this I'll do that") is just a shorthand way of saying "I'd really like to do this, and I want to give you the opportunity to do something that you generally like to do too, how does that sound?"

It's an exchange of gifts. It's not a loan.
 
Absolutely love giving head! Probably one of my favorite pastimes and I know my guy certainly enjoys it hehe.... I find it such a turn on to be able to bring him to the brink and tease him until he's just begging to cum in my mouth. As for nuts... I always try to give them a bit of attention, though sometimes I just get too distracted having a nice big shiny wet cock in my face lol Always swallow, too, unless otherwise requested :) I don't really understand why so many women are opposed to swallowing... I always figured you'd taste it more if you had to spit it out rather than just letting 'er go down the hatch.
 
i LOVE giving head to guys and girls, it gets me so excited. however, if the receiving party isn't reactive, i just can't put my heart into it. i live for the moans and squirming :D
 
^^^^ so true.

And also you need to be really into performing oral sex... to have a fully appreciative & receptive audience :)
 
some girls see it as a degrading act and I guess from a few perspectives I might understand how. I however, see it as almost a dominating act. When youre in control of something so vital to a man as his orgasm it is one of the best feelings, i guess if you cant be in control of anything else, why not have fun manipulating his pleasure DOME
 
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