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Are those girls insane or just regular average ones?

jam uh weezy said:
look into stockholm syndrome. it's like and extremely amplified version of what you're describing. in the case of a captor/kidnapee, the kidnapee subconsciously realizes that this captor is the one who feeds him/her. this influences the way the kidnapee behaves.

Perhaps these guys provide something to these girls that no other guy can, and they are willing to be treated like shit to get that fix.
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good point, but in the particular case im describing, the guy isnt even feeding her.

further more she has openly admitted to being unsatisfied in bed..


what could she be diggin then?
 
the way he makes her feel. emotions are the result of chemical reactions in your brain, and when experienced many times over, they can be highly addicting. even the negative ones. if that's the case then she probly didn't have a very healthy upbringing, or certain circumstances in her relationships with men developed her to this point.
making someone feel something both positive and negative at the same time can invoke a very strong sense of mind altering dissonance.

look up battered wife-syndrome. read up on learned helplessness. think about a hoes love for her pimp(watch the documentary 'very young girls' for examples) these are very amplified extremes of the girl you are describing(as far as i know), but it's the same exact concept.

it is simply not true that ALL women like this treatment. there is a certain degree to which a girl will pursue you in ways and for reasons that seem contradictory to logic and reason, as toa$t described("want a girl to like you? get her attention, and then ignore her completely.")but that is not the same as what your are describing. what toast is talking about is basic human psychology, people are attracted to things that are different(how many guys have done this type of thing before) and slightly out of reach.(things of perceived value are that which we have to work for)
 
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If a woman has a low sense of self worth she might not feel that she "deserves" a good guy. So she will stay with asshole losers as a form of self punishment.

This is pure speculation. But it seems like a good explanation.
 
i am a chick and the guys i go after are complete shits to me.
but having someone who treats u like shit and then every now and then are nice to you, the nice bit makes u think u made them change and that they actually like you, so you keep trying.
plus alot of "troubled" or whatever chicks have fetishes for mean people.
 
^ I am like that. I always had a thing for mean dickhead boys. Didn't like the nice ones. It's bizarre :\
 
I have a younger friend that is always about the "dickheads."

I don't see the attraction myself.

There is one boy in her life that truly loves her, but she thinks he is too weak.

Maybe people sometimes equate nice with being weak?



I feel weak when I am being nasty. I feel strongest when I keep that part of myself in check.
 
Im really sad to see her unhappy like that, and that I cant do shit about it.

Damn girls whined for centuries to get rights, to get treated better, to have men that would actually care for them and respect them. Now that those men exist they kinda realized they could use them to fill the basic needs left by their asshole boyfriends. Talk about a role reversal haha, we're now slaves.

Anyway, I also realise another thing, ive been good all my life, did my best to help others, do my part for the planet. And after all these years I know that there is only one truth in the universe, good guys finish last.

This girl is my problem but has now become the solution, im gonna make all other girls pay for her treachery. I will become one of the worst self-centered egomaniac bastard asshole ever, then I will get all the women. Sounds good!
 
toa$t said:
prepare to get laid more than you ever have.
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Getting laid has never been the problem here Toast....


I got in bed with more than my fair share of women in my life, problem is never, ever had sex with a girl I really did love!

All the girls I slept with it was only to empty my balls, not a feeling for them whatsoever
 
Zzyzx said:
Anyway, I also realise another thing, ive been good all my life, did my best to help others, do my part for the planet. And after all these years I know that there is only one truth in the universe, good guys finish last.

This girl is my problem but has now become the solution, im gonna make all other girls pay for her treachery. I will become one of the worst self-centered egomaniac bastard asshole ever, then I will get all the women. Sounds good!
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You wont get all the women. You will get certain women. Getting stuck living in the past is both unhealthy for you and those around you. Respecting yourself first is the same as respecting others second. Both taking and giving cause imbalances. Instead, try sharing something with someone.
 
For the same reasons that men like bitches who max out their credit cards, fuck their best friends, and will only fuck them when they want something.
 
Missykins said:
For the same reasons that men like bitches who max out their credit cards, fuck their best friends, and will only fuck them when they want something.
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Are you that type of girl? The kind of girl you describe is a whore, men are willing to pay for sex some times
 
Missykins said:
The same as those applied to the women who love men who treat them poorly: secret self-loathing, a need for validation from the opposite sex, and a love for the chase.
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still, I cant shake off my head the idea that it was a women who created the 'nice guy' in the first place..

for hundreds of years women have asked to be treated as equals, with respect.

we see it even more since 50 years with the 'feminist' movement

so the man adapted and became nice, and what next? rejected by the women who created him!

girls are evil hahaha 8)
 
If we;re calling each other whores or whatever, im lonely and have a full checking account +about 80k worth of untapped credit. /northside chicago
 
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