telepathetic
Bluelighter
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So, this is only a piece of what triggered me so bad, but my first ex hurt me really badly, intentionally, and also left me a week before our wedding. That wasn't how she hurt me, and I dont care to get into it... but let's just say I suffered narcissistic discard for the first time and developed a complex from it.
Well anyway, turns out my father is friends with and talks to her to this day on social media. I mean she lived with us for 5 years when I was 15-20, but still.
Is that normal? Is that okay? My sister doesn't even talk to him because of how he got involved with some of her old friends who she isn't cool with.
He's also made comments during fights in the past and known things about others who are not in my life, as if he keeps in contact with them as well
What gives?
He isn't this way with all of my exes, he hates one of them rightfully. I guess he just had a bond of sorts with this one, but you'd think he would understand its inappropriate.
Well anyway, turns out my father is friends with and talks to her to this day on social media. I mean she lived with us for 5 years when I was 15-20, but still.
Is that normal? Is that okay? My sister doesn't even talk to him because of how he got involved with some of her old friends who she isn't cool with.
He's also made comments during fights in the past and known things about others who are not in my life, as if he keeps in contact with them as well
What gives?
He isn't this way with all of my exes, he hates one of them rightfully. I guess he just had a bond of sorts with this one, but you'd think he would understand its inappropriate.