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would you ever pay for sex?

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well I would like to say No that I will never pay for sex.
With that, Id like to say I know/known many Escorts, prostitutes, street whores, etc.... (I didnt want 2 say before, didnt hav the time)
THEY ARE NOT PROFESSIONALS!!!!!!!!!
Im sorry to yell, but they are not!
Most are uneducated, underage, stupid, pimped out, drugged out retards!
I mean you would really pay a girl suck & fuck you knowing that shes prob. done this 5 times already before you without washing up?
Well if your paying someone, then thats what your fucking!
Also to note, these girls only care about the dollar bill, they have no actull intrest in the sex part. If you think they do, they just think u have more $$$$.
 
Hm, if I was to pay directly for sex, what would I do with all the savings??? Regular dating is a lot more expensive, and I'm sure all the extra cash would cause me to start looking for ways to spend these savings, and of course, I'd buy more drugs and become a drug addict.
So there you have it folks: Paying for sex = becoming a drug addict. Therefore, I will not pay for sex.
 
^^= supporting a terrorist. (don't forgether that...)
 
PREMIUMUNLEADED, I think you've made a huge generalisation about the sex industry.
Just how many prostitutes do you "know"?
I'm sure some of them ARE professional, and certainly in Australia, all of the ones in legal sex places are clean and undergo rigorous and regular STD and hygenine checks.
There's no way I'd pick up a doped-up street walker who is not subjected to these regulations, but there are many more options than that.
It's all about intelligent, researched choices. If you were going to do it, which I'm not, you'd want a quality experience and have to be prepared to 'shop around' and pay for that quality.
But I don't accept your claim that there isn't quality out there. That's just not true.
 
if i told u how i know all this, id have to kill u.
I just know, never was a hoe, but answered phones for a service for a long time.
All the girls are scandelous
All the tricks are assholes
here in the states, its not regulated except for nevada i think?
think about it, what kind off women sells herself? A nice decent one? Not really. She might claim to be fine with the whole life. But they are lieing, no doubt!!!!
 
Fair enough ... I think we're talking apples and oranges when comparing Aus & US sex industry regulations.
I think ours are pretty good. But I accept your experiences have been different :)
 
Originally posted Captain_Howdy:
All men have or will pay for sex in one way, shape, form or fashion. Every time you take a date out, you pay for dinner, a movie, drinks etc... You may not be paying cash outta pocket, but you are paying. So yes, I have paid for sex. I'm married, so I will continue to pay for sex for a very long time.
Well, not all men take women (or other men) out just for sex. I for one have actually (shock! horror!) enjoyed my date or girlfriend's (gasp!) company without expecting sex! How bout that!
If your post was tongue-in-cheek, which a part of me suspects it was, then please forgive the sarcasm. I just find it hard to sit quietly when other men perpetuate the idea that sex is all we're after, all the time. :)
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psychoblast:
im not ignoring your post in reply to my post. but, anyhoo.. my reply: i just feel that sex should be regarded as a special thing not someting you go out and PAY for. when you have to pay for something that is special it loses its flavor. i would never pay for a sexual act.
if a friend did that, i wouldnt treat him/her any different. although if we were to get intimate -- that would be another story. just tainted goods, so to speak. :)
there is also another thing that irks me, contracting something i didnt WANT in the first place. testing is fine and all but sometimes some STD's do no show up until 6-12 months after the act. im just playing it safe & safe sex, at that.
if you want to make it sound like its OKAY to go out and pay for sex, then fine go ahead, be mah freggin guest. to each their own.
and this girl -- will do to her own. :)
peash,
[ 22 October 2002: Message edited by: poezante ]
 
I would never pay for sex. Not because I think it's degrading but because it is sooo easy to get. If I wasn't dating someone that I am deeply in love with and I thought I couldn't get any STD's, I could be paid for sex. It would have to be a lot though.
 
I'm gonna agree with captain howdy here. The majority of people having sex in this day and age pay for it, in one way or the other. Unless your some sort of International Playboy (Not that I would know naything about that...*whistles innocently*), your usually end up paying for for it one way or the other. Would I pay for sex directly? As in the the Hooker/John experience. It depends on the circumstances, but Probably not, as I don't really care about sex enough to pay for it. I can certainly seperate the act of sex from any feelings of love or caring, so I could certainly handle the situation if I came upon it.
But Then again, paying for a hooker in your home town is probably a lot more practical than say, paying for someone to fly all the way across the country to fuck...
 
Does anyone else notice the delicious irony of a stripper posing this particular question?
 
My earlier post was kinda tongue in cheek, but,the question was "have you ever paid for sex?" So even dating for a good time and maybe developing a relationship is good and fine. However, if you end up having sex with the individual you take out and spend money on, you did indeed pay for sex. You may not have done it directly, but you did pay for sex. Now if you wait till you get married, and everything that is yours is hers and everything that is hers is yours, then you are not paying for sex.
Now the reall question is, would you take out a loan for great sex? :)
 
First of all, what does the fact that I am a stripper have to do with sex? I do not have sex with people for money. I simply supply a FANTASY.
I do not sexualy gratify anyone for money which constitutes prostitution. So if you are implying I'm a prostitute Spencer, you are wrong. Your snide comments are not welcome in this thread and show your immaturity and inability to have a serious conversation. Some socialy inept people really piss me off more than others.
 
I paid for some sex.
Actually, it wasn't sex, but I still paid for it.
note: the payment wasn't in form of currency
 
/me eeps.
I wasn't implying anything with that reply, and I sincerely apologize if it came across that I did. I just found the dichotomy amusing.
1000 humble apologies.
 
a lot of men already pay for it without realising. How many men buy ladies drinks, dinner etc all nite and then expect to.... and this isnt sexist there are many girls I know who fully take advantage of this. Dont know if its the same everywhere but in the uk in typical pubs and niteclubs this is the norm.
 
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