FreedomCalls
Bluelighter
- Joined
- May 20, 2019
- Messages
- 74
So I have an incredible girlfriend who really has never skipped a beat when it comes to trust. A few times we took a "break" because of my selfishness, and during those times she may or may not have seen other people.. but I did too.
I am a 100% hypocrite when it comes to this shit... For a long time I was incredibly loyal but now I can't say I'd pass on an opportunity...
and I do love her I really do.
I'm not trying to play the self pity card but why in my brain do I think this way? Like we have our locations on on our phones and
if anything seems amiss I instantly get so incredibly anxious it's like I can't breathe for absolutely no reason and assume the worst...
Why am I wired to believe that people lie? That people aren't faithful? That she would cheat on me? Why can't I just let this shit go and stop worrying..
because we all know what worrying about something that may or may not happen does.. it's a waste of time and energy and absolutely fucking pointless.
I am a 100% hypocrite when it comes to this shit... For a long time I was incredibly loyal but now I can't say I'd pass on an opportunity...
and I do love her I really do.
I'm not trying to play the self pity card but why in my brain do I think this way? Like we have our locations on on our phones and
if anything seems amiss I instantly get so incredibly anxious it's like I can't breathe for absolutely no reason and assume the worst...
Why am I wired to believe that people lie? That people aren't faithful? That she would cheat on me? Why can't I just let this shit go and stop worrying..
because we all know what worrying about something that may or may not happen does.. it's a waste of time and energy and absolutely fucking pointless.