Japanese ear spoon? *vomitsickthrowupeverywhere* Man that was too graphic for this time in the ....hell, any time is too early for that.
Anyway, Neophyte made a great post there, as usual.
I used to try and clean out my ears and it only worsened the problem. I now leave my body to do as it needs and clean itself, with regards to hair, ears, whatever the hell you want. You should stop the cue tips, is what i'm saying. You should never shove them in your ears, ever. Ever. It will continually block your ears and achieve the opposite effect of what you want. The wax serves the same sort of purpose as mucous and by removing it all frequently, you are only serving to put yourself in danger of outside contaminants and infection.
You are going to have to go to your doctors and get your ears syringed. Then have him take a look at it, or potentially get you referred to a Ear, Throat and Nose specialist. You need to be extremely careful when cleaning the ears. They are very sensitive.