I am a very agreeable person... Very patient, very goddamn understanding. Know what I will never understand? Why the hell that makes me a target for everyone's bullshit.
My scenerio:
Asks nicely 3 times over the course of 2 hours for a blanket after sitting in the ER lobby with tetany for over 4 hours - labeled as agressive and noncompliant, sedated, left in wheelchair by ER exit for unknown time before not remembering how I made it home.
My mother-in-law:
Screamed at EMS for taking too long to respond to her nosebleed, triaged with minimun wait, constantly complaining in rude and agressive ways, continues with attitude of entitlement without check...
Even without drugs in my system, because of a compromised immune system, I returned to ER with a spreading infection in my NECK, (YOU CAN'T AMPUTATE A NECK!) as instructed by the clinic, because of a red streak spreading ra[pidly. After seeing my history, they did not even run a culture, no IV antibiotics, 3 bags of fluids before I could even produce urine for a UA, doc comes in and squeezes my neck like he's arm wrestling godzilla (asking if I shot drugs in it?!)...
Coming to terms with having an only child, because after what I've experienced I can't go back to the hospital. I wish the drugs would have killed me.
Edit to add: when I went back for the neck, it was only after my chest started turning blue (confirmed by others, because of how I'd been treated before HELLO GASLIGHTING!) and passed out randomly several times. fml