Mmm I agree but also disagree.
I have had a number of occasions post teenage life when I have become more than friends with someone I had known for many years and never previously found them noticeably attractive. As there personality traits attracted me I found myself also finding them more and more physically attractive.
I'm sure there girls that vice versa have had the same thing happen.
I think your just a shallow ho ?? jk
The only downside is that some chicks feel bad if you can't cum thinking it's their fault