I’m a straight male, why do I want to suck dick?

[Jabberwocky]

U ever sucked a dick?

I sucked one regularly between ages 7-9 under threat of violence. Was not that keen on the violence and felt ashamed about the dick. Between ages of 40-50 i sucked a few ladyboy dicks while wildly high on meth. Thought it was fun at the time. No regrets or shame. It was transgressive like crazy cheating on my taxes to fund more drugs or riding my illegally nitrous chaged harley across the harbour bridge at 200 kmh at 3 AM while super amped.

Outside of those circumstances i have no interest and never think about it. Now drug free pretty unlikely any of the above would ever happen again.

I identify as hetero and broad-minded.

 

[Foreigner]

I self-identify as gay but I have had fantasies of fucking women. When I finally had the opportunity to do it, we got naked and then I was like nope, nope, nope. She was attractive too. I lost my boner instantly and was like uh... sorry... I can't do this. I think it was from watching straight porn, where I was focused more on the guy btw, but I still built the association. Porn enhanced my fantasy life. Trying to do it IRL made the matter crystal clear. I'm a big old homo.

Maybe it's that way for you. You might try it and be like ugh... no thanks. Maybe the fantasy is just better. Just make sure you find a dick you're actually attracted to. Nothing is worse than blowing an unattractive dick. You won't be able to figure out if you like sucking cock unless you get a good one. This is what science calls "the control". lol. If you are repulsed due to ugliness then that doesn't rule out you like sucking cock. Make sure you account for all variables.

Now that I'm writing this, I remember being friends with a guy about 10 years or ago or so. Straight, serial monogamist, had a few girlfriends in the time I knew him. He told me one day that he had this inexplicable sexual draw to some men... and it had to do with their sexual energy. We had long conversations about it because he was afraid of talking to anyone else about it. He said male sexual energy is really strong and hot, and it turns him on. Later after I moved away, he told me online that he tried getting with a guy who had that energy he talked about, but the physical side didn't work. So he is straight, but really appreciates male sexual energy.

It takes all kinds.

 

[wudbutcher]

I sucked one regularly between ages 7-9 under threat of violence. Was not that keen on the violence and felt ashamed about the dick. Between ages of 40-50 i sucked a few ladyboy dicks while wildly high on meth. Thought it was fun at the time. No regrets or shame. It was transgressive like crazy cheating on my taxes to fund more drugs or riding my illegally nitrous chaged harley across the harbour bridge at 200 kmh at 3 AM while super amped.

Outside of those circumstances i have no interest and never think about it. Now drug free pretty unlikely any of the above would ever happen again.

I identify as hetero and broad-minded.

I love you At, now I know why the Fonda strut. Balls for days. 85 vmax here all orig except v boost in at 3500 rpm vs 6 from factory. 4500 original miles. Harley when I’m content to putt putt
As to ladyboys, couple years ago was working with a monster of a man decorated vet 1500 club member. Tough guy ya know? Had only known him 3 days. All others on crew devout Christians, and he was going for shock value. He told a story about being in Thailand with his platoon sitting in bath house drinking while getting head from a ladyboy. No clue so I asked he described. All eyes bulged, and gasps all around, but silence. I couldn’t help it, I said you’re awfully big to be a faggot. Got tense for a minute, but we laughed later. I’ve changed my mind, no Asian meth for me!

 

[Byzek]

Me also im hetero but i like to fuck and being fucked by a horse.
So weird.

 

[Byzek]

I self-identify as gay but I have had fantasies of fucking women. When I finally had the opportunity to do it, we got naked and then I was like nope, nope, nope. She was attractive too. I lost my boner instantly and was like uh... sorry... I can't do this. I think it was from watching straight porn, where I was focused more on the guy btw, but I still built the association. Porn enhanced my fantasy life. Trying to do it IRL made the matter crystal clear. I'm a big old homo.

Maybe it's that way for you. You might try it and be like ugh... no thanks. Maybe the fantasy is just better. Just make sure you find a dick you're actually attracted to. Nothing is worse than blowing an unattractive dick. You won't be able to figure out if you like sucking cock unless you get a good one. This is what science calls "the control". lol. If you are repulsed due to ugliness then that doesn't rule out you like sucking cock. Make sure you account for all variables.

Now that I'm writing this, I remember being friends with a guy about 10 years or ago or so. Straight, serial monogamist, had a few girlfriends in the time I knew him. He told me one day that he had this inexplicable sexual draw to some men... and it had to do with their sexual energy. We had long conversations about it because he was afraid of talking to anyone else about it. He said male sexual energy is really strong and hot, and it turns him on. Later after I moved away, he told me online that he tried getting with a guy who had that energy he talked about, but the physical side didn't work. So he is straight, but really appreciates male sexual energy.

It takes all kinds.

Yes and stories like this are common in the internet like diseases and other unlike things.
I had sex with a priest on a gaveyard and santa filmed us.

 

[LordOfThisWorld]

Hi everyone, I want to apologize for my recent remarks concerning gay people, I’m sorry for making any homophobic remarks, I have nothing against gay people, we all have our issues and I have many and am trying to work on them, it’s why I’m here, I am not homophobic at all and it’s none of my business what people do, we are all on this forum because we have our issues and this forum gives us a place to talk and vent and safe drug use.

I've been really stressed out lately and the older I get it’s harder for me to control my emotions and anger, this is why I’m seeking professional help, to deal with my anxiety, panic attacks and anger issues I’ve been having lately, please accept my most sincere apologies to anyone I’ve offended or hurt.

Healing starts by accepting and recognizing a person has done and acted wrongfully, which I have.

I’m sorry from my heart and hope you all forgive me.

 

[mp44god]

I'm sure this is a troll thread, but if you have the urge to suck a cock, you are not straight. The fact that there's even a debate about this among what I presume are grown adults is fucking absurd.

 

[20PrivacyIsOurRight21]

Oral fixation? When you're watching porn you're staring at penis the entire time

You should give it a try! With consent of course don't go sucking on your own terms.

 

[Jabberwocky]

Hi everyone, I want to apologize for my recent remarks concerning gay people, I’m sorry for making any homophobic remarks, I have nothing against gay people, we all have our issues and I have many and am trying to work on them, it’s why I’m here, I am not homophobic at all and it’s none of my business what people do, we are all on this forum because we have our issues and this forum gives us a place to talk and vent and safe drug use.

I've been really stressed out lately and the older I get it’s harder for me to control my emotions and anger, this is why I’m seeking professional help, to deal with my anxiety, panic attacks and anger issues I’ve been having lately, please accept my most sincere apologies to anyone I’ve offended or hurt.

Healing starts by accepting and recognizing a person has done and acted wrongfully, which I have.

I’m sorry from my heart and hope you all forgive me.

Very nice move @LordOfThisWorld. You've restored my faith in the essential goodness of most people on BL. Good luck with what you are working through. Hopefully you will still find resources on BL to help with the different things you are trying to fix.

We've all mouthed off and regretted it here and in real life. It takes guts to own your mistakes the way you have.

All the best.

 

[JessFR]

Very nice move @LordOfThisWorld. You've restored my faith in the essential goodness of most people on BL. Good luck with what you are working through. Hopefully you will still find resources on BL to help with the different things you are trying to fix.

We've all mouthed off and regretted it here and in real life. It takes guts to own your mistakes the way you have.

All the best.

I completely agree. I wish more people had the courage to admit to their mistakes.

 

[JessFR]

I'm sure this is a troll thread, but if you have the urge to suck a cock, you are not straight. The fact that there's even a debate about this among what I presume are grown adults is fucking absurd.

What's absurd is this "one drop of gay makes you gay" mentally regarding sexuality.

Why is someone gay if they are straight in every way except for one exception? Why doesn't it work in reverse? Why isn't a gay person straight if they ever fantasize about the opposite sex in any way?

Or are we saying that if you aren't perfectly straight or perfectly gay, you're bi.

Cause going by that, almost everyone is bi and these labels lose what already dubious utility they had.

 

[LordOfThisWorld]

Very nice move @LordOfThisWorld. You've restored my faith in the essential goodness of most people on BL. Good luck with what you are working through. Hopefully you will still find resources on BL to help with the different things you are trying to fix.

We've all mouthed off and regretted it here and in real life. It takes guts to own your mistakes the way you have.

All the best.

Thank you Ateller3, that means a lot to me, and I mean what I say.

 

[cosmic charlie]

Why is someone gay if they are straight in every way except for one exception? Why doesn't it work in reverse? Why isn't a gay person straight if they ever fantasize about the opposite sex in any way?

Bingo i have always wondered way more people don't take that viewpoint. Sexulaity is surely a spectrum for some of us and im all over the board someday im more gay than others and I go for years with only pussy sometimes. It doesn't matter to me and im just really comfortable with myself, some people just aren't. So they try and project there view out there and make it seem like if you ever sucked a dick there is no possible way they could ever love vagina as well. And I bet my bottom dollar id had twice as much coochie in my day then they have if not more its hard to keep track.

I find woman to be very open minded when it comes to this stuff. Alot of hetero males get really caught up in some ignorant shit, and that's sad cuz who knows they may find it freeing to blow a load in a man's mouth or vice versa, I certainly have at times.

 

[birdup.snaildown]

There's no such thing as hard-line bisexual/heterosexual/homosexual.

Clits are tiny micro-cocks.
Cocks are giant clits.

Ignoring that, though, perhaps you want to suck a dick (on some level) because you want to live out some kind of unrequited fantasy dick sucking scenario that you don't get to experience as a recipient? Sucking dick really well is more important to gay guys (than women) because guys like getting professional quality blowjobs. The same goes for lesbians and cunnilingus.

Hope that makes sense to you.

I recommend you talk to your wife about it. It took me some courage to mention it to my first wife, but she was like "fuck yeah" let's have a threesome. Never encountered a woman that doesn't like multiple dicks in her.

Stop posting about it on forums and pucker up.

Life is short.

 

[CFC]

There's no such thing as hard-line bisexual/heterosexual/homosexual.

I agree there are a lot of people with fairly fluid sexualities, but I can also assure you there are some hard lines in the sand for some of us. I could never do the str8 thing, the idea is truly revolting to me and I think it would be highly traumatising.

 

[birdup.snaildown]

@CFC, I'm not convinced. If you were lost on a desert island with someone of the opposite sex, I think you'd eventually get over it. I've met people who say they couldn't ever bring themselves to eat raw fish, but - again - if you're starving, you will eat it and like it.

The word trauma gets thrown around a bit too much.

A lot of straight guys I've met insist that it's traumatic to catch a glimpse of gay porn or even see someone's dick up close. That's silly. It's not "traumatic". They're just being snowflakes.

When straight guys go overboard about how traumatic cocks are, it always makes me think of Lady Macbeth and how the lady doth protest too much.

Gay guys, similarly, can be so afraid of their heterosexual side that they claim it is impossible. It's not impossible. It's not traumatic. It's just a vagina.

Fucking a woman in the ass isn't that different to fucking a man in the ass. Having your dick sucked by a man is no different to having your dick sucked by a woman.

There's no such thing as a hard-line heterosexual/homosexual. Sexuality is a construct. It doesn't exist.

 

[Zephyn]

Are you using meth?

 

[birdup.snaildown]

^Lots of drugs, including all amphetamines will break down straight/gay boundaries if you allow them to... but yes amphetamines make me hyper-sexual and no I'm 5 months sober. I assume you're talking to the OP?

 

[JessFR]

^Lots of drugs, including all amphetamines will break down straight/gay boundaries if you allow them to... but yes amphetamines make me hyper-sexual and no I'm 5 months sober. I assume you're talking to the OP?

Congrats.

It amazes me how many people become sex charged maniacs on amphetamines.

Amphetamines... Don't really make me want sex much at all.

Is it a guy thing? A your milage may vary thing? Or am I just weird.

 

[birdup.snaildown]

I get hyper sexual from weed, too. Not quite as much as amphetamines, but - yeah - I'm probably just a horn bag. I'd happily fuck just about anybody when I'm sober let alone tweaking. I'm pretty sure most (if not all) people who identify as bisexual are just dirty little sluts. I know I am.