zephyr
Ex-Bluelighter
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- May 30, 2005
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Im wondering out loud to all those who post here- if someone has done something nice for you, do you find it easy to show your thanks or do you just assume that person knows you are grateful?
Do you think you need to do something of equal value in kind to said person or can you just accept a favour without ever expecting to return it?
Or- if you spend your time helping someone you love or anyone in particular with something that costs you your time/money or effort and they DONT even say THANKYOU, does it make you feel like shit? Used? Would you ever help them again?
Maybe you would like to thank someone for something they did for you after reading this.
Sometimes saying thankyou is the hardest thing to do. Asking for help is harder.
Thoughts?
Do you think you need to do something of equal value in kind to said person or can you just accept a favour without ever expecting to return it?
Or- if you spend your time helping someone you love or anyone in particular with something that costs you your time/money or effort and they DONT even say THANKYOU, does it make you feel like shit? Used? Would you ever help them again?
Maybe you would like to thank someone for something they did for you after reading this.
Sometimes saying thankyou is the hardest thing to do. Asking for help is harder.
Thoughts?