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Does sexual interest drop after 40 or what?

Markomarkh

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Hi all,

I’ve noticed my sexual urges have dropped in recent years at 40 or over, when I jerk off it doesn’t feel good as it used too, feels weak and is no more exciting than a rich tea biscuit. I find women not that attractive anymore and modern porn is all the same and nothing new anymore, is it that I’m getting old now and I’ve worn my penis out and got Erectile dysfunction now? But if I got a real woman now I wouldn’t really perform. Have you over 40 guys noticed this or is it just me?

Mark
 

pofacedhoe

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watch dave chappelle netflix spcial , i cant remmeber which one but it has killing me softly playing at the start

it has a whole bit about this
 

W1bowo

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watch dave chappelle netflix spcial , i cant remmeber which one but it has killing me softly playing at the start

it has a whole bit about this
+1
 

Nicomorphinist

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It depends but not necessarily -- it certainly doesn't in happening ladies, as I discovered to my delight and great benefit when I was about 20 years old.
 

dreamflyer

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I'm a 50 year-old straight male and my sex drive is just as strong as it was in my 20's. The only time that it diminished was when I was addicted to opioids, but as soon as I got clean it came back full-force. I think that keeping a healthy lifestyle (diet, exercise, vitamins, etc.) has a lot to do with it.
 

Atelier3

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At 50 I think my sex drive is stronger than in my 20s although some aspects of my performance might not be so good. Then again at 50 my style as a lover is probably much better appreciated by my partners than raw power and enthusiasm was at 20.

I think women around my age also more sexual than young women. My last serious gf was 55 and needed to be done every single night without fail. Twice on Sundays.
 

Flynnal

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Mine has never diminished. I discovered how great it felt when I was 12 and the rest is history. Then at 17 I discovered I had two other hotspots, and to be honest they felt even more erotic, so there's that.

Opportunities for sex are very few and far between due to my autism spectrum disorder, and I must admit I don't like relying on Mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters because it will never be as good as the real deal.
 

Funtimesplease

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I'm the same I'm 44 and my sex drive has went through the roof but the stamina has gone down some but it has there most of my adult life
 

madness00

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I love this thread.

My libido is great at 29 - sometimes i masturbate 5 times a day.

I'm hopeful for my 40s. This is great news.

Have fun yall.
 

Vintage55

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I'm 65 and sex is still great. Of course I believe that your partner makes a difference. A lot of things are better at my age.✌
 

Shady's Fox

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No and Thursday it's still thursday, you build your own arhitecture but you have the chance to design it. It does make it a lotta harder for oldies to have sex you know like I saw an ad back in Cyprus with a guy lookin to eat old pussy so if your heart still keeps up then go for it but talk to your doctor if you aren't sure.
 

Flynnal

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41 here. Sex drive hasn't changed much, I still get morning wood, still have a strong desire to , but I wish my orgasms were as intense as they were when I was a teenager. I remember being 15, and my dick seemed to work too well...but now it's just so so. Aging has it's cons...but OTOH I have a lot more experience, even though I never want to get too intimate with a woman (there is a sad backstory to this) I still feel lonely at times.
 

nevertoolate

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Good news is that at 42 I can still feel the same sexual excitement. But the difference is I don't necessarily have the same body or skills to back it up. Like my head might almost get to the same place when I'm buzzed on coke but I feel a bit more awkward and less agile and fucking hot as I did 10 years ago.
 
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