I was never into anal sex when I was younger. I might have fascinated about it a few times with my college partner, but she had a firm no anal please philosophy. Fast forward a decade later and in another committed relationship, anal was still not a thing early on. I really never pushed it because the vagina is just… the best. It wasn’t until my partner talked with one of her clients (she was doing hair in our house at the time), her client asked if she could do sexually explicit photographs with a professional photographer in our house for her man. My partner told her sure, and a few days later, she was taking dirty pictures in our bedroom. I stayed upstairs, but I was up there super turned on that we had a sexy lady taking dirty pictures on our bed.
After the pictures were taken and the photographer left, we sat around and smoked a joint. At one point, having sex while on your period came up, and she told us that she does anal sex when she is gets blood. My partner asked if it hurt, and she said not for her. My partner then asked if it felt good? She emphatically said yes, and said that girls get intense orgasms from anal.
So a few weeks later, my girl wanted to try it. I got really turned on at that point and asked if she was being serious. She was being serious, sexy serious! She said she had never done that before and I believed her too, because she was married forever before me, for like 20 some odd years. She was really sexually repressed before me apparently, to my very much delight!
So we fuck normally for a bit, trying to have her body super turned on open for business. Once she was nice and squishy, I poured some lube on my dick and her ass. I got into position and started off with my finger up her ass and worked up to my dick. We were having a hard time at first, because it was too painful for her, but once I got in there after a few failed attempts, it felt fucking great. Not only to me, but for her too, she was loving it! I think our first time with anal sex was so successful was because I was able to last so long that first time. I was so concerned that I was hurting her that I didn’t cum immediately, like I could have (I was really turned on). I was luckily able to be in there long enough for her to figure out how to have an orgasm that way. It was a game changer for us as a couple!
Thank god it worked out like that for us, because anal has forever since been a big part of our sex life. It’s definitely part of a balanced breakfast for us now.
