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Describe Your Perfect Partner

assclass said:
and doesn't bore me with compatible morals and ethics,
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Sorry. Does that mean you want them to share your iconoclastic morals and ethics or be different to you? If you want them to be different, is that because you are motivated to educate/change them towards your point of view? Apologies: your original wording a little ambiguous.
 
Perforated said:
Sorry. Does that mean you want them to share your iconoclastic morals and ethics or be different to you? If you want them to be different, is that because you are motivated to educate/change them towards your point of view? Apologies: your original wording a little ambiguous.
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someone who isn't boring

and also,

someone who has compatible morals and ethics to myself. Compatibility being existing together without conflict. We don't have to have exactly the same values, but they need to be close enough.
 
assclass said:
someone who isn't boring

and also,

someone who has compatible morals and ethics to myself. Compatibility being existing together without conflict. We don't have to have exactly the same values, but they need to be close enough.
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Yes that’s very important. I broke up with the woman i loved the most and most enjoyed being with after 4 years of bliss when some fundamental differences in values emerged. It made me realise the importance of a bit more due diligence about such things in the early dating phase.
 
Met someone who's into fucking music. Some of the same taste even. Who's into fucking shrooms. Doesn't fucking judge my hard drug use (but we'll see). Thinks what I'm doing is cool. (Very) Good looking. Affectionate (we'll see). Wants to meet up some time soon. Hits every mark, via the interwebs.

So.. we'll see. I'm very, very reserved about committing to anything with people dating or whatever but I may attempt this one. One of the biggest problems with my last two relationships was just fucking nothing in common. Got along fine, for a time. Then the downward spiral. Somebody who's actually cool would be a change of pace.
 
Outlier said:
Met someone who's into fucking music. Some of the same taste even. Who's into fucking shrooms. Doesn't fucking judge my hard drug use (but we'll see). Thinks what I'm doing is cool. (Very) Good looking. Affectionate (we'll see). Wants to meet up some time soon. Hits every mark, via the interwebs.

So.. we'll see. I'm very, very reserved about committing to anything with people dating or whatever but I may attempt this one. One of the biggest problems with my last two relationships was just fucking nothing in common. Got along fine, for a time. Then the downward spiral. Somebody who's actually cool would be a change of pace.
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It sounds like you’re being just the right mixture of cautious + optimistic. I’m really hoping that this guy works out for you.
 
My perfect partner would be tall, fully tatted, have long hair, a warped sense of humour, not talk too much (people who never stop talking should be stabbed several times lol), be into extreme metal and anime, and love me beyond measure, of course. Yet, not love me TOO much because I'd feel trapped. A bit of aloofness in a relationship is definitely for me.
 
I'm a huge sapiosexual, so more than anything I love intellect, huge turn on, obviously a loving and committed person much like myself (I have never cheated on anyone, ever.) Spiritual, probably alot of psychedelic experience. Someone who is interested in the very workings and foundations that make up reality itself and questions everything. They'd have to love nature too and look attractive to me and next to me.

I'd say, they are the opposite but the same as me. Like North and South are opposites of the same thing, quiet and loud being opposites of the same thing which is volume. Hot and cold, etc, etc. You get it.
 
Outlier said:
Met someone who's into fucking music. Some of the same taste even. Who's into fucking shrooms. Doesn't fucking judge my hard drug use (but we'll see). Thinks what I'm doing is cool. (Very) Good looking. Affectionate (we'll see). Wants to meet up some time soon. Hits every mark, via the interwebs.

So.. we'll see. I'm very, very reserved about committing to anything with people dating or whatever but I may attempt this one. One of the biggest problems with my last two relationships was just fucking nothing in common. Got along fine, for a time. Then the downward spiral. Somebody who's actually cool would be a change of pace.
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It sounds like you definitely should bro!

I had the same problem w my first 2 GFs too, then I met a woman who matches what I described above, and I want to say it worked out well, but I'm still yet to find out. Let's just say, once you find your one, life gets infinitely harder. It's worth it though.
 
saif1311 said:
It sounds like you definitely should bro!

I had the same problem w my first 2 GFs too, then I met a woman who matches what I described above, and I want to say it worked out well, but I'm still yet to find out. Let's just say, once you find your one, life gets infinitely harder. It's worth it though.
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It's important to have people present who you care about in your life, who care about you. Some understanding is the deal. I've been sorely lacking that in my non digital life.
 
MyrandaK said:
Why does your signature say that?
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Because I sell salvia and nBOME on acid tabs and hand them out to kindergarten kids telling them it's just marijuwanas. I'm NOT liable for anything.
 
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I had the perfect partner: beautiful, amazing figure, honest, faithful, loving, my best friend.

Not to be a buzzkill and not wanting sympathy but she accidentally overdosed a month before out wedding day. It's been the most heartbreaking 2 years of my life raising our now 4yo child without her, almost losing him to social services and severely damaging my relationship with my would be stepson....

I'm just posting this as a warning to drug users here.... Noone is immortal and if you do find that someone who shares your love of drugs then please calm down a bit.

Sure drop acid and shag in a field or take some coke and watch porn while fucking like maniacs sometimes... But when it comes to opaies,booze and benzos it's better to use that support from your lover to quit and have a real life together.
 
axe battler said:
I had the perfect partner: beautiful, amazing figure, honest, faithful, loving, my best friend.

Not to be a buzzkill and not wanting sympathy but she accidentally overdosed a month before out wedding day. It's been the most heartbreaking 2 years of my life raising our now 4yo child without her, almost losing him to social services and severely damaging my relationship with my would be stepson....

I'm just posting this as a warning to drug users here.... Noone is immortal and if you do find that someone who shares your love of drugs then please calm down a bit.

Sure drop acid and shag in a field or take some coke and watch porn while fucking like maniacs sometimes... But when it comes to opaies,booze and benzos it's better to use that support from your lover to quit and have a real life together.
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My heart goes out to you mate. I don't think I would have been able to cope with that and would probably have followed soon after. Kudos to you for staying strong for your child.

Respect... <3
 
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