I am too...
and of course it shouldn't be forever benzos do have a big risk for dependance and shitty w/d's, but it's useful in the relative short term.
And true about the barbs too, but technically it would mean that benzos were still created for anxiety, even if they were an alternative to other drugs.
Also I'm not trying to diagnose anything, but he says he's already been to a few different doctors, some very specific even. If they said he's fine, that's very typical to anxiety. My roommate went through the SAME EXACT thing. He went to the doctors, and they said he was fine. He just had anxiety, we always knew that it just flared up worse than normal. If you're legitimately worried then go ahead and go to some more doctors it can't hure. But then again if you're worried, also sounds like that could be caused by anxiety. Maybe just my opinion but I have a real life account to back it up, and I suffer from anxiety myself so I can relate. I'm not just pulling stuff out of thin air to sound cool or something.
In the end it's up to you, but maybe instead of focusing on the fact that you have these "heart problems" and going to doctors for that, maybe you should consider talking to someone / asking a doctor if you possibly suffer from anxiety.
And don't worry comes, I try not to let people from Jersey bother me, just a little somethin I've learned living in the northeast pretty much my whole life