It’s a rough bud but it’s necessary to move on.
I won’t go into details but based on my experience I was devastated when we separated with 2 kids after 16 year marriage. I was in shock. Couldn’t see my life going foward
Speed up 10 years.... i absolutely and grateful that it happened. No remorse or regret. Granted shit was hard to deal with kids money etc. but fuck that I can do whatever I want without her hanging on like shit in a toilet.
I am sorry it’s happening To you because I know the pain right now, but dream big have faith be bold and step away
I don't remember much when my kids were that young, my wife and I were so stressed out, a lot of that's a blur. That and I drank like a fish like I was having this big existential crisis and I was scared to death. Other than that having kids was great.