Pillsbury_Dope_Boy
Bluelighter
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- Mar 28, 2017
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I've been using IV heroin for 8+ years (on and off). I always lived in America, but I had family overseas and a wife overseas as well (we were waiting for her US visa to process), and every time I started using heavily, my parents would just send me out of the country for a while (heroin in not sold on the street there).
I have been back and fourth between America and overseas many times in the last 8 years. I have been back and fourth so often that I have not been able to get a college degree or have a stable career. Last year, my wife had had enough of my drug-addicted bullshit and decided to leave me. She was gone for 8 months. During this time, I had sunk into a deep depression and I was convinced that if she ever came back, I would never be so stupid as to start doing drugs again.
A few months ago, my wife's US visa finally finishes processing and she decides to come back to me. The only problem was that she would be living in America now, in my home city, and it is very easy for me to get dope there. But obviously, after all the suffering and self-hatred I experienced when she was gone, I wouldn't be stupid enough to go back to using, right? Wrong!
When my wife moved back in with me, I got Vivitrol, but I HATED it. I suffered for a month on Vivitrol (I was incapable of feeling any pleasure whatsoever when I was on Vivitrol) and as soon as the Vivitrol had worn off, I got high and was immediately fired from my job the same day. I ended up taking a trip to the country (about 3-4 hours away from my city) to stay with family and get clean. That is where I am right now, but I eventually have to go back to my city. I am 100% certain that I will use as soon as I go back to my city. My wife is being supportive for now, but she will eventually get tired and leave me for good if I continue to be a junkie. I am considering not going back to my city, and just telling my wife that I can't do it. However, she doesn't want to be forced to leave the big city just because of my addiction. She told me that I should stay away from the city for as long as I need, and that she will be waiting for me when I get back (even if it takes several months). However, I know that it is not a matter of time. In the past, I have left town for 6+ months and then gotten high as soon as I get back to town. If I have made up my mind that I can't go back to the city, then I need to move away for good (and I may have to accept losing my wife for good, if she doesn't agree to move with me). Otherwise, I have to just move back to the city and just hope that I can somehow get clean (which is not very realistic). What should I do?
I have been back and fourth between America and overseas many times in the last 8 years. I have been back and fourth so often that I have not been able to get a college degree or have a stable career. Last year, my wife had had enough of my drug-addicted bullshit and decided to leave me. She was gone for 8 months. During this time, I had sunk into a deep depression and I was convinced that if she ever came back, I would never be so stupid as to start doing drugs again.
A few months ago, my wife's US visa finally finishes processing and she decides to come back to me. The only problem was that she would be living in America now, in my home city, and it is very easy for me to get dope there. But obviously, after all the suffering and self-hatred I experienced when she was gone, I wouldn't be stupid enough to go back to using, right? Wrong!
When my wife moved back in with me, I got Vivitrol, but I HATED it. I suffered for a month on Vivitrol (I was incapable of feeling any pleasure whatsoever when I was on Vivitrol) and as soon as the Vivitrol had worn off, I got high and was immediately fired from my job the same day. I ended up taking a trip to the country (about 3-4 hours away from my city) to stay with family and get clean. That is where I am right now, but I eventually have to go back to my city. I am 100% certain that I will use as soon as I go back to my city. My wife is being supportive for now, but she will eventually get tired and leave me for good if I continue to be a junkie. I am considering not going back to my city, and just telling my wife that I can't do it. However, she doesn't want to be forced to leave the big city just because of my addiction. She told me that I should stay away from the city for as long as I need, and that she will be waiting for me when I get back (even if it takes several months). However, I know that it is not a matter of time. In the past, I have left town for 6+ months and then gotten high as soon as I get back to town. If I have made up my mind that I can't go back to the city, then I need to move away for good (and I may have to accept losing my wife for good, if she doesn't agree to move with me). Otherwise, I have to just move back to the city and just hope that I can somehow get clean (which is not very realistic). What should I do?