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is it considered or accepted as gay?

Speed King said:
A hetro guy wouldn't consider blowing another dude. My opinion. If you did it, get over it. Your not a fucking label.
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label? you wouldnt know how much it hurts insife to be callred a faggot, poofta, cocksucker
 
Okay, didn't think it was going this far. How about so what. If a person did or didn't do a thing , so what. That person shouldn't beat themself up for it. If that person likes it, okay then. If that person played around a few times, so what. They should move on and be who they want to be. a mistake or learning experience is not a bad thing.

Also, that person could punch them in the face by aiming for the back of the head. That shuts people up quick. That person has no reason to feel guilt or pain at all.

Speed King
 
Thank you Speed King you made me feel a bit better but i'm still stressed about it
 
please let us know how it goes.i've always been curious myself but never felt inclined to do it.
 
Specified said:
im concerned with labels because gays get the most hated on and joked about
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that's not even true. it's more stigmatized to be black, or Muslim, or plenty of other things. hell i'm a sub and that's not exactly cool either.
 
StarOceanHouse said:
please let us know how it goes.i've always been curious myself but never felt inclined to do it.
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Why not do it? A word of advice if they are on PREP or Truvada, claim to be 'poz but undetectable', or are into raw/bareback anal sex, find someone else to have sex with.
 
Specified said:
label? you wouldnt know how much it hurts insife to be callred a faggot, poofta, cocksucker
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You're not going to broadcast it are you? So how would you be labeled if no one knows you had that experience? Just be quiet about it.

I do agree with someone else who said a hetero male wouldn't even consider it.

I find it hard to believe you can't find at least one woman who can get the job done. It's really not that hard and comes naturally when you're into your partner. Do I need to instruct them? lol ok bye.
 
atara said:
that's not even true. it's more stigmatized to be black, or Muslim, or plenty of other things. hell i'm a sub and that's not exactly cool either.
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Blacks and gays are discriminated against unfortunately. I cannot stand when people try to make gay discrimination sound just as bad as what black people have gone through and fought for. No, it's not the same at all and I take offense to that.

Here's the difference: A black person cannot be "in the closet" or choose to hide their skin color, but a gay person can choose to keep that information to themselves if they want to.

Anyway, I digress...
 
@Specified: if you try oral from a man a couple times and don't enjoy it your not gay. it's called experimenting.

if a man gives you oral and you enjoy it then your gay. own up to it and be happier. fuck the haters.

if you enjoy getting oral from men and want to take it a step further then that's called exploring your homosexuality.

if you enjoy any kind of intimacy from men (oral, anal, etc.) and intimacy with women then you are bisexual.

if you enjoy intimacy with a transgender... i'm not going to touch that one cause it's too PC right now. so i'm gonna say whatever floats your boat.

you can either hide away from who you are and go without or you can try it and find out. choice is yours.

great outlooks on this thread and you would benefit from considering.

p.s. talk to your girl about oral; be specific and open in communication. she might have questions or just take mental notes while listening. if people don't talk about this kind of thing then nothing happens but the stuff that ends up ruining intimacy and relationships.
 
if it felt good then it felt good. who cares. its just nerve endings firing off to give you that feeling.
 
CoastTwoCoast said:
I cannot stand when people try to make gay discrimination sound just as bad as what black people have gone through and fought for. No, it's not the same at all and I take offense to that.

Here's the difference: A black person cannot be "in the closet" or choose to hide their skin color, but a gay person can choose to keep that information to themselves if they want to.

Anyway, I digress...
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It's all about perspective. While it's true gays can stay 'in the closet' to some extent (at the price of having a life of any meaning or meaningful relationships), homophobia knows no race. Gays have been hated/killed/prejudiced against everywhere amongst all peoples and races, and may never feel at peace or safe because they are never in the majority and always the easily targeted minority. The same is not true for blacks.
 
Look mate do you just want to have your dick sucked proper and get off on it or are you more keen on discussing persecution mate as to be honest mate you hire an escort to leave and not worry about what they think so if you're assuming blokes are better, well maybe they are?

I dunno man, it's a whole lot easier telling the person who happens to be sucking your dick at the time some pointers than go around questioning your sexuality.

I mean, who gives a shit seriously who gets picked on. Do you want a good Blowie or not?


I'm pretty sure it's on an individual basis, I dont think all men could suck cock, women cant either, stop being so fussy.
 
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