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Guys how did you overcome your addiction to prostitutes?

Find girl that is nymphomaniac. I am not kidding, I had such girl 6-7 years ago she squeezed me in few months, I lost weight, she was ready to f**k 10 times daily, it maybe sounds "cool" but it is not. That is why I remebered as solution to hookers adiction...
 
Boku, I agree that you have issues to work through - you basically admitted as much. Men often date women more attractive than they, bc women care less about looks than other traits like status, money, personality etc. I think you are projecting a male perspective onto women. It sounds like you are stable & reasonably hard working; with the money saved from hookers you could probably get an attractive woman if you tried. Wouldn't you prefer to have sex 3-7x a week with one woman you really like? If you wish you can PM me a photo if you want a woman's honest rating of your appearance. I can certainly say that I date down looks wise & always have. To me overall compatibility & personality are by far the most important. There must be attraction ofc, but I find a lot of men attractive bc while I have certain preferences, other traits can really turn me on, especially intellect.

What 23, I don't think you're unsuitable to be in a relationship, and I agree that a woman with some of her own issues (like me, lol( could be a good solution. Don't give up! At least remain open to a relationship.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
A lot of prostitutes where I grew up IV hard drugs and share needles, and have HIV, Hep C, and other STDs.
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This 100%

All the sex workers I've known personally (NOT from trade may I add, I've lived with some before) I would prefer to pull my own finger nails out than sleep with them, the mere concept actually makes me feel sick, my stomach is actually turning as I type this thinking about it.
 
^^^I've only known one, who was definitely a polydrug addict & frequently didn't use condoms, but she NEVER shared needles & didn't have Hep or HIV. No other STDs to my knowledge but I'd bet she had HPV. So that's my useless anecdote. She was actually a smart, nice girl eho liked sex, but had serious addiction issues.
 
Zopiclone bandit said:
This 100%

All the sex workers I've known personally (NOT from trade may I add, I've lived with some before) I would prefer to pull my own finger nails out than sleep with them, the mere concept actually makes me feel sick, my stomach is actually turning as I type this thinking about it.
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Lkewise, yet you have idiots who claim that prostitution should be called sex work and that it is 'liberating' for the woman, man, or minor who is a prostitute. 8)

Legalising prostitution makes things a lot worse as this is basically legalised sexual slavery or legal sex trafficking.
 
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I disagree...legalisation improves things. Same with abortion. I'm not a fan of either practice but it won't stop happening so best to make it safer for everyone.
 
Legalisation isnt a great idea, because sex trafficing victims are harder to spot. But we should de criminalise, like in many parts of Europe. Can't beleive its against the law in the US
 
fairnymph said:
I disagree...legalisation improves things. Same with abortion. I'm not a fan of either practice but it won't stop happening so best to make it safer for everyone.
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I used to be for legalisation of prostitution. Then I met women, and men from countries, and cities where prostitution is legal or basically decriminalised, and they told me how legal or decriminalisation of prostitution is the legalisation of sex trafficking of women, men, and people who are not legal adults who are trafficked and forced to work as prostitutes.

https://www.independent.co.uk/voice...inalisation-doesnt-work-holland-a8206511.html

https://www.thesun.co.uk/uncategori...king-rape-drug-addiction-and-brutal-beatings/

https://www.nytimes.com/roomfordeba...lizing-prostitution-leads-to-more-trafficking

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/20...-prostitution-supposed-keep-sex-workers-safe/
 
I prefer massage parlour. It's not the same + I really like massages, great way to relax and get rid of stress. In my last trip to Prague I tried nuru massage in local parlour here. Their masseuses are so sensual, that massage just blew my mind and I completely forgot about everything. Now I try to attend parlours at least once a month.
 
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Boku_ said:
I'm a self confessed sex addict who craves interaction with hookers, If i work I have at least two bookings a week with sex workers, sometimes even more if i can afford it. Been addicted to sex workers since just before i turned 19, i'm 38 now.

I can afford a hooker habit for the time being but in 5-10-15 years time i may need to cut down how many bookings i regularly have with prostitutes. Sooner or later i won't be able to afford to visit brothels as often as what i do now.

I don't want a normal relationship with a woman in my league, getting sex for free isn't an option so it's pay for it or live the asexual lifestyle. At the moment i just want to visit brothels as often as i can afford it.
In all seriousness i fear the day i can't afford prostitutes more than death itself. I am fully aware many men end up living sexless lives regardless if married or single.

tbh i don't mind jerking off at home and i quite enjoy masturbating over pictures of girls either in Bikini's or topless/nude but only seeing a hooker fully satisfies my sexual tension.

I was told by people who don't approve of paying women for sex that real men jerk off at home instead of paying cash to a woman for sexual services.

Any bluelighter guys overcome an addiction to prostitutes?
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You have some behavioural issues you need to address?

You also need to keep in mind when you chose to get prosititutes the first few times you were 19 so you thought like a 19 year old.

Now you are 38 and still doing the same.

It means you haven't grown adequately in the emotional intelligence department.

I was a victim of this to from long term drinking.

Maybe go and see someone. I know they have 12 step classes for sex addiction in Australia. May be worth a go. At worst you can find a free root ;)
 
Boku_ said:
I don't want a normal relationship with a woman in my league, getting sex for free isn't an option so it's pay for it or live the asexual lifestyle.
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Gotta face this issue and not sweep it under the rug.


hoes are a good intro into power dynamics

I wouldn't hate if you bought some pussy in a drought


supposed to be some spice for your life, not the goal

takes self-control -- and you gotta figure out how to meet your basic needs in life - - hoes are not a healthy replacement for life
 
Ok to play devils advocate, why can it be that this is his thing? He enjoys it, there's women who like being escorts are not crack addicts and its what they like.
Why, due to what I've seen boils down to personal opinion about the worlds oldest profession as immoral and dirty.
When you feel the need to start a sentence with, "i would never pay for sex" in what should be some helpful advice on a forum based on addictions to drugs, by addicts, is pretty hypocritical don't you think?

Every man here has paid for sex one way or another! You have dated, courted, put up with most behavior your partner had put out and money had been spent on them in the pursuit of making them yours.

We are a very diverse species with different likes and wants. To think one addiction is worse than another is just special....lol
 
Whenever you get the urge to use a prostitute immediately jerk off. As soon as you are done you will completely lose the urge.
 
Go see Erika Khan in Sydney. She will blow your mind. You won't need hookers anymore, she is only doing it for a short period of time then retiring.
 
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