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anything that equals backpage "dating" page?

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asecin

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well, it used to be "escort" page, but now its "dating" page anyway its became really bad this new year as like 70% of ads are scam and the rest are just crack addicts, so im suffering here to find something to replace it. i am looking for something where one can get sex without attachment.
i kinda run low on money lately so if there are ways to get to meet someone without paying, that would be awesome too!
do you guys think tinder works?? i keep getting it recommended by other sex addicts, but they are all liars! i found out you actually pay for the service so its not any better than paying for whores really. also, i heard its mostly dating site... which is a turn off. i dont really have time to date, but im normally horny like anyone else would be my age. so, anything else someone has to offer, thanks!
 
i used to only fuck BP whore cuz it was so dam easy, or id meet the occasional FWB (but that was rare)

so anyway i did get tired of BP and tried tinder for the 1st time, bro everyone is right tinder is pretty easy, i matched with this girl, sent her some stupid messages (heres the only tricky part- you have to be witty and engage them online) then ask them out for COFFEE, we met up the date went great

i invited her over my house like 3 days later, she came over and let me fuck her without a condom... 2 days later she comes over again fucked her again and finished inside her without protection (I'm still wondering why this girl let me have sex with her raw the second time i met her), she's coming over again 2night

try tinder man its way better than bP, its nice to bang real women 4 once
 
i used to only fuck BP whore cuz it was so dam easy, or id meet the occasional FWB (but that was rare)

so anyway i did get tired of BP and tried tinder for the 1st time, bro everyone is right tinder is pretty easy, i matched with this girl, sent her some stupid messages (heres the only tricky part- you have to be witty and engage them online) then ask them out for COFFEE, we met up the date went great

i invited her over my house like 3 days later, she came over and let me fuck her without a condom... 2 days later she comes over again fucked her again and finished inside her without protection (I'm still wondering why this girl let me have sex with her raw the second time i met her), she's coming over again 2night

try tinder man its way better than bP, its nice to bang real women 4 once

For the purposes of harm reduction, can I please urge you and everyone reading to use a fucking condom with people you don't really know!?!

She could be a loon out to infect as many people as possible with something nasty for all you know. It's all "cool, brah" right up until the point your dick falls off.
 
lol why would she just do it like that? nice find if thats for real, but i think she is crazy. how is this a real woman compared to BP sluts who are very clean and careful? i dont get that part
 
come on now

lots of women dont use condoms

its stupid but it happens- they're on the pill and somehow that covers them
 
What's BP?

Surely well known escort review websites are just a google search away? Bluelight doesn't serve as an escorting directory.
 
why are you guys keep doing this "google this shit" thing? google is a scammy business now, i cannot find a single verified worthy website without being associated with google in some kind of mutual business relations. its impossible to find anything reliable and good on google anymore and YET people keep saying "GOOGLE IS YOUR FRIEND"! NO dude, IT ISNT!

anyway, i might try tinder in desperation for sex cuz im a drug and sex addict boowhoo, whatever! i just wonder, is it ok to try to hide your face in the pics there cuz i dont wanna be known as some kind of sex junkie?? its much more convenient and secure on BP, pay and leave etc.
 
how hard is it to use tinder?

not that hard judging by the sex people get on there

as a gay I find it soooo redundant and there is a lot of picture judging and fuck all contact. unlike grindr which does the trick quickly and shows u people who dont live 60 miles away unless ur in countryside

tindr is more good for women who are halfway hot so they dont feel spammed by a wall of mediocre men.

try fetlife if ur into kinky shit

hiding ur face is the biggest sign of weakness, clearly u lack confidence and cant even cope with the relatively pain free rejection (being ignored often) that apps provide. theres something wrong in my mind when the face is missing

either cheating/hiding/ some kind of snake shit
 
why are you guys keep doing this "google this shit" thing? google is a scammy business now, i cannot find a single verified worthy website without being associated with google in some kind of mutual business relations. its impossible to find anything reliable and good on google anymore and YET people keep saying "GOOGLE IS YOUR FRIEND"! NO dude, IT ISNT!

anyway, i might try tinder in desperation for sex cuz im a drug and sex addict boowhoo, whatever! i just wonder, is it ok to try to hide your face in the pics there cuz i dont wanna be known as some kind of sex junkie?? its much more convenient and secure on BP, pay and leave etc.

Because we're not here to provide an index for escorting services, for very obvious reasons (links to potentially sketchy sites, not hr, becoming a target for spammers, etc). I'm not being a dick btw, it's just true.

And, also because google works for what you're after. If you don't like it, use a VPN or a more secure search engine. I've never been with an escort and I still know the most obvious escorting website, which ranks very high on search indexes, because it's very well known. Go to a dedicated forum or a review website or something.
 
how hard is it to use tinder?

not that hard judging by the sex people get on there

as a gay I find it soooo redundant and there is a lot of picture judging and fuck all contact. unlike grindr which does the trick quickly and shows u people who dont live 60 miles away unless ur in countryside

tindr is more good for women who are halfway hot so they dont feel spammed by a wall of mediocre men.

try fetlife if ur into kinky shit

hiding ur face is the biggest sign of weakness, clearly u lack confidence and cant even cope with the relatively pain free rejection (being ignored often) that apps provide. theres something wrong in my mind when the face is missing

either cheating/hiding/ some kind of snake shit



its much easier for gay guys tho. i can go to gay bars and always get sex. men in general gay or straight are always horny. just last time i was in a bar i got with this tranny that kept buying me drinks and im happy i didnt end up raped. now getting girls is much more difficult since all men are horndogs and im clearly average guy with no money, chance is pretty low and i tried before so i know. anyway, ill probably try tinder after all but the reason i dont wanna post much persona information is the same as i have done on facebook long time ago, lots of stuff gets out and people talk about it very uncomfortable for me. sex life for me is top secret! also thanks for fetlife information, ill try this too im curious to find some weird shit heh
 
today i used BP cuz i was out of my mind and i got to this "black girl" which happened to be tranny! i knew something was not right cuz the first moment that horny man started getting at my dick like psycho sucking it raw and then trying to have me fuck him until i touched the balls. honestly, very feminine black man. had tits and all, nice figure and face was not manly at all. damn, this shit keeps happening to me now, im fucking quiting BP and im onto other shit. i still claimed my heterosexuality later that day by finally fucking some pussy, a puerto rican one that looked like teen pocahontas. she had kids and she was 21 though but she looked so small... anyway i regained some sanity after all this
 
well, it used to be "escort" page, but now its "dating" page anyway its became really bad this new year as like 70% of ads are scam and the rest are just crack addicts, so im suffering here to find something to replace it. i am looking for something where one can get sex without attachment.
i kinda run low on money lately so if there are ways to get to meet someone without paying, that would be awesome too!
do you guys think tinder works?? i keep getting it recommended by other sex addicts, but they are all liars! i found out you actually pay for the service so its not any better than paying for whores really. also, i heard its mostly dating site... which is a turn off. i dont really have time to date, but im normally horny like anyone else would be my age. so, anything else someone has to offer, thanks!

Well there are alternatives, like CL, various sex dating sites or apps, people all that use for same purpose (finding sex) :)
 
..... i still claimed my heterosexuality later that day by....

This would be after you'd had sex with a guy, right? I'm not really a person who cares for labels, but that one doesn't entirely work...
 
Tinder works. Well, as long as you're attractive lol.

I was on it and had many guys hit me up for sex. Just sex. I also know a lot of friends that use it just to get laid. Easy, no strings attached.

I went on bumble to find my current BF.
 
Well, you are right, but we are talking here to help to those who are not so "attractive" as you said, as I can see that is a point of this thread... :)
 
I think they mean big penis.

Or big pussy, for men who like the feeling of throwing a hot dog down a hallway.

I'm not knocking those on Tinder or whatever, but these days, I'd rather be alone instead of dealing with sociopaths from dating sites. It's much more scary for women.

Craigslist was good back in the day when I just wanted to get laid. It was convenient. I don't really care about sex lately. Shocking. I think I'm over penis for the most part.

What was this thread about again?
 
Well, you are right, but we are talking here to help to those who are not so "attractive" as you said, as I can see that is a point of this thread... :)

The OP doesn't say that he's not attractive. But even if you are, you can use snapchat filters, find good lighting, good angle... can definitely take a good pic.
 
The OP doesn't say that he's not attractive. But even if you are, you can use snapchat filters, find good lighting, good angle... can definitely take a good pic.

I didn't say that I am unattractive but I just suppose, I neto mean on OP, generaly I told what I mean, without any intention to insult OP or anybody else... :)
 
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