This thread is definitely the best attempt at getting BL'ers to reach for the mints. I triple-dropped some extra-strong-mints on the back of the general opinion - BL has officially been infiltrated by the marketing industry.
On a serious note : I'm with you Redleader - making out is (IMHO) the best opportunity for both partners to share a similar pleasure plateau through kissing and groping (I thought about finding a better word but FUCK - ITS GROPING OK?).
Hmmm....how about you 'spontaneously develop' a dislike of her favorite foods and their subsequent smell/taste via her mouth? It's a bit juvenile but if there was ONE thing she ate on a daily basis (assuming you hadn't openly revealed you liked it too!) that you could use to bring up a '...oh damn you ate licorice again right' (etc) type convo, that'd only be solved through You know I'm a big tongue-on-tongue activist but if you're going to eat licorice, you gotta brush this taste away cos I HATE it'.
Yeah - juvenile. Still, adjust the approach to whatever might fit perhaps.
BTW - seems to me that a lot of people I talk to will lay claim to be master 'head-givers', 'sensual touch sensationalists', 'deep-throat devotees', 'g-spot geniuses' etc... if 'making out' is your special ability then what is your unique selling point?!?