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Do you use condoms?

Well do you??

  • Not in a relationship and do not

    Votes: 34 13.1%
  • Not in a relationship and do

    Votes: 61 23.5%
  • In a relationship and do not

    Votes: 116 44.6%
  • In a relationship and do

    Votes: 49 18.8%

  • Total voters
    260
I would be surprised if anyone other then other escorts could match me in raw number of partners. when you're racking up generally at least 2 and at most 6 partners a day every day you work they add up fast.

I've actually been escorting for going on 3 years at first doing just enough to get by and being very low profile, but recently picked up the pace to rake in the big bucks, some quickies with my calculator indicate that 've probably added about 270 partners to that roster since Novemberish, the other 400ish were spread over about 2 and a half years.

My "sex for pleasure" numbers are a lot lower, maybe 10ish.
 
in the immortal words of some dude, "that boy'll fuck anythingthat walks on two legs, or four"
 
xtcgrlatl, I'm curious about condoms breaking - I've had that problem before with the Durex thin condoms and with the Durex avanti, which sounds a bit like lifestyle ultrathins. Since you obviously have a lot of experience using condoms, how often do you find this happens? And do ultrathins preform as well as thicker ones on that front? You also mentioned putting lube inside the condom as another way of making it less likely to break, so let us know if you have more tricks up your sleeve... Nx
 
ellua said:
anyone who feels the need to be tested as often as ever month can't expect to be clean for much longer... unless you're just paranoid...


No it's called being safe and having expendable funds... at the time.

I haven't been tested lately (mostly due to not being in the same situation I was before, not to mention the money), but at the time, 90% of us weren't in completely monogamous relationships... call us sluts if you want, it wouldn't be an inaccurate title.

but with the incubation times of certain diseases, like say... AIDS... it's worth it.

Because of my caution I missed contracting herpes by two WEEKS.

It was something that me and a group of my friends (9 of us total), decided to do to make sure we were clean. We KNEW the lifestyle we were living could be dangerous, and we didn't want to take chances.

$65 a month is a small price to pay to make sure you don't DIE.
 
Oh and just to add.... I ALWAYS use condoms, except for one time (which I explained in another thread was a unique situation).

Me and my friends were living a lifestyle that was fun, and normally be very much a "throw caution to the wind" type fo thing... but we never did. We played it safe, and still had fun... we weren't stupid.


I've only slept 9 girls...but within my group, having multiple partners was not uncommon.


Again, it's called being safe... not stupid.
 
lola said:
xtcgrlatl, I'm curious about condoms breaking - I've had that problem before with the Durex thin condoms and with the Durex avanti, which sounds a bit like lifestyle ultrathins. Since you obviously have a lot of experience using condoms, how often do you find this happens? And do ultrathins preform as well as thicker ones on that front? You also mentioned putting lube inside the condom as another way of making it less likely to break, so let us know if you have more tricks up your sleeve... Nx

I think I've had a total of maybe 2 condom breaks in my career in escorting. In so far as I recall neither of them were lifestyles ultrathin. I honestly cant remember the brand. Probably the big red durex bulk pack of unlubricated ones cause they were the cheapest so I used those for the longest time but found out that even if you add your own lube that they kind of hurt me to use. Then when I got an STD test they gave me like two big strip of condoms that turned out to be lifestyles ultra thin, I noticed a big difference in the way they felt on my end (a lot less painful after seeing multiple guys in a day) so I've stuck with those so far.


Anyhoo, One of the breaks was because the guy just wanted to do me anally for like over half an hour and the longer you go with any given condom the more likely they are to break. Doesnt help matters that the guy wanted to do long deep almost totally in and out strokes.

Can't remember the other break that well except for it happened. Probably due to similar circumstance. Guy just wanting to straight up fuck for the whole time he was with me, deep strokes, and taking forever to get off.


Now if I am going more then 10-20 minutes of actual fucking, I suggest a change in position and while changing position also change the condom.

I've also had a guy doing me a little extra ecstatically in some position I cant really remember that forced the condom inside me all the way and it just kind of slid off inside me and i had to fish it out. Not fun.

Thus far my track record is pretty good. I think if you keep your condom useage time controlled to 30 minutes or less, and use plenty of lube on the inside and outside of the condom, MAKE SURE IT STAYS IN PLACE, then you're gonna be relatively safe. It also probably helps if the guy controls his strokes and doesn't do deep in and out motions and uses shorter strokes.

Relatively recently on a providers board someone posted about how they found lifestyles brand to be prone to breakage but that doesnt match my experience at all. I suspect that she doesnt do the lube on the inside of the condom trick. I think that must help a lot with breakage.

I don't know for sure if it makes things feel any better for the guy then fucking with just a condom on so honestly I would actually appreciate it if a guy would try the two ways and let me know if it makes a difference in sensation. :)


Also keep in mind that on the girls end that natural lubrication is going to come and go as sex continues so it probably wouldnt hurt to have a bottle or tube of lube handy and not be afraid to add extra to what she's already making.

Since my sex life is...lets call it...overbooked. I almost never make much in the way of natural lubrication because I'm damn near impossible to physically "turn on" through conventional means.

Soooo.... I always use some lubricant. I tried the super ritzy silicone based stuff that was like 20 dollars for a tiny little bottle and didnt care much for it, the advertising said just a drop or two was enough but I found that I really needed much more then that, maybe it works better if the girl is wetter, but my experience was that I went through that 20 dollar bottle in like 2 days. Now I just stick to astro-glide and it works out ok for me.
 
Fausty said:
Ok, you got me on your raw numbers. I can put up some fairly high scores on the total partners scoreboard. . . but not in the 700 club. ;)

I stopped this poll at 50+. but now I think I should have added some more options in the higher ranges to see how those of us in the "more active" category distribute above 50. Call it morbid curiosity - or latent competitiveness?

Peace,

Fausty

This is the condom thread, not your "Sex Partners" thread.
 
Lysis said:
The pill made me sick too. I use a ring now and it's 100% better.
Is the ring comfortable? can you feel it ? It seems like something I would want to look in to. I hated the pill when I was on it. I always had really bad headaches and nausea from the pill.
 
XTCgirlATL is not a prostitute at all. I read the thread about it in the Sex love relationships archives where she wrote all about it and it was totally BS and lies.
 
^^

thanks for your useful contribution to this thread.

hrmmmm... drunk sarcasm detector... shoudl come up positive...

If you ahve nothing useful to add to a thread, how about you don't...

...
 
Chaos Butterfly said:
^^

thanks for your useful contribution to this thread.

hrmmmm... drunk sarcasm detector... shoudl come up positive...

If you ahve nothing useful to add to a thread, how about you don't...

...

All I'm saying is to take her posts with a grain of salt that's all. She's not an escort.

I don't care if you're drunk or an ass about it, I just figured people should know.

Don't believe me? Click on the thread in the archive for this forum called "Experiences with prostitutes".
 
Yes because people didn't want to believe me and I'm actually well written, I must not be an escort :)
 
I've been with my g/f for quite a while and even though she uses birth control, I still try to use a condom;

I say try, because the girth of my penis prohibits me most of the time, even the magnum xl's constrict blood flow to my penis and break after about 2 to 3 minutes.


Does anyone here have any condom they could reccomend me trying?
 
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PlacentaJuan said:
All I'm saying is to take her posts with a grain of salt that's all. She's not an escort.

I don't care if you're drunk or an ass about it, I just figured people should know.

Don't believe me? Click on the thread in the archive for this forum called "Experiences with prostitutes".

and all I'm saying (sober now ;)) is: Why should it matter? Why do you care/feel the need to point this out. Who really cares if she is or isn't, if she is living in a fantasy world where she gets banged (well, or awfully) 3-6 times a day, so what. If she actually is, and is making a healthy profit, then good for her!!

This thread is about using condoms or not, not about whether or not xtcgrlatl is an escort...
 
I use them almost all of the time, even though i'm on birth control, though i'll admit there are those moments of passion where it just has to happen without the rubber on because it just feels sooo much better.
 
Chaos Butterfly said:
This thread is about using condoms or not, not about whether or not xtcgrlatl is an escort...

Thank you. I really don't care all that much if anyone believes me, it's not like "pretending to be an escort" has won me any admirers. Though many haters :) I simply offered some practical advice on protection based on my experience.

I think that if anyone tries my advice they'll eventually find a condom that is acceptable to them and also reduce the chances of breakage. Whether you want to believe it or not I've gone through a *lot* of condoms and the old "lube up the inside of the condom trick" seems to have kept breakage levels so small as to be practically unnoticeable.

I suppose another piece of advice I'll offer to the guys that don't want to use a condom outside of a relationship because it doesn't "feel as good". Is that I have done several casual hookups, craigslist, parties, whatever, and I don't tell people I meet in person that I've had 700~ sex partners.

Would you still want to fuck a girl without a condom that's had 700 previous partners? And probably 15 or better in just the week before you hooked up with her on Saturday night?

Unless you're living with a chick and around her all the time you dont have any idea who's she's playing around with nor how often nor what level of protection she uses.

If you hook up with her one night and she's cool with you using no condom, then how many other guys previous do you think she's fucked without a condom?

Some of you people are playing with fire. That's all I'm sayin.
 
xtcgrlatl said:
Though these seem to be the widest at the base

http://www.condomdepot.com/product/detail.cfm/nid/231/pid/2865

http://www.condomdepot.com/product/detail.cfm/nid/231/pid/2407

Maybe try both and see which one is ultimately more comfortable for you. they have the same thickness stats (as in latex thickness) and have the same width at base.

Also do the lube on the inside of the condom trick and let me know if it makes them less breaky.


Thanks for the help, and I'll definately try out your trick and let everyone know how it works.

I think I'ma go with the trustex.
 
Xtcgrlatl: yes, we're all aware that you sell sex. No one has missed the memo. Seeing as how that is illegal in your jurisdiction (as I have told you through PM) I am going to ask you one last time not to brag about the fact that you are a prostitute in every post you make. Please respond via PM if you have any questions. I also unapproved your post that contained your personal drama. Start a journal.

The lube on the inside of the condom trick is a way to make condoms more pleasurable for sure, and maybe less likely to break, but if it's more than a drop or two, you risk the condom slipping off.
 
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