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Circumcision MEGA MERGED poll and discussion

How do you feel about circumcision?

  • I am male, intact and happy to be that way

    Votes: 170 35.7%
  • I am male, circumcised and glad to be that way

    Votes: 167 35.1%
  • I am male, intact and wish I were circumcised

    Votes: 22 4.6%
  • I am male, circumcised and I wish I were intact

    Votes: 33 6.9%
  • I am female and in favor of circumcision

    Votes: 44 9.2%
  • I am female and against circumcision

    Votes: 28 5.9%
  • Other - I'll post my response below

    Votes: 12 2.5%

  • Total voters
    476
Uncut american here and glad to be. The 'extra' sensitivity is in no way a problem for me. I can last as long as I want generally (hours that is). I will also add that I suspect that being circumcised affects the sensitivity of the head as well as the scared shaft because I know that if I go around during normal day to day shit with the foreskin pulled back (as sometimes happens) the head can get a little raw and uncomfortable from rubbing against clothes. A life time of that seems quite likely to lead to further desensitization.
 
not much to add, except that i found out that a ~20 year old coworker of mine was circumcised around 16.

did it b.c he felt "different". wonder if/when sex started he might regret that. i mean, you have already gone through some of the most judgmental years (with male peers).

kinda fascinated by it, actually.
 
why is it so hard for people to let others be happy in who they are? do we really need to crush people's self-esteem and expand TDS?
 
Personal attack edited. Next time you get warned. -Mariposa

You may not have chosen to get cut, but you are choosing to maintain this ridiculous idea that foreskins are ugly and dirty.

THey ARE dirtier...by nature...you have to clean them alot more consciously than I do HA!

And it's just my opinion they are ugly...an opinion...therefore it is just your opinion that my opinion is a "ridiculous idea"!

^U still have to use lube even if the guy is intact, unless the female produces enough lubrication.

I've NEVER had to use lube with a girl...not for vaginal sex anyways - that's just WEIRD.
 
wow, you've obviously seen a lot of uncut cocks and not had sex with that many women. hm...
 
i am uncircumsized :(
BUT i managed to pull back skin by lots of sex and ky jelly
lol my girlfriends didn't like to suck on a uncut penis head
they like to pull back my skin so i can feel the painful pleasure :p

here's what you (uncircumsized) can do:

- slowly pull back skin while NOT erected (daily)
*apply ky jelly can help a bit*

- do NOT be a smart ass and pull your skin back all the way
*IT WILL HURT LIKE HELL*

- while erected, pulling skin back will be very tight and painful
*add ky jelly and slow pull back and forth a little bit NOT TOO MUCH

now i can pull my skin back while erected and doesn't hurt at all
it is not as sensitive as before
 
^fyi, you don't know what you are talking about. this is not a problem for most people.
 
I'm not circumsized, and I'm happy to be that way. In elementary school I hung out with some little fuckers who happened to all be circumsized, they give me a bit of hell when they found out I wasn't and I got a bit self-conscious over that, and to an extent have been up until a year or two ago (I'm almost 19). I'm glad to see the results are 50/50 across the board pretty much, I was under the impression WAY more men were circumsized, and just about all women like them to be circumsized. Glad to see I was a bit misinformed and either way it doesn't really seem it matters.

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trancetasy - I sort of had your problem...As a child I never realized that the foreskin was supposed to be pulled back. It is SUPPOSED to be pulled back with very little pain. When I was 14 and getting in to porn I started realizing that EVERY SINGLE porn actor seemed to be circumsized. As I watched more and more (lol) I realized many of them actually weren't but the skin pulls back. I mean, it isn't our fault that no one told us you can, lol, mine was a bit tight also, comes from just not pulling it back your whole life, but it shouldn't really be an issue, and as you said time made it easier, same with me, I can pull it back all the way...No problems now, 4-5 years later. It was quite the epiphany, lol, like discovering a new body part or something, haha, but yes I think most guys realized they can from a younger age, so they never had the same issues as us. I'm just glad I had this epiphany BEFORE having sex or being with a girl for the first time.

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It generally seems those who are circumsized enjoy to poke fun at those of us who aren't...I got it in elementary school, seems it even happens among adults here. That's really childish and fucked up people (on both sides of the, er..spectrum). Seems good hygiene and you have nothing to worry about with being uncut, if you're cut, good for you...Like, what the fuck why do you care what other guys dicks are like unless you're gay or a girl, and on both ends, like, wow if you actually care THAT much that's a bit odd, granted the guy washes up down there, as claire said, she doesn't even pay attention to it, lol, I think that's the way it should be so long as hygiene has been kept to a reasonable level. I mean, we are talking about sex, penises, all that jazz here, its not really the cleanliest of things we partake in to begin with, it just feels good...
 
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I watched the doctor circumsize my son and he didn't even cry. The nurse put a topical anesthetic on it and he slept through the entire process so I don't agree with anyone who says that it is traumatizing. I agree with letting the man make that decision because they have a little more knowledge in that area.

A friend of my significant other wasn't circumsized and sometime last year while he was having sex (well, I really believe that he was masturbating), the foreskin split and he was bleeding everywhere. He had to have surgery and was in a ton of pain. He said that he would never want his child to go through that and that he would definitely choose to circumsize his future son.
 
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good point. your kid might also get hit in the ear playing little league, so you should probably have those removed too just to be safe. just use some gel, he'll sleep right through it.
 
good point. your kid might also get hit in the ear playing little league, so you should probably have those removed too just to be safe. just use some gel, he'll sleep right through it.

Lol...I think your friend who whacked off to hard, uhh...Whacked off too hard. I've had some minor chaffing from doing my thing a bit too often, or with too much...Ferocity, lol, it hurts a bunch when you get a little scrape, chaffing, cut, whatever down there, but uhh...It hurts whether it is on the foreskin or wherever, in fact I'd image chaffing on your head would be the MOST painful place, so...

But I do see the point of having it done, if it was done to you and you're happy with it. Saves you the time of having to explain why. Let the school teachers cover that one, eh?
 
I've always been happy being circumsized but lately I've had second thoughts, not that I could do anything about it. ;) I wonder just how much of my frenum, with all those wonderful nerve endings, was removed in the process. I also think that it'd be more fun to have a foreskin. I can certainly see how having a bit of extra skin could make "jerking-off" type masturbation better, just to mention one example.

It's no big deal but if I had my choice I think I'd go the other way. My wife and I decided that if we have a boy, he's staying au natural.

I'm sort of amazed hearing about some guys never having tried pulling their foreskins back. If I had had one of those things, I'm sure I would've manipulated and stretched it every way to Sunday by the time I was 14.

I'm a bi male, and I guess I may slightly prefer the appearance of circumsized cocks, but not to any great degree.
 
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I really really wish I wasn't circumcised. I feel like something was taken away from me at birth. It makes me really angry to know that I am and I am kinda considering surgery to get it back if the technology ever advances. Stem cells?

I feel like i've lost a LOT of sensitivity and protection. My penis gets chaffed sometimes and uncomfortable, and its harder to masturbate vs. uncut. It's just fucked up and should of never been done. "Oh we wanted you to look like your dad." Wtf?

I don't want to even talk about it anymore, it's an uncomfortable subject.
 
Who ever said that cirumcised people poke fun at the uncircumsised is weird as most people where i live take the piss out of people who are circumcised :S

I am circumcised however i had to get it done when i was younger as my foreskin was actually too 'small' for the rest of my cock -.- its not a big deal but i do feel a bit annoyed sometimes as i think that maybe im missing out :S its never been an issue with any girls though.
 
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