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The Gay and Bisexual Men's Anal Sex Poll

Buttsex, anyone?

  • I identify as gay and I enjoy anal sex

    Votes: 54 27.0%
  • I identify as gay and I do not enjoy anal sex

    Votes: 12 6.0%
  • I identify as gay - no preference

    Votes: 5 2.5%
  • I identify as bisexual and I enjoy anal sex

    Votes: 61 30.5%
  • I identify as bisexual and I do not enjoy anal sex

    Votes: 12 6.0%
  • I identify as bisexual - no preference

    Votes: 17 8.5%
  • Other - I am posting my response below

    Votes: 39 19.5%

  • Total voters
    200
I'm straight but I love anal play. Tongue, finger, or toy (small one) all feel great. I feel very fortunate to have a lady to is not only open to this, but enjoys giving (i.e. I never have to ask, she just goes down on me.)

Anal pleasure is not restricted to same-sex (as I am sure you know.)

PS...she also enjoys the same. She often requests anal sex, though I don't like to give as it hurts my dick quite a bit (girth combined with very tight ass = ouch.)
 
morninggloryseed said:
I'm straight but I love anal play. Tongue, finger, or toy (small one) all feel great. I feel very fortunate to have a lady to is not only open to this, but enjoys giving (i.e. I never have to ask, she just goes down on me.)

Anal pleasure is not restricted to same-sex (as I am sure you know.)

PS...she also enjoys the same. She often requests anal sex, though I don't like to give as it hurts my dick quite a bit (girth combined with very tight ass = ouch.)

Use more lube, and let her take a hit on the poppers when you go in.

:)
 
beachboyty said:
ass sex, like most forms of intimacy, happens on a curve. Most 10 year olds gross out at kissing someone of the opposite sex, much less having genital interourse...that goes away over time and, due to social conditioning, usually well before the opportunity to experience it comes along.

Anal sex (and all the oddities that accompany it from pain to poo) is the same way. With some notable exceptions, most guys I know who practice anal sex (passive or active) did not start out to be big fans of it. I know I sure didn't. But it grows on you to some extent or another, depending on your own unique sexuality.

Sexually explicit images and words can help this process along as well. This is why many men would crave fucking a woman's ass ("I'll let you put it anywhere you want" from Cruel Intentions) when to query them on their independent reaction to introducing their cock to someone's shitpipe might produce a gross reaction. Porn these days condition men to see the "hotness" in a girl who takes in both holes, and a certain accomplishment to being the guy to do it.

Similarly, many gay/bisexual men such as myself began to open up more to the idea of butt sex by watching incredibly hot images of men with rock hard dicks shooting loads of cum without touching themselves while in obvious throws of pain-laced ecstacy from being pounded by some porn-stud's huge cock. You watch enough of that, pretty soon you start to stiffen up to it, then you start to fastforward through all the groping and blowjobs to get to it, then soon enough you're fantasizing about doing it or having it done to you. After that, its just a matter of time before you exhaust sticking every household item you find to be reasonably safe up your ass and you need to move on to the real thing.

All that to say, ass sex is great. But its kind of like being abducted by an UFO, everyone who hasn't had the experience thinks your a bit nuts when you try to describe it.


Very eloquent post.
 
I'm bisexual, i think? I'm real confused tbh, probs just hormones :p I've done stuff with guys [although not anal, yet] and i find guys attractive alot of the time. But i lean towards girls more :D
Yeah i haven't had anal sex yet, but i've had guys/girls play down there and it's all good :)
 
augustaB said:
Newname wrote:


The best of the smaller vibrating toys I've tried is called the "Gerbil". It's really a bullet vibrator mounted on a flexible stick. For best results lie down with your legs open and let somebody else move the toy slowly up and down your rectum and beyond. Leave your dick alone and take a hit on the poppers when you feel ready.
I got myself an 'Aneros' the other day (I opted for the 'Progasm' model - www.malegspot.com if you wanna read bout it) and it's pretty good. Certainly better than the vibrator I had been using. Still haven't acheived an orgasm with it, but it's fun to use :)
 
I'm like Kinsey scale 1, relatively inexperienced.
My anal experiments have not been that great. Either I'm not really into it, or I'm doing something wrong.

ebola
 
Used to play sniff butt with my friend when I was young. Now I like to be a bottom or suck until everything's shot out that's gonna shoot. Love that flavor!8o
 
Many straight men enjoy having a woman play with their asses (a few may not admit it..haha).

That's my ex boyfriend right there.
 
i know that is right

LikeISaid said:
Used to play sniff butt with my friend when I was young. Now I like to be a bottom or suck until everything's shot out that's gonna shoot. Love that flavor!8o

LOL
 
Not sure if I qualify here...

I'm male-bodied and bisexual, but identify as a male-to-female transsexual or an androgyne: I'm on estrogen therapy and have had some laser hair removal, although so far I've done nothing to the original equipment.

I like receiving a bit more than giving (which is good, since my primary partner is much more into fucking me with a strap-on than being penetrated anally herself). And while it's frequently difficult to find cute bi-boys who like playing with bi-fem/tranny couples, we've had some pretty good luck recently. =D
 
If done correctly I really enjoy anal sex, it contributes more to the whole experience of sharing something with your lover. Sure I love a night of raw, uninhibited sex as much as anyone, but it is much better with someone you love. The whole thought of the two of us being together in the same moment and quite literally a part of each other just enhances the whole sexual experience for me.

(Off Topic: Its been way too long since I have had the opportunity to experience this type of intercourse, so perhaps my feelings will have changed when I get the opportunity to exercise this type of intercourse again...)
 
Great survey Mariposa :)

Butt sex is something I can take or leave. With random guys or anyone I have sex with while not in a relationship, butt sex is just too intimate for me. I find it incredibly uncomfortable to take it, and the idea of feeling/smelling something gross in the middle of it all is enough to turn me off real fast.

The one time I've been in love I'd give it up anytime he wanted, probably the hottest sex of my life, on both ends :)

Most of the time, though, I'm satisified just by giving a killer blow job and then getting myself off.

Oh yah. If I do end up having butt sex, I want it be over in about 10 minutes. Any longer and I start to get bored.

Again, see above about being in love. I think when you have that connection, the preferences tend to get a little blurry as it becomes more than just something sexual.
 
I am bi and put no preference because I am more of an oral freak but I have received from this one dude once that hit the prostate gland and came all over the place, the weirder part was that this dude was huge and I thought it would hurt, he's the only one that I liked it with, the rest of my experiences with it left me soft and tolerating it until it was over. I am not one to be the top for anal sex at all.

I prefer to give head and I have to gloat here but I am a pro, with men or women (I have a split tongue imagine that??).
 
Net_Raven said:
I'm bisexual, i think? I'm real confused tbh, probs just hormones :p I've done stuff with guys [although not anal, yet] and i find guys attractive some of the time.

Same here. It seems like I'm more interested in girls in the earlier part of the day, and more towards guys later at night. I think because I wake up with high testosterone which is aromatized to estrogen throughout the day.
 
beachboyty said:
Porn these days condition men to see the "hotness" in a girl who takes in both holes, and a certain accomplishment to being the guy to do it.

i would probably go further looking at it from a sociological perspective and say that porn is framed from a dominant white male perspective of power over things,

maybe thats the attraction........ power over or giving power up :)

look at how some of the most powerful people on earth get off from being subjected to sexually domineering acts toward themselves.

i think sexuality is framed as being very important in the make up of identity in western developed countries, personally i'd like to see another box in the poll with a "i am human and have sexual neds rather than use labels :)

anyhow back ontopic my philosphy with everything is; how do you know what the whole meals like if you dont eat off that side of the plate??

just my 2cents
 
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ebola? said:
I'm like Kinsey scale 1, relatively inexperienced.
My anal experiments have not been that great. Either I'm not really into it, or I'm doing something wrong.

ebola
Aww, thats so cute :D <3

I can offer proper guidance =D
 
I'm more or less bi. I enjoy giving. Not tried receiving from from a man, but enjoy it from toys.
 
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