What do people take the wrong way about you?
Everybody got certain things that they say, or do, or think, and other people take it the wrong way or get the wrong idea from it.
maybe its because its partly your fault because you onlp operate inside your own head and it makes perfect sense to you but when you say it other people aint got the same perspective and take it different.
and sometimes its their fault because they wont listen or get thru their head what you really mean.
i been thinking about this because i talk pretty general sometimes and it confuses people espcially on here where heads dont know me or cant hear a tone ofvoice, etc.
for example i talk like cats know me sometimes. i say shit that if you take it outta context it sounds fucked up but if you know me you know what i mean and know that it aint like that at ALL.
forgettin that i am representing myself with what i say (if im talkin to someone i dont know, in life or on here even). and that the only thing cats can know me by is what i say if they dont know me at all.
so i be offendin people left and right without ever meanin any harm.
it aint like im a ignorant cat who dont know something is gonna be offensive and says it because its normal to me, for example liek somebody whose really rich, sheltered, their house/socail circle is the whole world as far as they are concerned, from a "gently" racist family and never saw the world too much. like somebody liek that chillin with asians saying "wow, this is really nice. i never met any chinks before! you guys dont eat cats at all! ahahahah" never realizing its fucked up and then wondering why everybody gets mad.
me its more like i joke around alot sometimes but peeps dont nkow that im a clown sometimes and think im dissin them or throwin backhand comments when really im just playin.
i try and be more careful. watch what i say and think of how somebody else is gonna interpret that. forgettin that not everybody thinks the same or understnads where im comin from.
but it can be frustratin especially when cats be thinking im one of them ''stand off, dont trust nobody, i dont like nobody, fuck you unless i known you for 5 years'' cats and get the wrong idea when really i think theyre aight and i would be chill with them.
also im real straight up i dont beat aroudn the bush and some peeps dont like that. i dont like playin games and lyin about how shit is. if i dont like you imma be up front with that. but some cats woudl rather front and be all 'oh sure were cool" and i dont play that shit but some cats dont appreciate that
So What are some of the things people take the wrong way about you? What do you do without meaning to, that gives peeps the wrong impression or wrong idea? the one thing where you hear what sdomebody said about you after you chill with them and say SHIT MAN, I DIDNT MEAN IT/IT WASNT LIKE THAT!
maybe talkin bout it here can give people ways to change that subtlely, so other peeps understnad them better.
Everybody got certain things that they say, or do, or think, and other people take it the wrong way or get the wrong idea from it.
maybe its because its partly your fault because you onlp operate inside your own head and it makes perfect sense to you but when you say it other people aint got the same perspective and take it different.
and sometimes its their fault because they wont listen or get thru their head what you really mean.
i been thinking about this because i talk pretty general sometimes and it confuses people espcially on here where heads dont know me or cant hear a tone ofvoice, etc.
for example i talk like cats know me sometimes. i say shit that if you take it outta context it sounds fucked up but if you know me you know what i mean and know that it aint like that at ALL.
forgettin that i am representing myself with what i say (if im talkin to someone i dont know, in life or on here even). and that the only thing cats can know me by is what i say if they dont know me at all.
so i be offendin people left and right without ever meanin any harm.
it aint like im a ignorant cat who dont know something is gonna be offensive and says it because its normal to me, for example liek somebody whose really rich, sheltered, their house/socail circle is the whole world as far as they are concerned, from a "gently" racist family and never saw the world too much. like somebody liek that chillin with asians saying "wow, this is really nice. i never met any chinks before! you guys dont eat cats at all! ahahahah" never realizing its fucked up and then wondering why everybody gets mad.
me its more like i joke around alot sometimes but peeps dont nkow that im a clown sometimes and think im dissin them or throwin backhand comments when really im just playin.
i try and be more careful. watch what i say and think of how somebody else is gonna interpret that. forgettin that not everybody thinks the same or understnads where im comin from.
but it can be frustratin especially when cats be thinking im one of them ''stand off, dont trust nobody, i dont like nobody, fuck you unless i known you for 5 years'' cats and get the wrong idea when really i think theyre aight and i would be chill with them.
also im real straight up i dont beat aroudn the bush and some peeps dont like that. i dont like playin games and lyin about how shit is. if i dont like you imma be up front with that. but some cats woudl rather front and be all 'oh sure were cool" and i dont play that shit but some cats dont appreciate that
So What are some of the things people take the wrong way about you? What do you do without meaning to, that gives peeps the wrong impression or wrong idea? the one thing where you hear what sdomebody said about you after you chill with them and say SHIT MAN, I DIDNT MEAN IT/IT WASNT LIKE THAT!
maybe talkin bout it here can give people ways to change that subtlely, so other peeps understnad them better.
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