Need Help~
fairnymph said:
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I have dated or been involved with 3 represssed homosexuals, so I seem to go for them or something!
Many things are very stereotypical but still hold grains of truth, such as a lisp and excessive hand movements while talking.
The biggest sign though, hands-down, is intense homophobia, especially if combined with any 'stereotypical' traits.
hi, im kinda new here and was just investigating this topic,i need your opinions/help about some person that im starting to have doubts with.
i've been to frequent sleepovers with a bunch of us guy-friends. yet there's this one guy who just is...well, indescribable. i don't openly proclaim my orientation to them, so they don't really know yet. my actions seem a bit evident to some, but they don't mind it, thus they tease me as very girly/feminine in most ways. (which kinda makes me a gay-icon). but of course with a lot of men, they play around, doing 'gay' stuff here and there, like 'doing' each other. it just so happens that these occur in our sleepovers. i join of course, in these sexual jokes, for fun. but this guy doesn't really participate like so. plus, i think he's overtly homophobic. once, me and my friends were in a table and talking about people coming out of the closet, and, i dunno, he kinda reacted and started shuddering, and my friend who started the conversation said, "Don't be such a homophobe.", and he kinda just fell silent, but we were chuckling or something. all the other guys are okay with homos. another instance is when my friend also talked about not supporting Democrats, or something bout that, that he doesn't support gay marriage. and then all of a sudden, that homophobe im talking about just blurts out after the statement, "I am totally against gayness." more evidences?
well, since i talked about how they see me as the feminine one here, i think this homophobe thinks im a total fag. so, whenever i compliment him, or kinda massage his back or whatever kind of contact, he just slaps me hard in everywhere, although his face doesn't show it. he displays it as "karate/taekwondo". im really getting annoyed coz the slaps really hurt now. but when i do the same things to the other guys, they respond in a sexual-manner joke, again(which should be normal for guys), and they're okay with it. and when the homophobe actually finds out the next morning he got hugged by any one in his sleep, he shudders a bit too much. and then at the most random instances, he just says "I like women". of course, everyone knows that men should like women. why on earth would he have to blurt it out everytime? that's how my suspicions started. my other friend again was talking about one topic, and after he finished, the homophobe just said "I'm totally not changing my status message...'I like women'.....
so i need all the radars out there to tell me: is he a repressed homosexual? please i need confirmation...coz i still have a crush on him.
certain contradicting factors: he plays drums (well, i can be interested in playing drums too..), he can play basketball (but he never instigates it, in particular, i've yet to observe his skills on the sport. that's about the only sport he actually plays.)
reply asap plz..thanks