Evolution 101
I think you missed my point somewhat. I agree, lust is the best way to concieve as many children as possible, but where 'love' comes into it, is in having TWO people, not one, around to care for those children and ensure that they grow up and reproduce themselves. Something that evolution depends on. This is why lust is often a precursor to 'love', you have the desire to reproduce, then you have the desire to stick WITH that person you wish to reproduce with.
My point being that by way of lust as a more plausible explanation to evolutionary theory.. we could feasibly go on an endless partner swap.. bearing many children through different partners *at the same time*.
See above for WHY that's incorrect.
I'll restate as simply as I can. Lust is a great way of conceiving as many offspring as possible, from as diverse a genetic background as possible but that's useless to evolution if they don't survive.
Secondly, diversifying the gene pool isn't what its all about, its about picking the genes with the best possible chance of survival, hence girls usually go for Big guys or Smart guys. Its because the big guys are tough, and the smart guys are intelligent, both are characteristics which aid surival, in evolutionary terms. Human beings have only been living in 'civilisation' for about the last 4000 years if that, we have been around for 40,000 at a minimum. Evolutionary reflexes die hard.
I think love is far above issues of propagation.. It's pure and emotive. The reflex to continue the species is best served by the hormonal and chemical instinct of lust.
I don't particularly wish to insult you, but I find this to be a highly simplistic and naieve view of 'love'. Hormonal and chemical instincts are what sparks attraction, 'love' is what encourages us to pursue a binding and long lasting relationship beyond the purely sexual. This is basically exactly what evolution requires. Lust is one part of the coin, 'love' is the other, they are certainly not so far apart as you put it, indeed a great many people seem to have difficulty in differentiating one from the other.
-plaz out-