DJC*
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- May 19, 2001
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I'm feeling a bit strange posting about this on here, but i know i can rely on you guys to help me out.
A bit of background info first:
A lot of you have read, or know, about my past relationships and how badly they have ended. I've been cheated on more than once by Ex G/fs, and this has lead to a certain amount of insecurity within me. Every time i give my love, it just ends up being kicked back in my face. Its for this reason that i find it very hard to trust females with anything other than friendship.
The thing is a certain girl has entered my life with whom i have started to get feelings for. I duno what it is about her, but she just caught my eye from the day we met. We get along very well (as far as i know) and have very similar interests, including music, rolling, etc etc, we even dance similar, hehehe
Its what to do next that has stumped me. I've never had the guts to approach a girl and tell them how i feel, until recently, and it backfired, so i'm hesitant to do that again. There is a mutual friend i could tell, but.....i duno..... Should i just wait and give it some time?? I know people will say "if its meant to happen it will", but then again, i sat around and waited a very long time before i got with my last g/f, wasted time you could say.
Any advice people?? Any similar stories??
I've just realised this is gonna stump a few of my friends that read this, hehehe, oh well.
DJC
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"We are the children of the revolution"
A bit of background info first:
A lot of you have read, or know, about my past relationships and how badly they have ended. I've been cheated on more than once by Ex G/fs, and this has lead to a certain amount of insecurity within me. Every time i give my love, it just ends up being kicked back in my face. Its for this reason that i find it very hard to trust females with anything other than friendship.
The thing is a certain girl has entered my life with whom i have started to get feelings for. I duno what it is about her, but she just caught my eye from the day we met. We get along very well (as far as i know) and have very similar interests, including music, rolling, etc etc, we even dance similar, hehehe
Its what to do next that has stumped me. I've never had the guts to approach a girl and tell them how i feel, until recently, and it backfired, so i'm hesitant to do that again. There is a mutual friend i could tell, but.....i duno..... Should i just wait and give it some time?? I know people will say "if its meant to happen it will", but then again, i sat around and waited a very long time before i got with my last g/f, wasted time you could say.
Any advice people?? Any similar stories??
I've just realised this is gonna stump a few of my friends that read this, hehehe, oh well.
DJC
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"We are the children of the revolution"