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Xegh
10-01-2013, 15:47
Hello everybody fairly new on BL. I dabbles in weak opiates on and off and very rarely now stronger things like OC and Morphine.


I found that all opiates/opioid's have reduced my sex drive but on small doses can still perform but slightly numbed sensation.

Tramadol seems to be a big exception it seems to heighten the experience and also improve performance in terms of duration, all though this is not an insecurity i like this side effect. I think its a slippery slope though as I now sometimes plan to take it just for that reason and rarely have sex without taking tramadol now. 8(


Wondering who else out there has had similar experiences? Any thoughts welcome, I am male and would love to her if there are any female BLer's on her willing to share their experiences?


Much love.

i are spectre
10-01-2013, 16:52
i had both good sex and awful floppy no sex on tramadol. i had to take the right amount and id go crazy dialing every girl i knew. then other times, i couldnt get it up. very strange.

pasha
10-01-2013, 17:26
Tramadol can sometimes be compared to MDMA in this department but the side effects are closer to being on an ssri. The drive, passion, prospect and libido for sex is high, yet it can cause delayed ejaculation, sexual dysfunction, and difficulty getting or maintaining an erection.

If your one that benefits from it then so be it, just don't make a habit out of it.

Xegh
10-01-2013, 19:08
It is very dose dependant and tolerance dependant. When i have not used tram for a number of days 50 mg is enough to get the desired effects but 100mg is optimal and 200 mg with higher tolerance anything over this dose for me would leave me unable to finish and unable sometimes to maintain an erection.

Interesting that it has such a differing effect, this does seem to be a drug that can be very from day to do so that does have a bearing on it.

Does anybody know why the effects can be so different from day to day?

Sometimes it leaves me feeling very irritable. I try not to make a habit out of it and recently have become more aware of what i am doing so try not to do it so often.

It does seem to also have a comedown effect comparable to MDMA and can also seriously disrupt sleep if not taking long enough before trying to go to sleep so generally dose before 8 as the drugs effect do last a long time and take up to an hour to feel the effects sometimes, much quicker of course when taken on an empty stomach.

kronedog
10-01-2013, 19:15
Personally I can't take have sex on Tramadol, and that goes for just about any kind of opiate or SSRI. I take Tramadol and Oxycodone on a daily basis and the thought about sex is nice, but whenever I'm presented the situation I know I'm going to perform horribly so I usually just don't. :|

Tramadol is a weird one. For some they say they feel absolutely nothing from it while others say it's one of their favorite drugs. I only really enjoy it around the 350-400mg range but I'm also aware I probably shouldn't be taking 400mg everyday. Oh well.

Xegh
10-01-2013, 19:51
Its strange how not only does it effect each person wildly differently, but also the same person can experience wildy different effects day to day. Why is this i have not experienced with any other drug except maybe psychedelics .

i are spectre
10-01-2013, 20:44
well its mode of action. tramadol isnt a typical opiate. it messes with nor-ep and serotonin, and probably a lot of other things we dont quite understand.

what i find odd about tramadol is how potent it is. i mean it doesnt get you that high, but when you take it during withdrawal it clears you right up. one thing i enjoyed about it was that it helped with depressed and anxiety, likely because of the effects on said neurotransmitters.

the withdrawal was very painful with the worst depression ever. i am glad to finally be off these things... school starts monday and i still have insomnia/tachycardia/aches/sweating. but i can sit here and be ok now. each day is better and its a blessing.

Xegh
10-01-2013, 20:56
To clear that up do you mean withdrawal from tramadol or another drug "the withdrawal was very painful with the worst depression ever."

If so what doses and how regularly were you using it to cause your bad withdrawals?

i are spectre
10-01-2013, 21:02
im saying the depression from tramadol was far worse than any opiate. it had bad mental withdrawal. the physical was real bad too. the upside was that it was a quick one. a quick ride to hell and back. i was taking a lot more than anyone should. more than what is considered dangerous due to risk of seizure. you shouldnt take more than 400mg in a day.

Xegh
10-01-2013, 21:09
Ok yes daily use is going to lead to bad w/d or so i keep reading never experienced them myself due to never using more than 3 days in a row and not above 300 mg ( this is also just one dose in a day )

I do get quite ratty on this drug tho, and that is when it has opposite effect on my sex drive performance, but that is only on rare occasions can sometimes persist into the next day.

i are spectre
10-01-2013, 21:13
what do you mean ratty?

Xegh
10-01-2013, 21:18
Irritable, or easily annoyed only happens on rare occasions but i can see that if was to use it daily maybe this side effect would increase. Are you from the states? only ask because maybe ratty is a UK terminology.

chrisalt
10-01-2013, 21:51
Your lucky man. When i use tramadol i get limp dick to the extreme. More then likely due to the SNRI effects it has.

Be happy lol

Xegh
10-01-2013, 21:51
O i am happy about it haha what dosage where you using when you attempted sex maybe it was too high?

creator
10-01-2013, 23:46
I find that I have no problem getting up on tramadol but I cannot ever orgasm. So I too think it makes me better for my partner by improving duration to where I could potentially go forever but the kicker is that I get so frustrated at not being able to finish that I try to avoid sex haha. Sometimes I would take a very small dose that would still have the prolonging effects, but not enough to get me high and prevent it from happening

Dobles
11-01-2013, 02:18
Ladies love the dope dick when you can't finish. I think fucking a girl till shes too sore to go any longer is more gratifying than an orgasm. I think most females would agree too.

Xegh
11-01-2013, 11:30
I find that I have no problem getting up on tramadol but I cannot ever orgasm. So I too think it makes me better for my partner by improving duration to where I could potentially go forever but the kicker is that I get so frustrated at not being able to finish that I try to avoid sex haha. Sometimes I would take a very small dose that would still have the prolonging effects, but not enough to get me high and prevent it from happening

I also take an amount that doesn't noticeable get me high when i use it as a sex aid haha I guess thats what you call it. To get high although I dont rate the high that much i would taken 200mg+ , used in combo with other drugs though i find it much more enjoyable and closer to actually opiates i.e Diazepam, Soma.

DickTate
11-01-2013, 16:54
I had one fantastic experience having sex on 200mg of Tramadol. The problem was that I could only finish after the peak but that was timed alright so I didn't have to "fuck her sore" which i doubt most females would find better than an actual orgasm...At least not on a regular base.
She actually asked me why it took so long.

However another time on a slightly smaller dose (150mg) I had kind of a speeddick due to the SNRI properties and was not really in the mood. So like Xegh said this is pretty unpredictable even for the same person.

In my opinion the best opioid for prolonged sex is Tilidine. Short acting, great euphoria and with the right technique you can control and time your climax nearly perfect :)

chrisalt
11-01-2013, 17:07
O i am happy about it haha what dosage where you using when you attempted sex maybe it was too high?

50mgs. So next to nothing lol.

Chrisalt, drugs and intercourse just dont jive lol. Atleast theres other shit to do when im on drugs haha.

Xegh
11-01-2013, 18:26
50mgs. So next to nothing lol.

Chrisalt, drugs and intercourse just dont jive lol. Atleast theres other shit to do when im on drugs haha.

THERE IS?????? like what!!

haha

pasha
11-01-2013, 18:36
I think a lot of ladies would take it as a sign of disrespect if you couldn't finish in a timely fashion.

Obiez
11-01-2013, 18:52
I couldn't finish on any opioid, but no chick ever complained. Yes, I got the odd "baby I want you to come as well" and I said I would next time which made them want to swallow, get it on their face, etc, etc. Not so bad if you ask me.

Xegh
11-01-2013, 19:03
100mg being generally the best dose for me, and i can finish seemingly when i like obviously not in like 5 mins its gonna take a longer but not going to take an hour ( unless that seems fitting at the time )

herebefore
11-01-2013, 19:32
a female reporting here. opiates make me horny- all of them. come up, come down, doesn't matter, there is typically always a period of time when i'm high on an opiate that i really want to fuck... until i've hit about day 4 of a binge and then sex or physical contact is that last thing on my mind. as long i don't binge increased libido is a constant side effect.
now, when i was younger and first starting exploring drugs, my (then) steady boyfriend who was also an opiate enthusiast shared the same effects on libido that i did. if we ended up having sex, it was possible for him to cum on the come up, but impossible on the way down- personally i would attribute it to the way dopamine is utilized in both the opiate high and the high of orgasm.
since that time i have found it far harder to help a male companion dose and then subsequently have great sex, the timing always seems to be off in a little way. i think in the end its about knowing the nuances of your own libido and your partner's while in an altered state, which is easier for some people than for others. none of my sex partners since him have been avid drugs users so i've never been able to learn how their bodies react to different things with mine.

chrisalt
11-01-2013, 20:42
lmao @ Xegh

chrisalt
11-01-2013, 21:55
I think a lot of ladies would take it as a sign of disrespect if you couldn't finish in a timely fashion.

I have been in this spot. They think its them, they start thinking your not into them etc etc. Then you have to try to explain its the drugs. Which is ok, but try telling that to a women who doesn't and never has used anything.

KillSurfCity
12-01-2013, 03:04
i was actually prescribed tramadol today for my scoliosis! now i am on 40 my oxycodone right now so tonite is not a good nite to try this combo but i think in the morning i may take some tramadol and fuck my fiancé once the effects are in full swing. i will post an update tomorrow. and maybe a video. SNOOGINS. haw.

Psychonauticunt
12-01-2013, 19:54
50-150mg increases stamina, makes the experience somehow more pleasurable, yet direct sensory stimulation from the genital area seems slightly diminished.

200mg and up have usually meant I run the risk of erectile dysfunction (though this is not a given yet at 200-250mg) and almost certainly cannot climax.

KillSurfCity
12-01-2013, 19:58
i was actually prescribed tramadol today for my scoliosis! now i am on 40 my oxycodone right now so tonite is not a good nite to try this combo but i think in the morning i may take some tramadol and fuck my fiancé once the effects are in full swing. i will post an update tomorrow. and maybe a video. SNOOGINS. haw.


WOAH. i went for an hour which was waaaay more than my fiancé could handle. she was begging me to stop. no orgasm but it felt NICE. ;)

Aquadolphin
20-10-2016, 17:01
I definatly know what you mean by the slight numbing sensation. When I have sex on tramadol, I usually end up lasting for a very long time and sometimes never climaxing or even finishing. I usually take 100mg to 200 and every time I have tried to have sex which is usually pretty unsuccessful. Just makes me work myself out and I get a numb dick.

BushMaster
20-10-2016, 20:51
Hey so you all know tramadol in high doses can cause seizures. The grand mall kind. Been taking tramadol recreationally off and on for years. The first seizures I saw were the old lady's. Three to be exact. We both stopped taking it. No more problems until I took some that the doc gave me and siezed myself from a little more than 200 mg. Dislocated my shoulder for the efforts. Please b careful w tramadol.

LambofGod420
20-10-2016, 21:45
Its because tramadol is not like your typical opioid. It has short acting SSRI properties. From my experience , I usually dose about 250mg and it lasts all day and usually I only get high like 3 hours on OC.

It definitely has a mood lifting effect and makes me more energetic. On other painpills I don't think about sex , I am content being alone lol. But yeah I could certainly imagine tramadol increasing sex drive, its normal .

waffle-head
21-10-2016, 03:02
Hello everybody fairly new on BL. I dabbles in weak opiates on and off and very rarely now stronger things like OC and Morphine.


I found that all opiates/opioid's have reduced my sex drive but on small doses can still perform but slightly numbed sensation.

Tramadol seems to be a big exception it seems to heighten the experience and also improve performance in terms of duration, all though this is not an insecurity i like this side effect. I think its a slippery slope though as I now sometimes plan to take it just for that reason and rarely have sex without taking tramadol now. 8(


Wondering who else out there has had similar experiences? Any thoughts welcome, I am male and would love to her if there are any female BLer's on her willing to share their experiences?


Much love.

I'm taking up to 400mg tramadol a day. Something has absolutely killed my sex drive recently. It must be tramadol because I had a frickin sky high sex drive until I started tramadol. Tell the truth. I started tramadol and stopped taking diclazepam. So, either the diclaz was giving me the high sex drive and died when I stopped, or the tramadol has killed my sex drive. bu seriously, I suddenly. over the period of a few weeks, do not look at women at all. WEird and fucking annoying, haha

morphine-dreams
21-10-2016, 14:32
Don't use opiates for that reason. They increase mine too, but it's just because of the dopamine (or I guess serotonin, in the case of tram) rush combined with the MOR agonism. You're likely to either make decisions you regret, or you'll get addicted for the most trivial reason. I know it's amazing when drugs make sex *that* much better, but if your sex drive is fine normally, no need for this to be anything more than a "once in a while" kinda thing. You'll start to enjoy sex without tramadol in no time, trust me. Right now, you're just comparing it to how it feels drugged, which is impossible to consistently replicate. Give the drugs a rest and find other ways to have great sex again.

dopemaster
21-10-2016, 14:45
I never really had trouble with sex on opiates. Getting piss drunk has given me more problems in that department if I didn't have coke or speed.

I saw someone mention it being kinda like MDMA. I find that with nucynta which is so chemically similar. I think it's called taptenadol or something but don't quote me.

I had an Rx and didn't like it cuz anything remotely serotonin messes with my head after a day or two.

Anyways. Nucynta. I had some saved and was in bad opiate wd so I injected some. Kinda felt like a goofball but then after I settled down it felt like I was rolling for a few hours and when I redosed.

I doubt it is a good drug to IV not that any are but that is besides the point.

As far as anything else relevant I am not much of an amp user so that might be why I had such effects. I also having taken MDMA in ten years, it stopped working and yes I tested it, just did too much for too long.

opiatekrzy
21-10-2016, 18:47
Tramadol makes me just as dysfunctional as opiates when it comes to sex