coolzmoker
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- Feb 7, 2012
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I have a problem. Throughout my life has been the same repeating trend. I have lots of things I WANT to do, but I just CAN NOT bring myself about to do them, and if I get started on something, I can't stick with it for more than a few days. I'm becoming afraid I'll never learn, and thus waste my life in my own eyes.
I'm currently 23. I'm pretty happy, have friends, ambitions, hobbies. I'm not on any meds, never have been, no history of mental illnesses in family etc. I am a bit nervous and do have low self-esteem, although it's getting better.
Lots of people will say that I'm just weak willed, and that I could if I really wanted to. The problem is, yes it is weak willed, but I do really want to, I just can't bring myself to it. It's like there's some other side in me that has a much stronger will, and that side wants to do that shit tomorrow, and just watch some TV, eat snacks (always snacky) or go for a bike ride today. It's not that I can't get stressed about the things I need to do, but that doesn't make me do them. Instead I feel a reward when I procrastinate.
The problem is with anything that doesn't have an immediate reward it seems. Do any of you have any ideas what's going on in my brain, or possible solutions? Are there any drugs that will help it? Even if it's only a temporary solution, if I actually get a larger project done, I think that would flush my brain with dopamine, and then it will be easier next time.
Sorry if this forum is not for this kind of topic
Have a good sunday
I'm currently 23. I'm pretty happy, have friends, ambitions, hobbies. I'm not on any meds, never have been, no history of mental illnesses in family etc. I am a bit nervous and do have low self-esteem, although it's getting better.
Lots of people will say that I'm just weak willed, and that I could if I really wanted to. The problem is, yes it is weak willed, but I do really want to, I just can't bring myself to it. It's like there's some other side in me that has a much stronger will, and that side wants to do that shit tomorrow, and just watch some TV, eat snacks (always snacky) or go for a bike ride today. It's not that I can't get stressed about the things I need to do, but that doesn't make me do them. Instead I feel a reward when I procrastinate.
The problem is with anything that doesn't have an immediate reward it seems. Do any of you have any ideas what's going on in my brain, or possible solutions? Are there any drugs that will help it? Even if it's only a temporary solution, if I actually get a larger project done, I think that would flush my brain with dopamine, and then it will be easier next time.
Sorry if this forum is not for this kind of topic
Have a good sunday