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[Edit: My post looks like a review; sorry for the length]
Beatlebot said:
He was the only one in the movie willing to take some real action to make his life better, and she ruins it for him.
Very true. I think Justine is drawn to him because he's burning with this desire to make something, anything, happen. You can tell that he's been waiting for a long time for the right time (and the right person) to make his dreams a reality.
Justine, as the trustworthy, reliable girl-next-door, differs from Holden in that she deliberately stifles her passions, convinced that her life is most tolerable when she fulfills people's assumptions of her being a "good girl." Her relationship with Holden allows her access to a secret outlet for her hidden desires -- she gets to experience sex, intrigue, drama, romance -- without jeopardizing her public image and without forcing her to actively confront the trappings of her life.
I think Justine might have mustered up the courage to take some action, especially in her marriage, had Bubba not caught her at the motel and blackmailed her. It seems that Bubba's reaction to her infidelity -- disgust and anger at her cheating on his best friend, and a creepy, obsessive resentment that she violated the image he had of them as the ideal couple -- sends her into panic mode. Even though she hates her life, the thought of hurting her sweet, slow, unsuspecting husband and losing the security of her daily routine frightens her in the way that impending release terrifies the prisoner who knows nothing but life in confinement.
Essentially, Justine makes a decision: she will do the "right thing," absolving herself of nagging guilt and increasing risk of being found out by everyone else. She decides to save herself and leave Holden to the wolves -- after all, he's a troubled boy who needs help, and what good would it do anyone if she went down in flames with him? I think his suicide, while shocking, is not entirely surprising to Justine, nor devastating. In fact, I think she feels relieved that he disappears from her life with very little effort on her part (she sends the authorities to deal with him, and he conveniently kills himself) before their affair becomes public knowledge.
She also does the "right thing" by confessing infidelity to Phil, but by allowing him to believe his assumptions about the details of the affair, we see that she's determined to play it safe and do whatever it takes to regain the security of her "good girl" image. She assures Phil that yes, despite what the doctors say, he is indeed the father of their baby, and by the film's end we are treated to something that resembles a happy ending (happy family, baby, smiles all around) ... except, by now, we know that appearances can be deceiving, and the official story of a life masks a world of secrets and deceptions.
This film is about lives of quiet desperation, existences in which fear has frozen desires and aspirations to possibilities beyond the sphere of dull contentment. The characters are so fearful, in fact, that threats to the status quo go unnoticed in their midst -- perhaps deliberately so.