Damn sorry to hear about that situation you're in. It seems like the kid has to go because he doesn't seem to be a good fit with you or your brother. Also I have seen his type before that will lie and steal and they are no good even when confronted. What shocks me even more is how he had no respect for your grandmother while he was living in your moms house. The kid seems like a real prick and was he ever diagnosed with an LD, personality disorder, and or any clinical problems. Anyway your best bet is to keep your cool and handle it in a rational way because it never looks good to attack someone especially if they're documented as being LD or what not. Try to talk to your mom with your brother about how you feel about the situation (I don't know your relationship with your mom), but it seems to be better than with her boyfriends kid. Keep us posted I hope it all works out for you, so in the wise words of harm reduction go blow that bag of dope before you kill someone
ive calmed down now cause really im not that type that gets all hyped out about things..ibe just recently had to stop smokingweed for court and that has made me a little testy but i also blew my nod which im even more pissed about...
like i said this has been building..i mean the kid takes advantages over everything cause my grandma just thinks its us pickin on him and it really isnt..thin kabout if your own grandma took this kids side who has lived with you for not even a year, and takes his side with just qabout everything and then in turn tells your mom when gets home from work and then i get bitched at...this kid has been doin shady shit for a while and really we never have proof or have never caught him in the act and when we do its somehting stupid not worth mentioning
tonite was tipping point cause like i said my gram always has his back and normally before this anything shes asks of him he will do right away with out questions..frankly i believe its cause he lives here for free and eats more food then he ever had in his life...from what i hear his mom has 2other if his siblings living with her but she works alot so they did shit on their own like dinner and now the kid has a friege full of food and eatrs like a king..literally i flip out cause he eats so much..for a while after he moved in and was payin rent both the check he was getting and the link card he got was goin to his mom and she didnt want to part with it..basically usin his money for her and the other 2 all the while J was livin here..all my mom asked was 200 a month for him from the mom well the mom wouldnt pay the rent for him on time and my mom got pissed so she tried having his check and link sent to my gradma(my grandma is retired and is always home and does the cookin and grocery shopping, thats why they wanted his money sent to her..so she could divide it up for groceriess and his ciggs) well even though the mom bitched claimning the only reason why we wanted it switched was so we coulkd get the checks and link for ourselves, when really my mom wanted his rent on time and didnt want to spend her money on his cloths and haircuts and ciggs..well after his mom gave up in court cause she kicked him out so he was intitled to it, my mom stopped askin for the rent and basiclly my gram just does everything for him like his mom was supposed to..so when he needs ciggs or a haircut my gram takes him and spends his money on it..
well recently again me and my brother bitched cause well she does everything for this kid and is like his babysitter..and ive been sayin that it was bullshit since day one but it wasnt until my brother brought it up to my mom and gram that shit started to change..(my brother was the baby and normally is pretty quiet in family discussion, where as me being the oldest its the opposite im in the middle of all the family shit) but my brother was like this is bulshit for you gram cause his dad lives in this house but doesnt do shit for him, he talks to us more then he talks to his own son when hes home..i guess we are kinda like the sons he always wanted ya know? but my brother was like why if he needs new shoes your the one buying it, or if he has to go to the doctore or dentist, your the one that takes him..not his dad or his mom...well when my brothe said that to her it kinda sunk in where as i said that shit for months and i was told tto mind my own business
so all this shit i kept in until today...my gram fell and couldnt get up..i cant show you how close his room is to the bathroom, they both share a wall thats how close it was and when my gram fell she fell outside of the bathroom, so its not like she fell inside with the doorclosed and was basically rightout side his door yellin for him to help cause none of us where around..he was watchin monday night raw and ignored her until my brother came home and heard her call him for help..thast when J came out and was like whats goin on? you ok? now my gram was crying and my brother came into my room and was like yo listen to this..and as soon as this happened i was like no way...my grandma did all this stuff for the past year, literally treating him like one of her grandkids, and he ignores her calls for help..says he couldnt hear her over the tv..bullshit my gram is so loud he could have heard her with headphones on..and even if he didnyt hear the yell my gram is heavy set and you would have heard the boom on the ground ...
so i went down planning on yelling but not hitting him( im like 6'1 220 hes like 6'1 140 skinny fuck) and he was lookin me in the face while sittin im standing and like starts yellinb bac "how do you know" " i didnt hear her" and blah blah and when i started bringin up the past things hes done he copped the attitude and picked up his cell phone and laughed in myface basically trying to ignore ,e..well i snapped and like i said i gave him an open hand push/slap to his head and kept cussin him out and whatever and then he got someballs and strated rasing his voice and was like " if you touch me again i swear" and i got in his face and cut him and was like "what the fuck is your retarded asss gonna do to me" and after he said that he kinda sat back down and i came forward and thats when i felt someone turn me away..
i think he saw my mom show up behind me and thats why he kinda stopped after he raised his voice and sat up...i was livid ready to snap, im talkin hands shakin, ive been in plenty of fights and it was that same feeling after and i paced around my room and i was replayin it and just couldnt belive he did that to my gram, completly ignored her and she had to crawl into the living room tryin to get up and wa ust lucky to have my brother come home at the same time....
i apologized to my gram and mom about my actions cause i snapped and i did push him in the head..he still has not apologized to my gram,,but when i came back to room i heard my mom on the phone with his dad tellin what happened and sayin really hes causein more trouble in the house then we all need...i mean his dad is gone sunday night-friday afternoon" so doesnt relaly know what goes on and when dad comes home hes differnt..during the convo Js mom called his dad and was tryin to figure out the situaton(his mom is such a bitch that shes the typ that would call the cops on me) and i guess his dad told his mom what happened and why and i guess she called J back bitching at him for ignoring a 70year old lady on the ground...he was stickin to his story that he didnt hear her and he didnt want to get kicked out and whatever else but all i know his dad is comin home tomorrow when he shouldnt be home til friday, so someshit is gonna happen..
this shit is like a volcano its been bubbling for a while and smoking and tonite it just exploded and tomorrow his dad prolly whoop his ass and who knows whatelse but my mom was like i think hes gotta go...i mean he eats and smokes more then what hes bringin to the table and even though i live at home rent free, its my house and family i can do that...he doesnt ge the fact that he eats more food then me and my brother combined, he doestn get that he smokes more then what he can afford and that ,my grandma ends up buying himn a few packs every month...he just asks for ciggs and since my grandma is a grandma has a heart of gold and spends her own money on him..he doesnt call his mom or dad when he needs somehting like shoes, no he tells my mom or grandma and they take care of it(or the fact that i just gave him, a pair of slightly used airforce ones, why you might ask cause my mom was buyin him shoes from walmart and he destroying them somehow for one by not wearing socks so they stink or draggin feet or gettin all muddy cleanin them..why dont you wear sock? " i only have a few and they are all dirty, can i use some of chinkys?" my grandma says why dont you tell me i will wash them for you, and then she goes out and buys him freshones"
