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Witholding sex; roles reversed?

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californialove760

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What's up everybody, so I got an interesting situation. My girlfriend loves sex, probably as much as I do. Getting laid is as easy as "hey, you've been studying a while, wanna take a break? ;)"
I am most definitely not complaining, it's fucking awesome. But here's my question. Usually, it's the girl that is able to withhold sex from the guy for some reason or another. But as I'm in this situation where she wants it as much as I do, is withholding it a power I now have?
If it is, is it something I should use or will it end up backfiring on me? It wouldn't be for very long, like a few days at most.

What do you guys think?
 
verso said:
I think that it's the moment when... you realize girls like sex too. lol
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What a mindblowing revelation ;)

If it works on guys it can work on girls, but dyou have a 'legit' reason to do it?
And yeah if you end up missing it more than her you're kinda screwed.
 
She flaked on me today, we were gonna get freaky on one of the empty floors of my uni's library ;) haha. But I waited there for like 15 mins after we said we were gonna meet (half hour total cuz I got outta class early) texted her and she replies she had just gone home (she lives in same apt building as me). I'm not really pissed off about it or anything, I just don't like flakes and she could've told me instead of leaving me waiting.

Thing is she was horny as fuck this morning and is probably still gonna want it later tonight. Should I hold out on her tonight until at least tomorrow?
 
If you want to get into the whole "playing games" thing, then go for it. (meaning yes, it will backfire on you later)
 
College kids love hooking up and screwing other people over. They treat the opposite sex like dirt because they're not ready to commit and see the other as a real person... The other person is just a play thing to play power games with...

When I was in school, they used to have these public service announcement type posters every where on campus that advised against sharing your passwords and other information with your significant other because when the relationship breaks up they can used that information against you.

Maybe its always been a myth, the whole meet your future spouse in college thing. I know one thing though, once you enter the workforce full time, good luck trying to met anyone in the same way that you could when you were in school. Its just not the same.

The worst I've ever seen people treat each other was in college.
 
Well, problem solved for tonight. Apparently we had a misunderstanding of where to meet and her phone had died so she went home. Believable enough for me so no withholding went on tonight ;)

Question still stands though, for certain situations do you think I could use it to my advantage?
 
californialove760 said:
Question still stands though, for certain situations do you think I could use it to my advantage?
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Would you like it, if your GF did that to you? Just remember the old saying - "One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself".
 
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Yeah it's true I suppose it's a slightly immature way to deal with things. Much healthier and productive to talk about your issues rather than resorting to this sort of thing.
 
Its not a "POWER" to hold or use against someone.. it fact its a weapon and anytime someone uses a weapon someone gets hurt and bad things happen.

I have known more relationships to end playing that game then any other.. Its BS, cruel and not very respectful of yourself or your partner..
 
You will come unstuck playing that game. I suggest spanking her for her crime instead, make her squeal like a piglet.
 
AbsintheKittie said:
Its not a "POWER" to hold or use against someone.. it fact its a weapon and anytime someone uses a weapon someone gets hurt and bad things happen.

I have known more relationships to end playing that game then any other.. Its BS, cruel and not very respectful of yourself or your partner..
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Agreed.

fleea said:
make her squeal like a piglet.
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That has got to be the most unsexy thing I have ever heard hahah
 
fleea said:
make her squeal like a piglet.
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Again ... if you want to get into the whole "playing games" thing in your relationship then go for it. But if you want a healthy relationship, I would suggest NOT playing games.
 
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