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Why does my pregnant wife hate me?

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IzGood

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I can't understand it. She hates me.

I know it's hormones. She's having a boy and I've previously been told if they are having a boy they can hate their husband more so than if they are having a girl growing inside them...something to do with hormones.

But seriously....she hates me for everything. Anything I do not 100% correct or slightly wrong, she will sacrifice me to the lambs, tear shreads off me! How to handle her? Ignore her? It's difficult to live with someone who just hates you for no apparent reason / small indescrepencies.
 
Why don't you just have one thread for all your wife issues? It's annoying that you put up questions then never bother to respond to people that offer advice

Maybe she hates you because you see her as someone who is obliged to give you sex on demand
 
Hormonal women are psychotic. I say that as a psychotic, hormonal woman. Just from PMS, I say horrible things to my boyfriend, never really meaning it. Then cry about it later. My advice- give her space to calm down. When she's upset, she's going to lash out at anyone around her. In a few minutes, shell feel awful, and this is when you come back and comfort her, tell her it's okay, you understand. Even if you don't. Be gentle with her, never yell at her, even if she's screaming at you. It's best just to surrender, apologize, and work it out once she's calmed down. I once told my boyfriend I hated him, and (2 months later) I still regret it. He's told me it's okay a hundred times but I never really forgave myself. Moral of the story? It's probably the hormones talking, and when she calms down, she's going to regret it. With PMS, it's over in a week.. Pregnancy? That's going to be a long road- 9 months + 2-3 after giving birth for her hormones to balance out. But remember she DOES love you, shes carrying (I assume) your child.
 
find a copy of "daddy's pregnant too". it will help you get it. don't be an "Accidental Asshole" (from the book).
 
IzGood said:
I can't understand it. She hates me.

I know it's hormones. She's having a boy and I've previously been told if they are having a boy they can hate their husband more so than if they are having a girl growing inside them...something to do with hormones.

But seriously....she hates me for everything. Anything I do not 100% correct or slightly wrong, she will sacrifice me to the lambs, tear shreads off me! How to handle her? Ignore her? It's difficult to live with someone who just hates you for no apparent reason / small indescrepencies.
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is this the violent attention seeking couple? if so then boring...
 
Yeah even I who am pregnant for probably a month now treats my fiance like a total asshole im such a bitch with him but i dont mean to be.. its like my emotions are OUT of control so it is normal. she doesnt hate you. its just hormones are driving her insane. so its not YOU. in the little thing growing insideher.
 
Hormones made me do it?

...Hormones made me do it?... :!

Hormones just give her the "courage" to turn her intentions into actions..
It's similar to alcohol (liquid balls), which lowers our inhibitions, and gives us a false sense of "bravery" ...

Seems to me, she has "issues" with you, and hormones are just the spark that makes her explode...
***That is, unless she's bitchy to everyone around her, Mother and friends included***

Either way, this is not a "normal" behavior, no matter how much, "experts" try to explain/justify it.

I don't believe "empathy" is the solution for this type of problem.

Gd Luck!!

~H~
 
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Threads a month old, but anyway...

I think the op (who again hasn't responded once) was referring to meaningless crap more than actual problems he should awkknowledge and deal with.
 
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