whos in your crew

[fataliss]

When you go out and have a few pills or do what you do, have a boogie, whatever..... who do you go with, do you always go withthe same people??, just one other person or more?? re they male or female??
I usually go with 2 or 3 other people, ususally the same people (j_swift), they are always male and on the few occasions I have taken a female friend (for that mysterious girls bathroom thing

) they have not stayed or just disappear
anyway so my question is mainly to female bluelighters, males feel free to add your 2 cents, who do you usually party with??

 

[Voodoo Chile]

For about 6 months this year, I was the only female in a clubbing group of about 6-8 regulars. When we got everyone together, there was about 12 or 13 of us.
I have recently introduced a female friend to clubbing, but she doesnt come all the time (money restrictions). I have another female friend who comes sometimes, but only about once every 6 weeks.
I prefer to have a male dominated group, but its nice to have another chickie there with you sometimes!
I find that all the guys just want to look after you if you are the only girl!
Luv Voodoo

 

[Soma]

Fuck... I'll go and party with anyone as long as they'll party back!

 

[[serotone]]

what a wierd topic hehe....
well..me being a guy i can only offer my point of view....
my crew consists of..umm at max..probably 20 people...even more i think hehe...of those...about 15 would be guys. The girls are pretty much girl friends of the guys...or if they are single..they don't usually stay that way hehehehehe

um....*shrugs*

 

[Trouble]

hmm.. never really thought about this before!
let's see.. my best mate and I love going out together because: a) we always stay the distance, b) we are popping partners, c) we look alike and the novelty of 'hey, are you two sisters?' still hasn't worn off, d) we never cramp each other's style, e) we both love the car party (great Canberra tradition).. need I go on? actually i love going out with anyone fun, boy or girl.
but for the next day.. she's still up there on my list of comedown buddies but the rest of them are male.. there's something much more chilled about hanging with boys the day after.
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~trouble
(with a pop-o-matic bubble)

 

[fataliss]

serotone,...the topic is so wierd b/c itis actually relatively on topic for the social forum

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"The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes" - Marcel Proust

 

[Psyentist]

I have a few different circles of clubbing friends. I always party with my wifey 'cause she's the best, but as of late I've been hanging out a bit with Pekkie, Funky, Tarsarlan, Decimal Dan and Van Diemen.
Those guys are a heap of fun, but what Bluelighters aren't?

 

[Tarsarlan]

Another guy here...
My crew is whoever is around and wants to party

Used to be a few friends from high school plus a couple of friends-of-friends (a mix of male and female), then it became just Decimal Dan and I, then just me and whoever was around that I'd seen b4 (ie. lots of Bluelighters), and now it's most often the crew in Psyentist's list.

 

[KompleX]

I usually go solo and meet up with people wherever i go. Thats mostly cus my close friends arent into my type of nice hard techno music and all that

It also depends where i go too. If its sumthin i know my close friends would enjoy i bring em along. If its sumthin that only i like, i go solo cus theres usually people already there that have similar interests.
In the end it comes down to where im goin.
If its just a social hangout thing, i got a group of 5.
Then i have other friends that also like to pump tunes and who arent in the other group.
It gets all complicated, ill stop now before u guys get confused.
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Its my duty to please you're booty

 

[Abby]

I found that my 'crew' has changed significantly over the last 2 years . . . and is comprised of completely different people than when it started!
All but for me and my best friend who is male. We started pilling together and i've had very few without him. Yeah he's sort of like a chuppa chup, it's not essential any other time but if I'm out and having pills, I'll chew the fuck out of my mouth otherwise, it's like a safety net, so without him i's prolly do my head in a bit, and it's just not the same without him.
So yeah, it's always been me and him, we'll go out just the 2 of us half the time (when people pike) . . . but yeah it's weird, we usually just go out with who ever is up for it, and there's a lot of people we know from different circles, so it's usually different people all the time. Otherwise we go out just the two of us but always see people we know there and then we hang out with them. I guess we're sort of movers, don't like to be in one place or stick to one thing. It's good this way though.
Yeah I guess we really don't have a crew, just lots of different people we go out with randomly, i suppose because almost everyone i know takes pills, so from all different friendship areas there's always someone who wants to do something. You know what i mean?
However though, there was a time when we did sort of have a regular little group thing happening . . . consisting of me, my best friend and about 6 of his friends from school, and yeah it was good for quite a while. And yeah, i've found that being the only girl, you get looked after which is a really nice feeling. They're constantly checking if you're ok, etc. But i think the downside is that sometimes i wanted to have d&m's with them that would just go over there heads, prolly the sort of stuff i'd talk to a girl about.
Yeah i've never actually been out and taken a pill (or anything else) with a girl or group of girls, Because my best girl friend doesn't touch drugs. I've always been with guys, except for the times one would have a girl friend and bring her along or whatever, but that's not really the same.
But yeah, this little group we had has just sort of merged and morphed, people going off in to different directions etc. It's not like we don't see them anymore, we do just not in the big group way we used to. Also here in perth everyone seems to know everyone else a bit in some way or another, so maybe that's why you can go out to a club or event by your self here and always be garanteed to run in to friends.
Yeah, sorry i've rambled.
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"Avoid the world, it's just a lot of dust and drag and means nothing in the end."
-Jack Kerouac

 

[Adz-O-Rama]

yep..im like KompleX.....i usually go solo..cause most of my friends arnt into the same music as me........i was a bit nervy at first..to go alone...but after a while..ya kinda recognise the same faces at the different clubs and partys..and strike up friendships with them..ya know

...ya never really alone!......these days everywhere i turn i see a friendly face..and hook up with them for a lil bit

.....and on the odd times that i do drag my friends along..i feel guilty to leave them..and go out to dance or woteva....if they just wanna sit and talk shit...but its still good to get out with them sometimes

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StOp ThE WorlD...i WaNNa gEt oFF

 

[Miss Peks]

Well I used to just go out with Funky and her friends, but ever since I joined BL well I pretty much go out with anyone and everyone now, which is good, cause I know that wherever I go I'll see someone I know.

 

[Tarsarlan]

Good to see I'm not alone in being able to go out by myself

But as Adz said, ya never really alone

 

[mort]

I go solo a fair bit too. Most of my close friends don't like my kind of parties (or drugs for that matter). Makes it kind of annoying though. Thats partly why I started meeting up with Bluelighters - someone to party with

However, I tend to be a bit of a wanderer when I'm at a party - I "disappear" from my friends for a while - so I don't think thats just a chick thing. I love wandering around meeting people.
Another question though... who has set their crew up from people they meet at raves? I meet heaps of people, but I rarely ever see/talk to them outside of parties.

 

[atomica]

well my permanent crew for every waking (and non waking) moment outside of work that i can manage is my husband asymmetry =) we are like peas in a pod.=)
outside of that, its whoever's around that we know or meet! we always run in to folks we know out n about, lots of bluelighters and otherwise. and as most bl'rs who know me know, i'm likely to disappear as quickly as i appear, i have a tendency to wander off.
=)

 

[Sim^kin]

I kinda did it solo.
But in the beginning; well I used to go out with my g/f's but they were only following their b/f's to cheesy clubs.
I didn’t like the scene & well, my friends didn’t like the fact that I was always getting knocked back for wearing runner

So I started going out on my own...
Until I met Pink...

Now were inseparable, well at least until I reach my expiry date

 

[fat tony]

a lot of my close friends aren't into raving and pills, they are mostly big hip-hop heads. so my best mates won't come out and party most of the time.. i know they'd love it.. but i'll let them find out for themselves when they feel like it.
so i go raving with like a couple of close friends.. but now even they have gf's (who are way straight), daym succubus's

like it's good they don't take drugs.. but it's coz of the ladies.. not coz of any personal desire to not come raving & pilling.
so i party with some old friends and heaps of friends of friends. i always try to get everyone involved in stuff but ppl don't like to make decisions much i've found.. coz i love it when EVERYONE is there.. but it rarely happens.
its kinda weird coz you get those close friends who you only rave/do drugs with. and sometimes you wonder why you don't hang out with em at any other times.
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if the journey's fun, it's well worth taking.

 

[shank]

Yes why is it a lot of the time the crew you go out, you only see to meet up and take drugs and go out. A lot of the time there are other things you can do together but you dont. I really wonder why this happens i know it happens to me. I have a group of friends i speand the weekend with going out etc. Then during the week i hang out with another bunch of people.
l8a
shank

 

[entropope]

generally as many good friends as possible.
Which is sometimes 1, sometimes 30.
Most of my close friends I've been good friends with since early high school days. (for about 7 years I guess)
So we're a tight nit group. Also go out with new friends, and bluelighters, some of which have become good friends

aaawwwwww
The bigger the better I feel. That way you can always find someone, no matter what. And you have so much variety in personality, and so much conversation stimulation.

 

[tidygirl]

well i normally go out with my boyfriend and my brother(well he's really one of my best friends who asked if he could be my brother on my birthday

and so now hes my adopted brother hehe.)
but before i met my brother I used to pretty much go out by myself because most my friends are into cheesy clubs and 'picking up' other cheesy clubbers and its not really my scene. I don't see them as much now because of it, but theres nothing worse that watching everyone get totally pissed and all u want to do is go dance to some half decent music.
My boyfriend was only slightly into dance music when i met him but i kind of dragged him into it and now he loves going out.
Personally too I like the fact that guys talk to me, because they want to talk about the music or whatever and not because they want to pick up for the night like 90% of the ones at the cheese clubs.
Besides my dream guy has to be utterly addicted to hard thumping beats like myself or he won't know whats hit him hehe
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