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Where do you want to be 10 years from now?

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What do you want to achieve in the next decade? I have no idea for myself, and Im just wondering if other people had an idea of what they wanted for themselves?
 
I hope to be a DPT. I'm going to school right now. My goals are what keep me going-they give me a reason to live well and not just party my otherwise miserable ass off. I hope to be of impressive muscular size (for myself), which I am currently working on. I hope to be smoke free. I hope to live on my own, in an apartment while I save up to buy a house. I hope to eat out at least once a day, nice places like all you can eat sushi bars, buying as many drinks as I like. I hope to have multiple girlfriends, or just one really great one, and few really good friends to go out with when I have time. I hope to have a nice car too. Right now, I'm just biting the shit, trying to appreciate what I have while I work towards my ideal future.
 
I hope to have found companionship. I hope to have a family to call my own; a clan to belong to, to participate in and lead. I hope to have mastered my musical instruments and singing ability.

More than anything, I hope that I am no longer alone.
 
I want to know where I stand, or where TO stand, if you know what I mean.
I want to feel comfortable in my own skin, no matter what my skin looks like.
All our external factors are largely irrelevant to the heart of the matter, yet not. Any sort of goal short of the aformentioned seem utterly fruitless to me.
 
I think Ive decided id like to be in a secure enjoyable job, with reasonable income, wife and a close knit social circle. Thats FAR too ambitious though. Genuinely, thats pretty much the foundation of happiness in todays world isnt it?

I may have missed the point in this 'life' malarkey....
 
All you people saying dead are unhappy and not thinking clearly and you have my sympathy or empathy, and I hope you sort out the thing inside you that makes you say that before it's too late.
 
CoffeeDrinker said:
All you people saying dead are unhappy and not thinking clearly and you have my sympathy or empathy, and I hope you sort out the thing inside you that makes you say that before it's too late.
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Oh so you're going to one of those people trying to stop me achieving my goals.
 
it'll take a lot but i want our first mortgage to be just about done by then. more than this i hope that my marriage is and family is still together and happy about it. this will also take quite a lot of work. i hope to be professionally stable and in a position making use of my degree/s.
 
Hopefully not drowned by the ocean. Its raining now. Its January. I live in Canada. And its scaring the daylights out of me.

Still alive and enjoying life, how about that? For all you dead heads out there. :D
 
davez said:
Oh so you're going to one of those people trying to stop me achieving my goals.
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If you're a life-form your chief concern should be life, there is evidence of this fact everywhere. If your brain has made you think otherwise, then I am sorry for you. I've been suicidal too. I've been hospitalized for suicide attempts too, though that's not worth getting into and I'm not currently suicidal at all. It's just a trick of the human mind in response to adverse situations. I'm not really sure what you mean exactly in this quote, however.
If you think dead is what you want, your brain=malfunctioning, plain and simple. Malfunctions don't last forever, however. They might not even last all that long, to be honest. Things can turn around pretty quickly if you try to try.
 
show, don't tell

if you were suicidal yourself then you should know how futile it is to try to convince someone else, well, anything
 
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