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When masturbating, are you fantasizing? or are you focused on the feelings?

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I have visual fantasies while I masturbate. Is this how it is for most people? Or do some people focus primarily on the feeling and not visualize at all?
 
I focus on the feeling (especially once I self-lubricate with some pre-cum goodness) but I also imagine a lot. I usually try to remember how it felt when fucking or getting sucked by someone.
 
Rogue Robot said:
That all depends on how much time I want to invest in the moment, how I'm feeling and other factors.
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This. If i'm blowing off steam, it's usually fantasizing and what not.
If i'm actually trying to work on my control and what not, then i'll be taking my time, focusing on the feelings and emotions, trying to reach that elusive MMO ;(
 
YEP......not for a good 2+ years since I could immerse myself in that moment!!! But I have to say that when I did, everything else gave way to pure sensation and just how to bring about that sense of animalistic drive just as intense as humanly possible!!!!!!! :o
 
hyroller said:
YEP......not for a good 2+ years since I could immerse myself in that moment!!! But I have to say that when I did, everything else gave way to pure sensation and just how to bring about that sense of animalistic drive just as intense as humanly possible!!!!!!! :o
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Somewhat disturbing due to your avatar... :P
 
I pretty much always fantasize and use my imagination. Usually I'll close my eyes and try to remember situations and sensations I've previously experienced that really turned me on. Sometimes I can imagine the sounds too which for some reason totally get me off. Occasionally I'll imagine myself in a situation that I'd never actually enter except in my mind too though.
 
ExtraOrdinary said:
I pretty much always fantasize and use my imagination. Usually I'll close my eyes and try to remember situations and sensations I've previously experienced that really turned me on. Sometimes I can imagine the sounds too which for some reason totally get me off. Occasionally I'll imagine myself in a situation that I'd never actually enter except in my mind too though.
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It's funny because vast majority of times, I fantasize about the hottest past experiences I've had with girls. I do at times fantasizse about girls I've never had sex with; but I can't get off fully by fantasizing about a girl I've never had sex with because in the back of my head I know it's just fantasy and never happened.
 
I don't focus on the feelings...like ever...my wood disappears if there's no aim in the game besides the feeling...always fantasizing or having visual stimulation. I like to read a good sexy story - then you create vivd images in your head all by yourself if the story's a good one.

I'd have to say I like this a lot more than watching most porn.

Texyemma - that's pretty mental! Why don't you try some of them out?? could be fun. :)
 
Hard to answer when I've been hardcore porn consumer for years. Theres not so much space for thoughts when its so easy to get carried away by porn.

I remember tho that never masturbating the though of a current partner. I always masturbate for previous sex experiences. Sometimes to fantasies about a workmate or a teacher etc, but not so often.
 
I think about past people I have had sex with as well as someone that I want to have sex with. My husband has a small package so sometimes I will think about a large cock I me ;-)
 
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