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What's the quickest it's taken you to get someone to have sex with you?

Jabberwocky

Jabberwocky

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I had a bit of a crazy Sunday which I will never forget. Was heading home after a few drinks and a girl approached me telling me she had cut herself. I helped her out and the next thing you know she couldn't get into the bar so we went for a walk and chat, turns out we're both drunk and one thing leads to another and she is horny as hell. From meeting to doing it, it took 20 minutes. Definitely last thing I would expected would of happened on that night as I'm not the most attractive guy.

Not sure if I will meet with her, I want to but we shall see how it goes.

Any how it just had me thinking, has anyone else gone through anything like this or what was the time it took you to do it?
 
I think this post needs some clarifying...

Are we going by shortest amount of time between meeting them and having sex?
Are we going by shortest amount of time between deciding you want to have sex with them and having sex with them?
Does it matter how long it is it between expressing interest, and having sex?

I've only had sex with 5 people and in all but one of those cases, they asked me, but then again I'm not a guy, so that also add potential bias from poster gender to consider. In the case of the one guy I asked, I'd met him and befriended him a couple months prior, there was some sexual chemistry but nothing major. After I said to him I wanted too it took approx 20 seconds. So is it several months or several seconds? I don't think either of us had any out right intentions of sleeping together until the actual day it happened.

Also do you have to ask them? Or can they ask you and it still count? So vague.
 
I've had nights where I met a girl and we had sex within hours

Sometimes, though, it was like talking for a few nights, followed by meeting up for drinks, then sex

Or, sometimes, it was just being friends then sex

It depends
 
I dont like the whole bullshit small talk thing on the rare occasion I meet a man that is very sexually attractive and get the signals he finds me attractive. I dont see the point as Im happily single and dont want to get involved with anyone.

One bloke in particular started a conversation with me mid afternoon at a pub. We went outside for a smoke and he grabbed my hand and I just said"are we going to end up fucking? If so lets just cut the crap and go to my place".

He seemed relieved that he didnt have to do the whole "Im really interested in your lifes story" shit and within an hour or so we had fucked and smashed my side table doing so. We fucked and drank and fucked again and again until we got tired and hungry and had the worlds best pizza for dinner.

He came back later the next day and replaced the table and saw each other for a while.

Great guy.

That was fun. Wish it happened more often.
 
My husband knows when i travel i need laid, that said when i check into a Hotel while traveling for business i can't wait to find a nice hard cock to ride. I don't want love or anything like that and most men appreciate my openness that all i want is cock. My husband said do whatever, just don't bring any bugs home. Last evening i arrived in Boston and checked in to the Hilton Garden Inn and went to the workout center where there was a handsome older man on the treadmill. Small talk led to us having a drink at the bar in our work out clothes and within 2 hours he was pounding me hard. Start to finish 3 hours.
 
I wouldn't know how to work the time frame out with these.

When I was 14 I met this girl at a punk concert, she made shit easy saying I was cute and shit. Talked to her 5 minutes made plans to meet later.

Went over the crib she and her friend were there, these girls weren't fucking around went straight to the bedroom they starting pouring strawberry syrup on me or some shit sucked my dick and it was on. I had never fucked before that, nice way to start, and thank God I didn't get those hoes pregnant.

So a delayed 5 minutes.

In my late teens early 20s when I had a huge social circle and was the baddest dude in it (thugged the fuck out) I fucked a lot of girls on the first date, and it wasn't even a date. Pulling girls in bathrooms and shit.

My game fell off when I got commited to the state hospital for 2 years over a PCPd up beatdown. I was out the game 2 years (did fuck 2 insane inmate girls, one of who was deformed, hey there weren't many options) and got caught up in a bad drug addiction and sex has been sporadic. When I'm strung out I don't get laid I'm fucking dirty for one thing when I clean up I do alright. But ya even though I've been fuckin less I don't wait more than 2 dates so it's still quick, I figure all these girls have fucked guys the day they met if they're making me wait they don't like me that much.

Now that I'm getting my life straight I hope to go beyond trashy hoes but I've never loved a girl, I mean I loved them like I love money or almost as much as my dog but never enough to sacrifice anything etc. I've been with girls a little while and thought I did but once the novelty wore out I realized it was more infatuation.

So yeah I'm stuck cuz I want to have sex with decent human beings but have developed a conscience since I quit my 10 year at least 3 times a week pcp habit and found God and don't want to break a good girls heart but I don't know if I'm capable of anything other than short term flings, I don't even know if good girls exist to be honest man, some girls seem real wholesome until they suck your dick in their best friends bedroom while she's doing an errand and forget to wipe the cum off their neck etc

maybe I'll find one in church.
 
are you serious? i'm gay. less than a minute. (i don't do casual sex anymore, but i had my times)
 
^ hahaha

i know didn't really see the point of this thread loool but for straights its some sort of cool thing that isn't always easy. SMH
 
It's probably only relevant to straight men. At least for the most part.

If you're a even mildly attractive woman in theory it should be pretty easy, gay men apparently do it like neutered bunnies (hey don't get mad I'm just goin on what I hear, I'm neither gay nor male so take it for the absolute jack that it's worth).

So that leaves straight men who want to have lots of sex with women but lots of women with social pressure, and possibly a lower libido on average keeping them from doing it, creating an imbalance.

Just a thought.
 
Yeah, with gay guys, it's...how fast can you get the clothes off? LoL

I admit it, I'm a ho.
 
Well, losing my virginity was interesting. I was closing in on 20 and the topic came up with some guys I had just started hanging out with. He promptly informed me that was horrible and he'd take care of it. A little while later some girls he knew showed up (they were coming anyway, he didn't call them) and I was told to go wait in my car. Sure enough 5 minutes later one of the girls jumps in and asks if I want to have sex, then 2 minutes later we're over parked at the front door of a church going at it in the back seat. Good times.

Then of course there's the college+alcohol scenarios. Was at a frat party and this girl I'd never seen before just walked up to me and grabbed my crotch. Took 15 minutes that time though, my dorm was a long walk away.
 
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