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What would you do if YOU found out your KIDS?

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Psychubus

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I know we think this a lot about our own parents, like what would happen if they were to find your weed/bong/ecstasy/syringes or something...

But what would you do if the tables were turned? As in, you are the parent, and you discovered all your kids' shit? Asssuming you are a responsible adult, how would you honestly react and handle the situation if you found your kids':
1) Marijuana-related stash/bongs/pipes
2) Psychedelic stash/LSD/mushrooms/mescaline/etc.
3) Pills/Prescription (even ecstasy or DXM)
4) Hard drugs (cocaine, meth, heroin)/syringes/razorblades/etc.

I'm just curious as to how a bunch of drug users would handle this situation.
 
I wouldn't be all that worried about marijuana. But I would sit down with them and discuss how to use it safely. LSD/Shrooms I would definitely make sure they were getting trip sitters and being safe.

The rest I'd want to convince my kids not to do.
 
1) Teach him about weed and let him make his own decisision (as long as he wasnt missing classes and he was keeping his grades up)

2)talk to him about it.... if he was a regular user of them i would do something about it... if he was every few months or so i'd teach him about them....

3) tell him hes a dumbass for using prescription but tell him ecstasy is an amazing experience and an amazing drug.... but once you abuse it you see the dark side of it and its never the same again...

4) REHAB! REHAB! REHAB!!!!! my family has very addictive genes... and i know from personal experience the only thing that works for us for these drugs is REHAB...
 
1) Wouldn't care as long as they weren't a careless idiot. Only allow them to do it outdoors or in the home.

2) I'd ask about the frequency of their usage and try to find out just how much they know about what they are taking.

3) If it was X I'd tell them how much it could fuck up their brain. If it was vicodin I'd tell them how that can lead to heroin. If it was a benzo I probably wouldn't care.

4) Inform them about how hard drugs fucked up my life. How I destroyed relationships with friends and significant others and ended up selling all my cool stuff. Then send them to rehab.

Sounds hypocritical, but I really wouldn't be happy to find out my children were abusing any drug. Drugs have probably brought me more suffering than pleasure, but pandora's box has been opened.
 
my main concern would be that they were using the drug safely and intelligently, no matter what the drug, from marijuana to heroin. and i'd let them do what they want as long as they kept their grades up, continued to participate in other activities they enjoyed, and had approximately normal social lives. i want my kids to use drugs. drugs have made me think about the world very differently and for the better.
 
1. Wouldn't have a problem as long as they didn't have large quantities and scales.

2. Teach them and have them research every drug they are taking. I would also like to have them do it at the house instead of out in public.

3. Pills...Depends on what it is. I wouldn't want them taking X at all. I wouldn't mind about a few painkillers or benzos as long as the frequency and doses are relatively low.

4. Hard drug. If i find coke/crack heroin or meth then all hell is going to break loose. I want the best for my kids and they'll never get to be where they want if they're wacked out on on theese drugs at a young age.
 
I like how everyone is slamming #4, the "hard" drugs. May all your kids be alcoholic potheads. ;)

I think what matters is that they're honest about their use, and that they know what they're getting into. Of course, this implies that the parents know what those drugs are truly all about as well.
 
If they were under 16 they'd be punished.

If they were 16 or over I'd make them write an essay on harm reduction. If they couldn't write a satisfactory essay they wouldn't be allowed to continue to use.
 
phrozen said:
I like how everyone is slamming #4, the "hard" drugs. May all your kids be alcoholic potheads. ;)
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+1
i mean, yeah, i can understand how you would want your young kids to stay away from crack/meth...however, everyone underestimates the potential harm of alcohol and weed. i've seen kids turn into lazy fucks who smoke weed all day and then drink beer all night. weed strips people of motivation. occasional use seems to be fine...it's the people who smoke all day every day who seem to have the biggest issues...however, occasional use of heroin is also fine...again, it's the people who overuse it who have problems.
 
1) I would give him a quarter ounze of some fine ass bud and make him smoke the whole thing infront of me, just to teach him a lesson , eh?;)
2)Show him the responsible and irresponsible way of useing these things, but it also depends on what phycs, becasue i would not allow RCs because they just too unpredictable
3)Yell, and yell and yell untill he realizes that those are for daddy to have fun with, NOT YOU!!
4) I would immediatly check him/her into rehab as, I also have a large history of addiction in my family.

For the most part I woulnt be too pissed about any of this except #4 because I would just like to see my kids have as much fun with drugs as I have:\
I just hate when parents get mad at their children for doing it in the first place, when they know damn right that when they were our age, $1000 says they did as much, or even more drugs than we do/did.

mtd25
 
If they were 16 or over I'd make them write an essay on harm reduction. If they couldn't write a satisfactory essay they wouldn't be allowed to continue to use.
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Have you written one yourself?

it's the people who smoke all day every day who seem to have the biggest issues...however, occasional use of heroin is also fine...again, it's the people who overuse it who have problems.
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How do you know it wouldn't be your child who would start using heroin daily? You have no guarantee that an honest talk and awareness of danger would be enough.

I think what matters is that they're honest about their use, and that they know what they're getting into. Of course, this implies that the parents know what those drugs are truly all about as well.
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I can't believe people who've used drugs for years are so reckless. How is one supposed to know what he or she is getting into before she actually gets? In case of drugs it's not possible to know what will happen.

Maybe some of you have been punished by your parents for drug use and it appears now you wouldn't do the same to your children knowing how it feels. But do you know how it feels to have children? It's a shame anyone who has kids didn't write anything about his point of view.
 
Good idea for a thread

1) Marijuana-related stash/bongs/pipes: I would not be worried or upset. I would tell my child it is not such a bad thing to do but not to do it a lot or atleast make sure i dont see them doing it.

2) Psychedelic stash/LSD/mushrooms/mescaline/etc. : I would sit down with my kids and talk to them about the risk of psychedelic's like what to do if you are having a bad trip and how to avoid them/OD'ing.

3) Pills/Prescription (even ecstasy or DXM) : I would tell them how bad it is for them if they do it to much and to often.

4) Hard drugs (cocaine, meth, heroin)/syringes/razorblades/etc." We wouldhave a big problem if it came down to this.
 
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Asssuming you are a responsible adult, how would you honestly react and handle the situation if you found your kids':
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3) Pills/Prescription (even ecstasy or DXM)
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If it were benzo, I would accept it. (After all, they could be prescribed for all I know.) E is perhaps not something kids should use, and definitely not DXM...
 
I can't believe people who've used drugs for years are so reckless. How is one supposed to know what he or she is getting into before she actually gets? In case of drugs it's not possible to know what will happen.

Maybe some of you have been punished by your parents for drug use and it appears now you wouldn't do the same to your children knowing how it feels. But do you know how it feels to have children? It's a shame anyone who has kids didn't write anything about his point of view.
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I don't see how that's reckless. And what does it matter if I have kids or not? There are plenty of parents out there, that have the same viewpoint as me.

I'm there to share what I know and my experiences, what they choose to take from that is up to them. It's their choice, especially after they're considered an adult( 18 ). I'm not talking about encouraging use or anything like that, and I'll certainly help them with addiction if that need comes up. But its all up to them.
 
For all drugs I'd fucking lecture them; tell them everything I know about the drugs, the good sides and the bad sides.
Imo, telling your kids something like, "i'm not allowing you to do meth." will ultimately just make them even more curious. I'm not saying I would actually promote a hardcore drug and tell them to do it, but I'd certainly give them an idea of what they're walking into.

After all, it's their life. My own parents have been pretty liberal when it comes to decisions like these, and they've always told me and showed me that they'll be there for me no matter what (cliche, I know, but whtaever) I'd like to do the same for my kids.
 
1) Marijuana-related stash/bongs/pipes
2) Psychedelic stash/LSD/mushrooms/mescaline/etc.
3) Pills/Prescription (even ecstasy or DXM)
4) Hard drugs (cocaine, meth, heroin)/syringes/razorblades/etc.
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Haha, I've been caught with something from all 4. My folks have found pot, pipes, other weed paraphenalia, bottles and bottles of liquor, shrooms, Lortabs, Valium, Xanax, robogels/DXM capsules, syringe w/o needle (they sitll use this one on me, even after almost a year), razorblades and snorters, and a whole bunch of other shit.
Some of my friends joke and say "If I was your parents I would just keep you on a fuckin leash". Thinking about it, I guess I could see why.

I can understand why a parent would freak, and honestly, I don't know if I'd be real cool with my kids (if I have any) doing the same shit I did, or if they do they better fuckin share their stash. Pot is okay by me though =D
 
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